You can use small edits in your name and adress, which could of just been overlooked if ever asked.
In 99% of the cases you are just a small fish in a huge fucking ocean that no decent sized register pays attention to. ICANN emails are sent out each year asking you to update/recheck your information, but it's all automated.
A lot of domains are actual under a different name than the original owner of the website. Local companies all over the world place domains under their name for the client. If you are worried about the register removing your name just setup a demo web dev website and explain them the domain is under the clients name, but this is most likely never going to happen.
I still have domains under a partners name that now completely belong to me, and I just ignore the auto ICANN email and nothing has ever happened. (6 years+)