Ha, guess i am the complete opposite. BHW has made a HUGE difference in my life and thanks to this site and the information provided by the members on services and SEO techniques i am now a full time IMer making a decent ($xxx a day) income and decided to become a Donor on Jan 1st 2012 to give something back.
After becoming a Donor i quickly realized from reading one of the threads that a should have paid for Jr VIP instead and would get Jr VIP access but also show as a donor. So, i emailed the site owner to see what could be done and within a few hours Diamond Damian personally upgraded my account to Jr VIP!
So while others are looking to leave, i am looking forward to learning and making more money in 2012. Some of the most valuable info i have learned have been from the odd post here and there by regular members. those looking for 'leader' to post exact methods and tell them what to do should with respect go get a job as they prob failing right now and want to blame the forum and not themselves.