Stupid people always find insult when they fail to understand something, or when their (wrong) notions of "how things are supposed to be" fail to fit situations as they really are. You've clearly demonstrated that you really don't want advice; you'd much prefer to have a big drama about you the insulted, wounded, offended, insulted victim being brutalized and abused by some ruthless internet bully online. A drama queen that has nothing substantive to offer in a social conversation except the ability to instantly transform yourself into the center of attention as an abused victim, as a direct result of your inability to appreciate and understand messages as they were intended to be conveyed. You have a serious handicap, and it appears you've been rewarded and enabled for that handicap and you expect to be "mommied" wherever you go, even online. It's time to grow up son, and stop crying like a little girl every time things don't go exactly as you think they should.