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Being an IMer how do you manage to get a girlfriend?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by imnot, Nov 23, 2012.

  1. imnot

    imnot Newbie

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    As you all are aware that an Internet Marketers job doesn't allow much to socialize. Unlike when we work in corporates we can hit up some hot chicks. But I feel sad that I don't have a circle(All of them working). I see hot chicks on street and feel depressed:)o). So I feel lonely and crazy sometimes :crazy:

    Need some tips :p
     
  2. mickyfu

    mickyfu Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    You are obviously doing it all wrong, I do IM so that I do not have to work and have more than enough time on my hands.
     
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  3. Ghoast

    Ghoast Power Member

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    I get what you mean about not being in an environment like an office or somewhere were you and girls are in the same place everyday..

    Just go out with your friends on the weekend and you'll find some girls.. Bookshops are good for picking up women, so is are museums.. Haha it is the age old question though and it is quite strange so many people have this problem - as you say yourself there are hot girls EVERYWHERE!

    Kinda like being stranded at sea and being thirsty.. water everywhere but you can't drink it!

    Just go about your life and try and stop and chat with girls when you're in the supermarket, having a beer or with friends.

    Also getting into sport is a great way to meet girls, join a tennis club or a cycling/jogging club - bonus here is that most of the women will be in good shape too!
     
  4. james406

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    Offline methods...
     
  5. Getwhatchuwant

    Getwhatchuwant Elite Member

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    I am married, I let my wife get girlfriends for me..... :)
     
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  6. BigFatWallet

    BigFatWallet Power Member

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    Get married.
     
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    1. go work from starbucks on their Wi-Fi 2-3 hours a day - even if just to browse the web check stats
    2. same for Panera
    3. Go to Bank and deposit large checks at various branches until you find hot teller
    4. Go spend some of the $$$$ at some up market stores - clothes / watches / cars
    5. rent an office for a day at a Regus or something and spend the day speaking to all the other business owners/employees until you meet a nice one
    6. go to special event parties - like Superbowl etc - where people are in a good mood and easy to talk too.
    7. join like a kayaking group or sports group - softball etc -- meet more people = more chance of success

    You got to up your game though as you have limited amount of time to speak with them - so make an impression.... have business cards/phone/email/facebook accounts -- clean and showing what a nice person you are.

    Best of Luck !!
     
  9. Georgebg

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  10. truepals_forever

    truepals_forever Senior Member

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    haha

    imnotBARTMAN ?


    This is BHW Bartman - We can always track you ;)
     
  11. karupoiss

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    Have you heard of a company called Real Social Dynamics? It's a company that helps people with social skills but it's main goal is to help men get better with women. http://www.rsdnation.com/ is their website and the best part is the forums where you can get lot's of advice and help. It's full of value giving people like BHW is.

    I found out rsdnation 4 years ago and there was an offtopic topic about internet marketing and how people make money online. It's because of that forum I started learning about IM and eventually found this forum.

    I REALLY REALLY HIGHLY recommend you to go to that site and forum and read a lot. Social skills with women are like IM, you have to try a lot and find the way of doing things that suit you the best. Good luck!
     
  12. meannn

    meannn Supreme Member

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    I use blackhat methods on that also.
     
  13. Redox123

    Redox123 Regular Member

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    buy some women
     
  14. ThreadKiller

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    Seems like I offended someone with this post. Don't care about the neg. rep. Just wanted to underline that I meant no harm, therefore the edit.
     
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  16. Duffers5000

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    Set up a website.
    Selling web development/social networking and seo services for smaller companies
    Specialise in Boutiques, Hair salons, tanning shops, beauty salons
    Target these companies with an offer of either web dev if they dont have a site or offer to rank there sites and tell them you can get get them much more exposure on the web....reviews and press releases etc for a very fair fee.
    You are of course available to drop in for a consultation and you can offer a monthly service where you can drop into clients for updates.

    Make money and meet lots of women on a regular basis. If that doesnt work for you go internet dating.......where the odds are good but the goods are odd.
     
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    Get an office and wear a tux everyday. Chicks love businessmen ;)
     
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