Backlinking here

Well it seems that everytime I try to write a review or post a comment on a blog, they do not accept web addresses in the post. Is there a way to tell what sites allow them and what ones do not? Also, is there a way to search in search engine to see what sites do allow as well. I would like to also note to newbs because I am one myself, that if you see no immediate results don't give up. Take a break for a day or two and get back at it. I have had NO traffic whatsoever to my new site I built. I had 3 visitors, that was it for a week. Then yesterday it jumped to 12, which made me feel a bit relieved. So keep it up

Here's some checklist that might help you:
1. Make sure the comment is topic-related and not spammy
2. Did you put the link inside the post? Maybe next time try to put it in the "website" column
3. If you want more traffic, try to spread the words in twitter or youtube

Bluet,
Thanks for such a great reply. I have been using the first two steps, but there is some posts that do not supply a "website" column entry. When submitting, I get thrown back a error message stating the blog does not accept web addresses inside the posting. Anyway, I better start writing more unique articles, I don't know why so many people complain about writing, it's pretty easy if you ask me. Late

Well this thread can be closed. BAM this is all I needed
http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackh...**-blog-pages-good-page-ranking-yourself.html

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