Wiz, what you said...brought back old memories. I say make sure you grieve properly. Don't run away from it. It always catches up on you and the longer you leave it the more painful it becomes when it does hit you. So getting on with life is a good thing, but unhappy feelings are best dealt with early and head on. Grieve and Cry and get some of it out of your system early is the best way. Most woman tend to grieve early naturally, where men tend to hold it in. But like i say, best to at least try and grieve early. Rather than bury your head in the sand. Hope you don't mind me saying that.
best,
Rudy