Anyone regret not buying a house?

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Those of you who own a house (or more) right now, are probably doing well so I congratulate you.
People like me who are still renting are regretting not having bought a house earlier.

Only 3 years ago back in 2018, I was eyeing a house for myself. It was going for around 240k. A 3 bedroom house (bungalow) with a nice front yard, just for me lonely single me.
But I didn't like the idea of putting all my savings into the house and still have to pay a mortgage year after year. What I didn't realize was that owning a house is basically like living for free.
In fact, you get PAID to live in a house. The reason is because when you own a house, the value of the property goes up over time and eventually you'll double what you originally paid for the house.
It just seems like you are paying 240k for a house but you aren't. You are just temporarily putting money into it but it's all going to be yours in the end plus another 240k some years down the line when you decide to move out and sell.

So I regret not buying that house now. I went to check on it today in 2021 cuz I was thinking of trying to buy it again but someone already bought it (lives there) and the value is estimated now at around 320k from just 3 years ago. I would have made 80k just living in that house. If only someone taught me this is how housing actually works.

Buying/owning your property (house or condo) basically means you are living in it for free and actually getting paid money to live in it over the long haul. Sure you have to pay your usual bills and taxes, but overall, you are basically living for free and getting paid to have a house.
 
My parents made a good decision when they bought a condo back in 2004 for 310k. Today in 2021 if they were to sell their condo unit, the market value is around 700k.
Damn. I got to get me property!
 
I do regret not buying a few more houses (or even land) pre-covid :(
Prices sky-the-fuck-rocketed here in my area
 
Grab a map of your city. Grab it for every year for the last 10 years.
Look at what direction your city is expanding.
GO buy cheap land near that expanding area. Cheapest you can buy.
Start building your house ( it's cheaper than buying it ).

This is how real estate investors are making most of their money
 
I'm living in a house now. I don't like that you have to constantly fix and finish something in the house. It takes a lot of time and attention

You are correct. The thing about living in a house is of course more maintenance. Cut the grass, shovel the snow off the driveway, clean the gutters, fight off the raccoons, and so much more haha. Yes true. I guess condo living is a good alternative as long as you OWN it and not rent.
 
Grab a map of your city. Grab it for every year for the last 10 years.
Look at what direction your city is expanding.
GO buy cheap land near that expanding area. Cheapest you can buy.
Start building your house ( it's cheaper than buying it ).

This is how real estate investors are making most of their money

Smart plan. I never thought of that either. I always wanted to build/design my own house. Haha, I don't want a conventional layout. I like having lots of hallways, corridors,
with secret passages to different rooms. I want a house like that haha.
 
That's not entirely true, the price could also have went down (real estate market decline) and you couldn't know at the time. Be easy on yourself
 
Reach dad poor dad didn't advise me to buy a house
 
Grab a map of your city. Grab it for every year for the last 10 years.
Look at what direction your city is expanding.
GO buy cheap land near that expanding area. Cheapest you can buy.
Start building your house ( it's cheaper than buying it ).

This is how real estate investors are making most of their money
I do this, but the lazy version.

Instead of buying the land and building your own property, i bought cheap existing properties in the district the city is next going to expand to.
 
I regret I didn't buy an iPhone back in the days... Now it's $1500 which is a lot in my country.
I feel like a low baller.
 
You're not 'making money' from a house you're living in. It's just on paper. To book that profit you'll have to sell the house, landing up again in a rented house or buying an even more expensive house.
The money you make is from additional properties that you invest in.
Also, to answer your question, it's always better to own your house. Even I'm aiming to achieve that soon.
 
Regrets should never be a part of life
There is a modern culprit of being unsuccessful which is called "masturbation".
A group of people unknown to me came up with a "no-fap" strategy to counteract the lack of success in different areas of life.
Now, once they have some fun in bed, they regret it and so, their thoughts are affected and they feel bad about themselves, writing what they did on /r/whatever.
 
Buying property is one of the safest investments out there, I bought land in late 2015 and now the price is almost quadrupled. I bought an apartment in February this year and the price already rising 20%(thanks to covid, I bought it below market price). Not as fancy as crypto but as many said you can put all your money on a single type of investment
 
Those of you who own a house (or more) right now, are probably doing well so I congratulate you.
People like me who are still renting are regretting not having bought a house earlier.

Only 3 years ago back in 2018, I was eyeing a house for myself. It was going for around 240k. A 3 bedroom house (bungalow) with a nice front yard, just for me lonely single me.
But I didn't like the idea of putting all my savings into the house and still have to pay a mortgage year after year. What I didn't realize was that owning a house is basically like living for free.
In fact, you get PAID to live in a house. The reason is because when you own a house, the value of the property goes up over time and eventually you'll double what you originally paid for the house.
It just seems like you are paying 240k for a house but you aren't. You are just temporarily putting money into it but it's all going to be yours in the end plus another 240k some years down the line when you decide to move out and sell.

So I regret not buying that house now. I went to check on it today in 2021 cuz I was thinking of trying to buy it again but someone already bought it (lives there) and the value is estimated now at around 320k from just 3 years ago. I would have made 80k just living in that house. If only someone taught me this is how housing actually works.

Buying/owning your property (house or condo) basically means you are living in it for free and actually getting paid money to live in it over the long haul. Sure you have to pay your usual bills and taxes, but overall, you are basically living for free and getting paid to have a house.

Im definitely happy my houses' value went up over 100k the past year.. insane.

The best advice i can give whoever is trying to buy a house and is still renting is to 'house hack'.

Meaning buy a duplex / triplex/ quadplex, (you'll still qualify for FHA) live in 1 unit rent the rest out. You'll either live for free or the tenants will even make u some profit after your mortage payment and expenses... and from there build your real estate portfolio..

Im in the process of buying another property its a duplex, hopefully, my offer gets accepted because I really believe prices are only going up especially in areas that are in serious demand and not much land to build on.. so if i were u op definitely look to buy renting is such a waste and shouldnt be done in the long term.
 
I want to buy a flat...
But this is not true in case of flats , right? If its not in a very good place then the price will not increase that much in 20-30 years...Because everyone will looking for newly built apartments mostly...
 
Yes, I should have bought a decent apartment in Bangkok in 2015-2017 instead of always paying too much for Airbnbs. I could have rented it to someone myself or live there any time I want. Also, of course it is something for the future and an investment. But this happens if you only think short term and you don't really know what you want for the future. In reality, its not a bad thing to think long term and to make such investments. It can be (!) an overall smart decision...especially if you saved a lot of money or have the knowledge to earn even more.
 
i think if you gonna filp it it's always a good idea contrary a house to live in ot will cost you a shithole of money you can rent and invest that money in something good
 
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