Any way to bypass aksimet ban?

Hello, i am a newbie to SEO and have been putting a lot of work and effort into it lately. I've managed to rank my site at 4th position for my keyword so far but am having a slight problem. My site was aksimet banned a while ago, i sent them an email and they unbanned it but said if it gets banned again they wont unban it. Within like 4 hours my site was banned again :S, i dont do direct blasts to my site or anything like that.

I have to use blog engine blogs for blog commenting but it is proving difficult. I am using this footprint "?powered by blogengine.net? ?add comment? ?notify me when new comments are added? ?Name*? ?Website?" i type it into google, and also type keywords related to my niche. At first i thought it was great and thought i was gonna be able to find alot of blogs to coment on. I managed to comment on about 100 blogs in total but after that, google kept returning the same blogs, no matter what keywords i typed in :S. Even if i type in stuff like cars, it comes up with the same blogs and its now starting to take me around 1 hour to find just 5 blogs to comment on that i've never commented on before. The same thing happens with sick scraper, i put about 3k keywords into the keyword section and input my footprint, but it just brings back the same bs everytime.

So i was just wondering, whats the real way to find blogs to comment on? (bare in mind i dont have scrapebox as i have no funds at all)

Forgot to add that i am having another problem. When i comment on alot of auto approve blogs, i refresh the page and my comment is instantly gone... even though their are other comments that have been added on the same day. Could this mean i am also blog engine banned and if so is my site screwed as i wont be able to do any blog commenting at all ? :S

Buy another domain, do a 301 redirect to your main site, and do the blog commenting using the other domain you just bought. It will still pass on the link juice to your main site.

Sounds like your IP is banned that's why the comments are not appearing.
An akismet ban is nothing is you're posting to auto approve sites,they don't use it.

F#@%$#@ akismet if you dont' mind me, they banned my site I rank it anyway. They'll ban anything that leaves a comment. I would estimate over 90% of blog comments are posted for marketing purposes only, and unscrupulous webmasters will cry "spam spam" on even relevant comments IF your web site isn't relevant to their site.

That being said I wouldn't worry too much about akismet, there's ways around it.

Akismet works with Spamhaus which is IP driven. I know this since I had business with Spamhaus. Change IPs on your host!

When you have the money invest in some private proxies. That will help you avoid being ban all the time.

Akismet bans both IP and domain from posting.

Where did you send them email to unban your site. I suppose my site also got banned.

A 301 redirect using a new domain would probably be the best choice left. But again, your new domain may get banned too.