All of my IM failures

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“Around here, however, we don’t look backwards for very long.
We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things, because we’re curious...
And curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.”
-Walt Disney (A fucking sociopath)

I’ve heard quite a few times that you can’t learn from others’ mistakes. I believe it, but it could just be my personality—I’m really fucking stubborn, and like to see things for myself.

What I believe you can learn from others’ mistakes is how they handle it. Successful people keep moving forward. They try, they fail, they reflect, they adjust. If success comes, it comes.

So... I thought it would be fun to talk about some of the stuff I’ve tried that hasn’t worked. Some of these are from my personal business, others from a marketing company I work for.

General

Planning too much—A lot of times, especially in the beginning of my journey, I would plan too much. I would try and read everything I could and try come up with the perfect strategy. OR... I would scower the internet looking for some super secret magic recipe to success.

Planning too little—Quite honestly this is something I still do, but I’m learning from the mistake. Here, I realized that planning too much kept me from taking action and I didn’t get anything done. So what did I do? I would try to get a general idea, and just fucking try something.

I’ll finally be happy when I’m successful, because people will like me. (Attitude)—I thought it would make me happy. I thought others would think I’m super cool, cause I’m doing something great. Nope. Most people don’t give a shit, or they feel bad about themselves, instead of fawning over you. Just do it for you. Enjoy the ride, and you’ll be happier 90% more of the time, than that 10% when you actually do something.

Social Media

Buying a big instagram account without a plan—I make decent money, so I tend to throw it away on learning experiences. It’s really not as bad as it seems. Here, I listened to a podcast by GaryVee where he talked about buying instagram accounts, because the sellers don’t realize their value. I had no idea what I was doing with it, and spent many hours everyday learning how to build it. Never learned how to monetize it though, so it was a huge suck of money and time.

Jarvee with a brand new account—Rookie move, I know. Don’t regret it. I read that it wasn’t a good idea to do it with a new account. Did it anyway. I thought if I only did likes, that the account wouldn’t get banned. And... it didn’t. It got shadow banned, which was probably more frustrating. Also didn’t have a plan, was just doing it.

Buying fake followers—Yep. Learned this wasn’t a great idea, because although it can increase perceived social value, it drags your engagement rate wayyyy down. Great learning experience for better understanding of the IG algorithm.

Trying a niche that I didn’t like—This makes instagram an absolute fucking chore. Trying to grow organically in a niche that you think is fucking stupid—is well... fucking stupid.

Overall laziness—I would try to grow IG accounts organically. Not a bad idea, however, I wouldn’t put in the effort. If you want to grow organically, it takes a lot of fucking work. I wouldn’t DM anyone to collaborate, I wouldn’t tag good locations, didn’t comment, didn’t like other comments/posts, didn’t tag accounts in the post. I would just post, and hope something happened. This rarely works.

Posting only advertisement quality posts on Facebook—This is actually something my marketing firm does, that I strongly disagree with. However, I have to do what I’m told. They only post very blatant, “hey you need to go here and buy this” type of shit. Then they always complain about how they’re engagement sucks, and they can’t get any impressions.

Re-pins—Thought it would be a great idea to just re-pin a bunch of shit that my audience likes. It brings a lot of monthly views, and engagements. None of those actually help me though. I’ve had maybe one click on my website while doing this.

Profiles—Not filling out the profiles fully or taking the time to write great copy. It’s great if you have great reach, but if you have poor conversions all that work doesn’t mean shit. Nice profiles make a big difference.

Only using popular hashtags—Your posts get drowned out and see about 25% less engagement (when starting out) than using smaller, more targeted, hashtags. This 25% adds up very quickly.

Facebook Ads

Not knowing my audience—If you want this to work, you need to know who your audience is. You need to know their buying process. You need to know when they’re ready for what you have. You need to know how to get them to that point. I didn’t, and it was a very expensive mistake.

Not testing different CTAs—I thought the only CTA I needed, was message me. It made sense to me... People don’t like calling, you have an awesome landing page in the messenger chat, you have a great offer. Still need to do this, but I think for my business, people might prefer to call.

Not planning out your A/B test—I just wanted to get it done and over with. I didn’t have any plan for the A/B testing, I just used a couple different sets of ad copy. Didn’t see any significant difference.

Writing

Too salesy—No one likes to be sold, but they all like to buy. Again, this what my firm does a lot. I strongly believe this is why our clients have seen so very little growth over the years. We market for motivational speakers, and well, they could easily have the same results without us lol. Put yourself in their shoes. Do you want to read sales copy all the time? Big fat fucking NO for me, bro.

Buying spun articles for money site—Yeah, enough said.

Everwebinar

Big sale upfront—Again, people don’t like to be sold. Our client had very poor sales with this.

Telling people the everwebinar is live—Lying to your fan base is always a great idea /s.

No A/B testing—Our firm never A/B tests. If we do it, we do it. Most of the time if it doesn’t get great results, we keep doing it. This is why I have a jaded view of most marketing companies lol.

Online training

Charging too little—Since we work with motivational speakers, the customers go and buy everything they have right after the seminar. Afterwards, they don’t ever use the products. Charging too little on a monthly basis has the same effect as charging them a lot on a monthly basis. Very little difference between $10 and $99 a month in this case.

Trying too hard to nurture—In this special circumstance, if people used the training more, they are more likely to leave early. We’re basically a planet fitness, we know you’ll never use the gym, you fat fuck.

Amazon

Switching to FBA and sending too many products—It costs a ton of money to send it out. Then it cost a ton of money to keep it there, finally it cost a ton of money to ship it back—because you sent too damn much. Send a decent amount of your best selling products, and a hand full of the rest. Amazon seems to duplicate the sales that our website sees in terms of product sales %’s.

Not doing keyword research—We basically just have sales copy. I think most people here can see how this doesn’t help.

I probably have a lot more to be honest, but I only want to write this in one quick sitting.

In the end, it doesn’t matter if you’re successful or not. Successful people are some of the unhappiest people alive. Do it, because you respect yourself enough to go after what you want. You’ll all be the more happier and self-respected for it. Don’t wait around for the perfect plan. Don’t switch strategies every month. Only switch your plan after learning something new that can put you on the right path, don’t make impulsive changes.

Hope someone gets something from this.

What failures have you guys experienced? If all you have done is read strategies, what kind of failure can you try to experience asap?
 
Planning too much—A lot of times, especially in the beginning of my journey, I would plan too much. I would try and read everything I could and try come up with the perfect strategy.

This one unfortunately have become my absolute nightmare i always waste too much time reading and planning when i'm about to try something new just to find myself giving up in the middle of the road or not taking action at all.
 
This one unfortunately have become my absolute nightmare i always waste too much time reading and planning when i'm about to try something new just to find myself giving up in the middle of the road or not taking action at all.

It’s hard to find the sweet spot, until you know where the other exact opposite is. Trying acting a little more impulsively.
 
You should not feel bad at all, let me tell you about my failure.

I had a successful online business for many years, and it vanished overnight. How did it vanish?

Long long ago, when signing up for a windows server I decided to not check a box that created backups on the order form, pfft that wont happen to me! And one day a damaged hard drive which I found out some days later about it without any backup of websites, data, code, windows services, MSSQL databases, many many years worth of work, pretty much gone. Lost revenues, Chargeback galore, I really want to hide out until the end of time. The one saving grace is my customer list, and source codes for products were not on this server.

Luckily I moved the source code elsewhere just months before.

In any case, this is a huge failure on my part, I do feel your pain, I nearly threw in the towel (I actually did for the last 6 months) .

Do not give up, if you never failed, you will never succeed. You learn something each time you fail which increases your chance for success next go at it.
 
Hey man, don't feel bad about your failures. In the end it'll grant you the advantage of knowing what to do differently or avoid entirely.
It took me 2 years to find something I'm good in when it comes to internet marketing, but if you stick with it you'll succeed eventually. You can only lose if you quit, because that means you stop trying.

I've failed with IG + CPA, Facebook + CPA, Dropshipping, Blogging and Affiliate Marketing (Clickbank), but later on found my success in PPC, being a Vendor (Clickbank, JVZoo), Redbubble and YT/Reddit + CPA. A bit of advice; while many people will tell you to only focus on one thing, if you're like me you'll feel the most productive/best if you have 2 things to work on. If I only focus on one project, I get really bored so it's always nice to switch projects and schedule them, so you have some sort of organized chaos. Monday, Tuesday Project X, Wednesday, Thursday Project Y, Friday, Saturday Project X again, Sunday off. And so on.
 
My biggest failure was to not give myself bigger goals, once I reached what i wanted to i have dropped everything for no reason, it was summer, lots of great shit happened, but here i am again, going for a way bigger goal. Also i am failure by myself, cant really do nothing bout it, love (girlfriend) + money doesn't work for me, i rather stay single now for a while, kinda loosing my mind when met someone.

while many people will tell you to only focus on one thing, if you're like me you'll feel the most productive/best if you have 2 things to work on. If I only focus on one project, I get really bored

Well said.
 
This one unfortunately have become my absolute nightmare i always waste too much time reading and planning when i'm about to try something new just to find myself giving up in the middle of the road or not taking action at all.

This, I believe, is the #1 reason people fail in business.
A good mind state to adapt generally which i strictly follow is thinking in a way of seeing only the next step vs. the entire stairway. Do the first step, then figure out how to do the 2nd step and so on. Dont think about how do I Get from A to Z. think about how do I get from A to B, then B to C, then C to D and so on....
 
Yeah yeah all of your failures are you rich yet?.....
 
My fail in im its : I left im for few years completely.

Lesson : never fucking give up!

Now I prefer to loose money but no quit.
 
Well I had a rags to riches back to rags again sort of failure journey.

Biggest mistake was putting all eggs into one basket and not setting some money aside for different ventures. Not knowing how to handle success took better out of me.

Got too comfortable when things were going great followed by overwhelming demise.

After things got sour, couldn't get over the failure, got super depressed, ruined relationships, forced myself to get a job just to get by, but could not force myself to get up and create something new because of the fear of failing again. Took me more than 3 years to finally grow a pair and give it a shot in creating something for myself.

One thing is to achieve success and it's entirely different thing to actually retain it long-term.

These are more general lessons and experiences of mine, but they are related to an online business.
 
My biggest failure is working from home with kids in it. Far too loud and constantly being interrupted.
 
Well I had a rags to riches back to rags again sort of failure journey.

Biggest mistake was putting all eggs into one basket and not setting some money aside for different ventures. Not knowing how to handle success took better out of me.

I can relate to that lol. When I use to sell solar panels door to door I was making nearly 9k/week. When you're making that much, you get lazy. I blew all my money thinking I could get more. Area shut down out of nowhere and I literally had to sleep on my friend’s couch, because I didn't have any money left. Popping champagne at the club one night, to begging for money the next.

Life is a wild ride, man.
 

Biggest mistake was putting all eggs into one basket and not setting some money aside for different ventures. Not knowing how to handle success took better out of me.

fantastic point, this one is really important . a few years ago i was making $10,000 a month from youtube doing literally nothing. I just uploaded like 100 videos [obviously blackhat]. it was working for a year until this fucking nazi-shit happened with the big companies that pulled out of youtube if anyone remembers that... there was some nazi video that was getting ads from big companies and what not and youtube just shut down monetization on thousands of channels ... mine being one of them

Since then i always remember -> never ever depend on 1 stream of income, especially online.. its crazy how fast your online venture goes from hero to zero
 
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