Alibaba Contact Find

DAMMIT! I'm aggravated and I'm sure its probably over some bulls**t - but can someone PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me how do I find a user's contact ID so I can add them to my TradeManager, PLEASE! I've been searching high and low on the damn Alibaba site and cannot find it!

alibaba sucks, sorry to say, most of those suckers will only accept T/T, and western union, and that smells like a ripoff, so be careful when dealing with anyone there

^^ I agree, anyone who is real will end up working with the buyers (like me) in order to accept payments via other methods.