Adult Social Network Site

Hi,

Im thinking about developing a mix of Adult Social Network Site with the capabilities to work as a directory listing as well.

1.- Since it will be promoting "Adult Services" I need the hosting and the membership payment to be as private as possible. Any ideas on how I can achieve that? Dont want to be found easily as the rightly owner of the site, nor having any paypal or merchandising solutions being track back to me.
How should I go about minimizing any clue that could track ownership of the site?

2.- Is there any other social platform, like Ning that can provide such services but for adult purposes?

Pretty much any "Social network" type of software could be tweaked to work in this market, I would suggest checking out Buddypress or simular.

Then have something designed and coded into a theme.

--- Costs money to make money.

so basically this is a facebook for prostitutes?