A confused noob!

i tried the badoo thing that Junkfood00 recommended and 1 hour later i got banned and got sent an email saying i was banned for scamming and my information may have been given to the local authorites... great haha

lake forest idea seems interesting and tempting but my question is how soon can we expect some cash flow because its all about visitors and traffic to your site ..... wats the best way to get to get maximum traffic to ones site????