What do you think about a 30yo guy with a 18yo female? Am I a predator?

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Not a serious relationship, just fun and casual sex
I'm not sure what to think about it, I didn't meet her yet, still thinking if I should do that or not

What are your thoughts? Is this predatory behavior, morally wrong or is it perfectly fine since both are adults?
 
Not a serious relationship, just fun and casual sex
I'm not sure what to think about it, I didn't meet her yet, still thinking if I should do that or not

What are your thoughts? Is this predatory behavior, morally wrong or is it perfectly fine since both are adults?
If you have to ask then it's not right.
 
Being legal doesn't automatically make it normal
18 and 30 is a huge maturity and life-experience gap

I wouldn't call it predatory by default, but i'd definitely understand why people find it questionable. The fact you're asking suggests you feel something is off too.
 
If you have to ask then it's not right.
i think it's controversial, I could found arguments to sustain both meeting her or not meeting her, that's why I'd like to hear some external thoughts

Being legal doesn't automatically make it normal
18 and 30 is a huge maturity and life-experience gap

I wouldn't call it predatory by default, but i'd definitely understand why people find it questionable. The fact you're asking suggests you feel something is off too.
you are right
and I feel something is off or questionable due to moral values
at the same time, most of opinions are based on relationships, in this case it would be just short term fun
my opinion would be clearer if it was a serious long term relationship, but about something that both know are for temporary fun, i'm not so sure
 
One, that's one hell of header.
Two, here's a quick rule of thumb: half your age + 7 = the age most generally considered old enough for you to get with.
 
unless you are her teacher, boss or using some kind of authority and power to manipulate her, I wouldn't see a problem
if you barely know each other and just want to fuck without creating false expectations and fake promises to lure her, go ahead
 
Seems you are falling for the gaslighting of society that tells you something is wrong with that

Ignore society. Do what you want. Don't be a beta male.
 
Teach her internet marketing skills. I'm not into dating. I don't even have a car. They say to avoid women though. Yes 18 is OK. I think 18 should be lowered to 16 or 17 though. A lot of girls get mature at like 12 or 14.
 
most people on this forum are white knights and are from a 2/3rd world country.
What has this got to do with anything?

Anyway, we should have closed this thread earlier. Why anyone would admit some of these views on a public forum is beyond me.
 
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