New Adult Forum - Now what?

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Hello everybody. I just started an adult forum, similar to socialmediagirls or any other competitor in this niche. The forum is built around adult content, with enough room for discussion of file sharing.

But, as you already think, it's hell on earth - I find it next to impossible to bring users. And If I do, they do not post or engage with the content. I inserted some incentives like engage for money, daily login streak, trophies; but users have 0 interest into sharing files. They create the account, browse for 10 minutes, close the page and never come back again. I tried to make the forum feel a little bit more alive by posting from various accounts, but once I log off, there's silence.

Currently I was able to bring around 80-100 new users per day simply by spamming other forums, posting content around the internet and building some SEO - but the main issue persists sadly.

I know forums are quite hard to build and even harder to grow, but I wasn't expecting something like this.
So, around here are users which managed to grow an adult forum community? If not, are people around willing to join me & build something together?

cheers
 
I don't want to sound like a pessimist guy, but such forums are very hard to grow if you don't have hundreds of thousands of dollars
 
You should give users what they come to your forum for from other gorum. You should find the weak points of other forums and offer them in your forum. Use telegram to warm up your users before sending them to your forum.
 
Forums are brutal in 2026 because people prefer Telegram/Discord/X feeds over posting on traditional boards. Your issue isn’t traffic, it’s lack of core contributors. You need a small group of power users posting daily before normal users will engage. Incentives help, but culture/content loops matter more than raw signups.
 
Hello everybody. I just started an adult forum, similar to socialmediagirls or any other competitor in this niche. The forum is built around adult content, with enough room for discussion of file sharing.

But, as you already think, it's hell on earth - I find it next to impossible to bring users. And If I do, they do not post or engage with the content. I inserted some incentives like engage for money, daily login streak, trophies; but users have 0 interest into sharing files. They create the account, browse for 10 minutes, close the page and never come back again. I tried to make the forum feel a little bit more alive by posting from various accounts, but once I log off, there's silence.

Currently I was able to bring around 80-100 new users per day simply by spamming other forums, posting content around the internet and building some SEO - but the main issue persists sadly.

I know forums are quite hard to build and even harder to grow, but I wasn't expecting something like this.
So, around here are users which managed to grow an adult forum community? If not, are people around willing to join me & build something together?

cheers
The forum has only one chance of surviving—it must have a unique theme, one that can’t be found anywhere else (an original one). And even then, challenges will remain. (That’s why I’m not creating such a forum, even though I do have a theme.)
 
Hello everybody. I just started an adult forum, similar to socialmediagirls or any other competitor in this niche. The forum is built around adult content, with enough room for discussion of file sharing.

But, as you already think, it's hell on earth - I find it next to impossible to bring users. And If I do, they do not post or engage with the content. I inserted some incentives like engage for money, daily login streak, trophies; but users have 0 interest into sharing files. They create the account, browse for 10 minutes, close the page and never come back again. I tried to make the forum feel a little bit more alive by posting from various accounts, but once I log off, there's silence.

Currently I was able to bring around 80-100 new users per day simply by spamming other forums, posting content around the internet and building some SEO - but the main issue persists sadly.

I know forums are quite hard to build and even harder to grow, but I wasn't expecting something like this.
So, around here are users which managed to grow an adult forum community? If not, are people around willing to join me & build something together?

cheers
It's not engaging simply because the content doesn't incentivize people to do anything beyond "yep," and it's probably quite broad. You need to categorize and segment something within the blog, create an incentive for people to join something exclusive within a niche and put behind a paywall.
 
Twitter is great for bringing traffic to your forum. But as others have said, it's a very competitive niche and you're probably 5 years too late to the party when it comes to leaks sites/forums. Still, you can make it work.

The thing is, people usually don't want to register on random forums, especially NSFW ones. The chances of them actually interacting are even smaller.

That's why I would recommend first starting a normal leaks site. Post LOTS of content and make it rank on Google, Bing, and Yandex. Once you've built up a solid amount of regular users, you can start bringing those people over to your forum. You can have the normal leaks site at domain.com and the forum at forum.domain.com or whatever...


They create the account, browse for 10 minutes, close the page and never come back again.
Quick tip: Add a "Delete your account" option. And at the end run a survey so you can find out why users never come back. People probably register on your forum to see if there are leaks of someone they're looking for, but if there aren't any, they'll just abandon the account. This is gonna happen especially if your Forum is empty. Usually, forums like these have tens of thousands of threads and hundreds of thousands of posts...

Another thing you can do is make people "subscribe" to forum threads. Basically, when somebody replies to a thread, they automatically get subscribed to it and receive updates via email from then on. But for that to work, you need users to register with real email addresses or emails they actually check regularly.
People on porn forums often use temporary mails. That's why, if you ban temp emails and only allow tier 1 email providers, you can increase the chances of users returning to your forum by keeping them updated through emails.
 
Twitter is great for bringing traffic to your forum. But as others have said, it's a very competitive niche and you're probably 5 years too late to the party when it comes to leaks sites/forums. Still, you can make it work.

The thing is, people usually don't want to register on random forums, especially NSFW ones. The chances of them actually interacting are even smaller.

That's why I would recommend first starting a normal leaks site. Post LOTS of content and make it rank on Google, Bing, and Yandex. Once you've built up a solid amount of regular users, you can start bringing those people over to your forum. You can have the normal leaks site at domain.com and the forum at forum.domain.com or whatever...



Quick tip: Add a "Delete your account" option. And at the end run a survey so you can find out why users never come back. People probably register on your forum to see if there are leaks of someone they're looking for, but if there aren't any, they'll just abandon the account. This is gonna happen especially if your Forum is empty. Usually, forums like these have tens of thousands of threads and hundreds of thousands of posts...

Another thing you can do is make people "subscribe" to forum threads. Basically, when somebody replies to a thread, they automatically get subscribed to it and receive updates via email from then on. But for that to work, you need users to register with real email addresses or emails they actually check regularly.
People on porn forums often use temporary mails. That's why, if you ban temp emails and only allow tier 1 email providers, you can increase the chances of users returning to your forum by keeping them updated through emails.
I found that survey idea interesting — great way to get people's opinions on the site. Do you think it would also be worth running something like that for users who abandoned an action (like going to buy premium and then dropping off)? Might be tricky to implement, but could be worth it... not sure.
 
Forums are difficult to grow. I once developed a forum for 2-3 years but just gave up as I found my niche audience preferring social media platforms over forums. People prefer telegram or discord over forums for adult niches unless there is a topic that people are desperate to discuss but couldn't find a platform.
 
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