I need help figuring out how to make money off my gf

mank505

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so i talked my gf into getting into onlyfans and selling pics and vids for money we started off with a dating app like hinge and used snapchat to funnel them we made 100$ off that alone in a day, but on the onlyfans side of things not much has happened i posted on x and reddit for traffic to it but no buyers on any of these platforms we'd get leads but no real sales but they eventually banned her account on hinge and reddit so now were making no money.

i need help figuring out how to get around dating app bans for a constant revenue stream
but also figure out how to market her better cause x and reddit have been treating her account like shit idk if its cause they were freshly made or what but no sales off of them so far only through snap and hinge if you have any advice please help
would mean alot we are both really broke and want a start up!
 
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mank505 said:
so i talked my gf into getting into onlyfans and selling pics and vids for money we started off with a dating app like hinge and used snapchat to funnel them we made 100$ off that alone in a day, but on the onlyfans side of things not much has happened i posted on x and reddit for traffic to it but no buyers on any of these platforms we'd get leads but no real sales but they eventually banned her account on hinge and reddit so now were making no money.

i need help figuring out how to get around dating app bans for a constant revenue stream
but also figure out how to market her better cause x and reddit have been treating her account like shit idk if its cause they were freshly made or what but no sales off of them so far only through snap and hinge if you have any advice please help
would mean alot we are both really broke and want a start up!
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You’re focusing on the wrong problem.
Bypassing dating app bans is not a business model. You’ll just keep burning accounts because those platforms are not built for selling adult content.
If Snap converted and OF didn’t, that tells you the money is in personal interaction, not just posting a link. Build a real funnel: social content -> Snap/Telegram/email -> warm conversation -> paid content.
Also, don’t start with direct selling from fresh X/Reddit accounts. They need age, normal activity, niche positioning, and trust first.
Most important: make sure this is a joint creator business with clear consent, boundaries, pricing, and revenue split. Otherwise it’s going to end badly.
 
I have many friends who are OnlyFans phenomena, and I'm an algorithm expert on Instagram, TikTok, and other platforms. I know the process from start to finish: If you create and manage a social media account correctly, becoming a millionaire isn't that difficult. Of course, in today's social media landscape, you also need to consider that your girlfriend needs to be attractive.
 
Try focusing more on consistency and personality content rather than straight promotion. A lot of new accounts get ignored at first, so posting regularly, interacting naturally, and building trust usually works better long term than chasing quick leads.
 
He is saying dating apps will keep banning if you use them for promotion, so it’s not a stable way. Better to build real audience and content slowly instead of trying shortcuts.
 
You'll reach more people on X and reddit. But again, there are so many creators now, you'll have to stand out if you want people paying for your membership.

I see nsfw subs littered with content from OF creators, not sure how you got banned. Maybe you're just spamming your account. Just post your content and let them find you on your profile with a linked social media account. Getting banned is not the end of reddit for you. Go again
 
Focus on IG conversions are 10x more than X not sure about reddit, be as human as posible, post no link at first or spam, find other creator/couples and collab you will grow fast, dont try any tricks if your a beginner... And yeah reinvest to speed it up...
 
Honestly, the biggest issue is probably trying to monetize too aggressively too early on fresh accounts/platforms. X and Reddit usually suppress or flag new accounts that immediately start pushing adult promos, links, or funnels without normal activity/history first.

People who do well long term usually build some personality, engagement, consistency, and audience trust before heavily pushing monetization. Dating apps can bring quick money, but they’re also one of the fastest ways to get flagged/banned if the platform thinks you’re funneling traffic off-site too aggressively.
 
But how can you let your girlfriend work on OnlyFans and sell photos? If you’re capable then you should go out hustle and make money for her instead. Do you even love her?
 
From a relationship perspective, depending on adult-content platforms for income can raise questions about emotional support and financial responsibility. If you value your partner, contributing more toward financial security may be a better solution.
 
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