Out of curiosity, is your friend an ephebophile or was this a demisexual situation where she was only attracted to that specific 15 year old boy?
I think it was just the one time. I really have no way of knowing. She got caught with this one, but for all I know there could be others. Again, I have no way of knowing.
so.....what ever happened to the cinnamon rolls? You still got them??
I'll buy them from you if you still got them. I'm sure they would satisfy someone's fantasy.
The ones I slept on I threw away, The ones that survived are in the cabinet, waiting for me to get over my overdose.
I still don't understand how you getting wasted has anything to do with your friend having sex with a 15 year old boy?
We've been friends for over 20 years. Ever since we were 10 years old. Best friends. So yes, it is hard on me. What she did was vile and disgusting. And it affects me personally. I've known her for 20 years. I had no idea that she could do something like this. Her oldest daughter is 13, the boy she slept with is 15. He was a student at the school where she works. Where do you draw the line? And if you did it once, what are the chances of you becoming a repeat offender? How many lives has she messed up because she's done something stupid?
Or should I just say "Oh, that's a shame," and go about my business like none of this ever happened?
You'd probably pick the second one.
Sorry, but I don't work that way. When people I love do stupid shit like this and I have to cut them out of my life, I mourn them just like if they died. I'm 100% unapologetic about it. These are my feelings, and this is how I deal with them. Everyone isn't rock hard and emotionally invincible. While my family and I are sitting around talking about how funny it was that I slept in cinnamon rolls, the reason I got upset (and am still upset) isn't funny. And in my opinion, that isn't something you just write off.
I drank just to get a buzz going so I could get some sleep. I wound up drinking too much and getting drunk. Second time it ever happened to me. At least I was at home this time, and not out in the street with some stranger. Then I might be telling a different story.
But not on this forum. You guys are assholes.
