Okay, I'm a Hold'em player... and a pretty good one, I like to think. Poker bots are a guaranteed way to lose your money, trust me. Methods and schemes will never work when it comes to poker. Go to Full Tilt Poker and play with fake money. Get good. REALLY good, then move on to the smallest blinds you can in real money. You WILL lose money before you make it.
In an early position at the table, play only the best hands, such as high pocket pairs or aces with a high kicker. Mid position, if everyone has folded ahead of you, you can play slightly lower ranked hands, such as kings with a high kicker or middle to high pocket pairs, or suited connectors. In the late position, you can play a little more generously if it's folded over to you. If you're in a blind and it's been folded to the blind, play anything! LoL
PM me if you want to talk poker.
I should add: I'm not trying to be mean at all, I promise... but perhaps you should be concentrating more on getting your wife and children back than online poker.