Could this be the girl for me?

[redrubies]

Your story is absolutely shocking! Your stalker's behavior is totally unacceptable, socially, morally and legally, and wholly inconsistent with the norms of modern Western society. It is most certainly appalling given the prevailing feminist viewpoints of the blogosphere and social media. I don't mean to be rude, but why haven't you secured a restraining order against him!? If I was your father/husband/boyfriend/immediate male relative, this would most certainly merit an immediate and resolute effort to have him deported posthaste.

I'm not worried. I can take care of myself. He's not going to hurt me.

 

[srb888]

That man was very nice. This one is a pest. lol

, when you beat this guy up, get it on the NEWS. His family and neighbors in India will love it immensely. lol. Sorry about that though. I hope that he turns into a real worm the moment he irritates you once more...

 

[ShadeDream]

hahahaha! But such threads are amusing! They give you a real smile and show that the internet is not a lonely and dull place after all. And most of time I waste my time is because I worry a lot about the past, present and future -- needlessly, so this for me is a welcome change. And it's not the trolls thread, it's the comments that brings out a bout of laughter sponteneously...

So true. And I'm the same when it comes to worrying about past, present and future, sucks big time.

 

[concourse]

I'm not worried. I can take care of myself. He's not going to hurt me.

Your previous post was quite disconcerting, but it is heartwarming to know that you are a strong American woman capable of defending herself against creeps. However, it must nevertheless be extremely inconvenient to have a socially awkward foreigner tail you on a regular basis. What if he decides to purchase a gun one day to shift the balance of power!?

 

[Worm99]

Just be brave and try to approach her and say one of these:

[SIZE=4][COLOR=#181818][FONT=georgia]?I almost wish we were butterflies and liv'd but three summer days - three such days with you I could fill with more delight than fifty common years could ever contain.? 

[/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=#181818][FONT=georgia]?My love is selfish. I cannot breathe without you.?

 [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE][COLOR=#181818][FONT=georgia][SIZE=4]?I wish I was either in your arms full of faith, or that a Thunder bolt would strike me.[/SIZE]? [/FONT][/COLOR]

Then you take your cock out of your pants and show it to her. It works every time.

 

[redrubies]

Your previous post was quite disconcerting, but it is heartwarming to know that you are a strong American woman capable of defending herself against creeps. However, it must nevertheless be extremely inconvenient to have a socially awkward foreigner tail you on a regular basis. What if he decides to purchase a gun one day to shift the balance of power!?

He would probably end up shooting himself in the foot with it. A person who runs down the street yelling I love you while tripping over himself is not a person to worry about. He's a pest, but he's not a dangerous pest.

 

[bakerboy]

To my friends breaknbricks and Treeofl

Both of have been added to my good book! This reminds me to play hard for the taking.

You need locked up ya weirdo,

if I caught you following my daughter taking photos of her I'd cut your balls off and slowly feed you feet first into a coal fire.

I would NEVER hurt another living creature including this girl or your daughter. So please take back your words!

Oh my goodness, I have been going through this since the summer. My stalker is an annoying pest. He was popping up out of nowhere every time I took my daily walk. Now he walks behind me from a block away since I told him that I was going to beat the living daylights out of him. I don't know if there is a cultural difference or if he's just crazy. He's from India, and I don't know what the man/woman norm is there. But he misunderstood friendly for more. He was telling me that he loved me. He doesn't even know me.

It could mean he loves you from under his heart. Treat him like a human who has a soft spot for you. What does India have to do about it? You would not show a Indian the time of day? Maybe you should look inside yourself and accept all people. Try not to be racist because it is something taught and not born with.

A VERY good man here has sent me a message with videos to help out so thank you! I have been meditating deeply thinking about how to land her and possibly I'm tooo soft in the heart for this girl. Some people here tried to hurt me and I have nothing to say to you! Many are smart and I appreciate them. breaknbricks and a couple more people are definitely written down as good people! I have a bid on one of my ebay listing so the time is coming when I will rise and show her who I am!

 

[concourse]

He would probably end up shooting himself in the foot with it. A person who runs down the street yelling I love you while tripping over himself is not a person to worry about. He's a pest, but he's not a dangerous pest.

I applaud your optimism, but this compassion and mercy you show him will only make him yearn for you even more! He will mistake your failure to crush his soul and shred heart for a subtle fondness and an unspoken longing. Besides, it is cruel to let him love you even more!

 

[gazmo]

I was tempted to create a thread named "How do I get rid of the creepy guy following me" but I don't wanna get banned for trolling :/

 

[Trepanated]

Treat him like a human who has a soft spot for you. What does India have to do about it? You would not show a Indian the time of day? Maybe you should look inside yourself and accept all people. Try not to be racist because it is something taught and not born with.

First of all, RR was not being racist. Saying where someone is from is not racist.

Secondly, she already said she had spoken with him and been pleasant to him - that's what he has misinterpreted to the point of stalking her. If she was racist, she wouldn't have spoken to the guy in the first place.

And I think she is treating him very nicely by not dealing with him in the way most people would if they were being stalked.

And as for your comment about not hurting this girl you are fixated on - do you think she would feel safe knowing some stranger was following her and taking photographs?

She would feel far from safe.

And you have the temerity to suggest a woman who is being stalked is the one whose behaviour needs to change.

 

[Zwielicht]

The funny thing is the fact that these types of threads always get attention.

I guess at the end of the day the Troll wins and you lose.

Troll has a laugh, while you waste time.

lmao

I'm just here to crack jokes!

 

[Techxan]

He would probably end up shooting himself in the foot with it. A person who runs down the street yelling I love you while tripping over himself is not a person to worry about. He's a pest, but he's not a dangerous pest.

RedRubies be like:

 

[MafiaBoss]

I have followed her around recently and know somethings about her already.

hmmm caught ya buddy, stop following around btw it's no g00d.

 

[kosupps]

This is the creepiest thing I've read today. OP is a stalker

 

[acidol2]

First of all, RR was not being racist. Saying where someone is from is not racist.

Secondly, she already said she had spoken with him and been pleasant to him - that's what he has misinterpreted to the point of stalking her. If she was racist, she wouldn't have spoken to the guy in the first place.

And I think she is treating him very nicely by not dealing with him in the way most people would if they were being stalked.

And as for your comment about not hurting this girl you are fixated on - do you think she would feel safe knowing some stranger was following her and taking photographs?

She would feel far from safe.

And you have the temerity to suggest a woman who is being stalked is the one whose behaviour needs to change.

Damnit, I always love reading your replies man. Such vocabulary, I admire it. ;D

 

[Nitros]

 

[zohar]

I'd try to find out about her last name OP, then you can do a Facebook search on her and see where she hanges out etc

 

[rob1977]

I would NEVER hurt another living creature including this girl or your daughter. So please take back your words

So you don't understand how frightening it can be for a young girl being followed and having photos taken of them?

No I won't take them back,

You might be shy etc but it's still stalking, and frightening

 

[Adore]

BHW is becoming a rather strange place. Stalking is NOT the way to get a woman. It's creepy and annoying (even the title of this thread is creepy). Be a man. Walk up to her and TALK to her. Ask her out for a drink (tea, coffee, beer, whatever). If she says no, fine. At least you tried.

 

[royserpa]

Alright!

So after i get her phone i should get a date with her and knock her out, then take her home with the other 900ish girls i have, right?

Or am i missing a step here bro?

What do you do when you have no more space in your basement bro? You seem to have lots of girls.

Women care about 3 things.

1) Money / Career
2) Confidence
3) Social Status

You don't have much of either since you're making this thread.

And you're obviously developing a case of one-itis. It's happened to me many times but I've learned how to shield it for the most part. And I do this by realizing it is pure, unadulterated physical attraction that makes a man stalk / think about / obsess over a woman he doesn't know.... in an emotional way.

Therefore, any emotional components you are experiencing... desire, lust, want, need.... they are all based on the way she looks.

Sometimes I still get caught off guard if I see a petite skinny blonde with a fat ghetto booty. I try very hard not to look but if the booty is right, I'll find myself veering off into... "OMG LOOK AT THAT ASS!" to>> "this woman is my soul mate".

There is no magic trick. You just tell your dick to STFU and cut off all that emotional shit. Sometimes I will attach a random # to a girl. Label her in your mind as "Girl #989". This will help you objectify her like you should. You don't fucking know her. So don't get caught up thinking this girl doesn't fart, shit, and scratch her ass... she does. And her shit smells just as bad as yours does. Chances are, it smells worse.

This should be the only thing you're thinking about while approaching. How bad her shit smells.

Me personally, sometimes I'll pretend I'm a serial killer. I pretend I'm going to kill woman 989. If I believe she's an object all fear drops out the window. So if I say something stupid, I don't freak out. I keep a perfectly straight face cause in 10 minutes or less she will be tied up to a tree in the middle of some desolate forest.

If you can adopt this type of mindset, you will be golden.

More importantly. You don't sound like you get out enough. This sounds like a proximity infatuation triggered by too much isolation. And if you walk 2-3 blocks down the road you can find women 990, 991, 992, etc.

Treat it like math. It's a numbers game and you're a serial killer.

Go walk up to her and say, "Sorry, I only have a minute but I noticed something about you and wanted to make a quick recommendation"
If you're not all weird and creep about it, she'll say "ok".

Then pull out your phone w/out blinking, turn your head away from her, hold your phone in front of her, pause a second then say, "I recommend you put your number in my phone".

That's all it takes.

If it fails. Move on to the next target.... I mean woman.


-BB