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:confused::("I recently quit my job. My wife was very supportive until after i quit the job. Since i quit my job, This crazy lady has been power trippin! Things she normally wouldnt get mad about..Now shes mad smh. She looks for reasons to scream and hollar at me. Im a pretty chill dude. But eventually if she keeps on hollerin at me for no reason, Imma have to snatch her azz up off her feet like im the bully in school..lol Shes using her independent women card to tough. Being stingy with sex, Find reasons to argue, Acts as if I eat all the food! Its funny how women act when you have a job, and when you dont. ALthough they stand behind you, They like to remind you whos in control when its there time to shine. Now income is not a problem. I feel as if, if your not paying majority of the bills at your crib, then women will play these mind games with you. Seriously. IF im paying all the bills and my woman is COmplainin, Imma tell her..GO DATE A BROKE GUY. THEN YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT.......#THEeND

ON ANOTHER NOTE...

ALL in all. Ebay is treating me pretty well Despite these ebay fees, paypal fees, shipping fees, I need to wether this storm. Today will be spent doing something productive that brings me closer to my goal. Im so focused. I dont regret quitting my job. Im having million dollar night mares, Im not scared to take caluculated risk! Meaning if i fail, I dont fail, Ive learned a valuable lesson that i had to pay for lol . Im ready to increase this business tho. Ebay is not cutting it. I have expensive habits, With 2 handsome boys that get justin bieber symbrome at school. I gotta keep those little guys right! So im ready to increase my reveune by 300%% its all possible. I have the power to manifest it. THru positive thoughts, Speaking kindness upon others,Having Faith in the unseen, Help others, PAY MY TITHES. LEND MONEY GIVE MONEY. What i put in the universe I will get out. With that being said.. THNK YOU for reading my rant!

Give a thanks. Get me popular on the forum. Im trying to get a custom avatar. Become a Jr Vip or somnething!
 
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"Well its time to start blogging it up. Thnx for reading sir"
 
If you're serious, you have serious relationship problems and should seek some marriage counseling. Just from your short description it appears that you're both putting yourselves first rather than putting your spouse first.
 
BHopkins said:
If you're serious, you have serious relationship problems and should seek some marriage counseling. Just from your short description it appears that you're both putting yourselves first rather than putting your spouse first.
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"Well of course this was mild humor mixed with a little bit of reality. HOwever as much as i want to disagree with you, I have to agree. Me and her Are the same zodiac sign. We do tend to be stubborn amongst things. My thing is with the income that i have which is nothing in comparison to her job, Shes just taking advantage of saying Hey i got the power, do what i say. Wanna treat me like a butler sort of thing. But thats still my baby!" Thnx for the feedback BHOPKINS appreciate it
 
Real advice... Since you quit your real job you might be home to often. A lot of relationships thrive if people have time alone.

Sometimes to much of a good thing is bad.
 
mermaidmurder said:
real advice... Since you quit your real job you might be home to often. A lot of relationships thrive if people have time alone.

Sometimes to much of a good thing is bad.
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"well put..i agree. You hit it right on the head. Thnx sir for your advice"
 
Going from a stable income to a not so stable one is always going to have a huge impact
 
Just a general rule of thumb, don't you think since you have more time on your hands and you're at home now you over analyze some of these things? I know going from a day job to working at home all the time, it was a huge adjustment mentally. You have no contact with other people, which narrows down your thoughts to the only people you have contact with. Potentially your wife? It is normal for them to give you a hard time especially in that scenario, how ever have you ever thought of talking to her about it? Not here to give advice, just saying sometimes it doesn't hurt.

Well it might if you go about it in the wrong manner.
 
Phuck da bull$hit dude,

You get what you pay for in this Life.
Don't EVER let a chick "take the power" over you. LOL...Whaattt??

It's not even about who makes more money and all that crap, nor what zodiac signs you guys share. It's about respect. If you give respect and you don't get it back, YOU'RE the one at the root of this problem for settling. A man should never have to beg or plead for respect when he gives it....period.

Communicate with her your concerns and actually listen to her and her explanations for what she's feeling. It may not have anything to do with your assumptions.

Don't play mind reader and don't let her play games with you.
Hurry up and bounce yur' a$$ outta that "relationship" if she can't get it together.

Life is too short to be going back and forth with some chick who isn't given the basics.

She may still be "your baby", but in the end you have only YOU to blame for your unhappiness.

Don't take it too hard, wait till you've calmed down a bit so you can remove as much emotion from the equation as possible when you talk with her. By the same token don't take it too lightly, as it maybe a sign of more crap to come...

kinglogan said:
"Well of course this was mild humor mixed with a little bit of reality. However as much as i want to disagree with you, I have to agree. Me and her Are the same zodiac sign. We do tend to be stubborn amongst things. My thing is with the income that i have which is nothing in comparison to her job, Shes just taking advantage of saying Hey i got the power, do what i say. Wanna treat me like a butler sort of thing. But thats still my baby!" Thnx for the feedback BHOPKINS appreciate it
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SayCheese said:
Just a general rule of thumb, don't you think since you have more time on your hands and you're at home now you over analyze some of these things? I know going from a day job to working at home all the time, it was a huge adjustment mentally. You have no contact with other people, which narrows down your thoughts to the only people you have contact with. Potentially your wife? It is normal for them to give you a hard time especially in that scenario, how ever have you ever thought of talking to her about it? Not here to give advice, just saying sometimes it doesn't hurt.

Well it might if you go about it in the wrong manner.
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"You make a valid point. I talk to her about it. SHe tells me, Dont get too comfortable with not having a job. Which is true. Im in no rush to get a job but seeing how shes been acting...Makes me wanna be somewhere in the day time rather listen to the endless sarcasm"
 
Hahaha, you kinda remind my current situation OP (I just do not have any children , nor I am married). You can go back to full time job anytime (probably). And do not worry, your women will get used to it, mine did. They all want to be financially secure, however if you gotta money to feed your family, pay rent etc I do not see anything wrong with chasing your dream, its your life after all. Good luck bro, You will make it!
 
Kinglogan,

You don't have to quote your posts - we know they are your words.

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