new requirement for jr. vip

[luckykittypurrpurr]

My little nice wonderful great awesome suggestion you should totally go for....

Let people with dominateIM have jr.vip access once they reach 200 posts.

I've been working towards it, making quality posts, now saw it changed rules. Now it's like 1 or the other.

Think about it and think about making lots of little kitty cats purr and be oh so very happy

 

[carryout]

I disagree..........................

 

[bizkiller]

i dont get it...

 

[luckykittypurrpurr]

I disagree..........................

why?

wayyyy too short.....

maybe 300 posts then. i mean i was investing into this forum putting a lot more in than i have gotten out of it in order to get jr VIP. then i bought dominateIM membership and now im like thinking even though i worked hard to help people in here to become jr VIP, it doesnt matter, cuz I gotta buy my way in. Well, whats the point? buying for 2 forums thats run by the same people so probably has similar info on it.

I mean all my investment i see going down the drain. sure i have gotten some out of this forum, but not as much as i have put in and all the help i have given people and in turn lost money because of time spent or methods stolen...

btw, its not that i dont have the money, anyone could buy their way into either forum. point was i was working my way to jr vip, like earning it. its the principle of it.

 

[carryout]

Because this isnt DIM, this is BHW, rules are rules, if you have a problem with it i guess take it up with mods. This place shouldnt be about trying to get some rank on here, nor should it be a concern. It should be about helping out and making money. And i guarantee the reason you cant get Jr VIP anymore without paying is because nobody wants to have a place where everyones Jr VIP all from spam posts, or garbage posts. If that were the case anyone could get it.

 

[luckykittypurrpurr]

Yeah, umm
1. I was making a suggestion never said I have a problem with it.
2. Also I dont have spam posts or garbage posts. I wanted to EARN it, and
3. I don't care about rank, I cared about gaining access to the section, i couldn't care less about the title. And
4. I have spent countless hours helping people to make money, losing money in the process.

I was merely making a suggestion, I thought it was welcome in this section, I guess not.....
no wait this section does say feedback and suggestions doesn't it?? heh

No worries tho, I've learned a valuable lesson now and it is easy for me to adapt.

 

[luckykittypurrpurr]

Anyone who wants help from me now is gonna have to make it worth my while LOL
give me an incentive. cuz umm im pretty much over being screwed over. Not going to be so nice anymore when the favor never gets returned and I lose my bread and butter money over it :sad6:

 

[Belexandor]

Kitty,

You aren't going to find in Jr. VIP what you will get from DIM. There is no secret stash of goodies in Jr. VIP. The downloads are better yes and the info shared there is top notch but there are still far more posts made in the regular forums.


If you are spending the money on DIM then take advantage of it and get the most that you can from the guys that are coaching there as you probably wont find a better group to learn from. I plan on joining myself in a month or so when i have more time to devote to applying what is being taught there.

 

[luckykittypurrpurr]

Thank you belexander, you know I was pretty hippity hoppity about it all. But you have been the first response on this that has made me feel better.
I am going to devote my time to DIM. I mean I have spent so much time helping people on here I have lost money, then the people i helped stole so much stuff from me made me lose even more money ( my own fault i accept full responsibility for being such a pushover and wayyy too nice for nothing)

so, im done being nice, now im going to utilize DIM all i can full force and look out for myself for once.

 

[blackhatttt]

Jr.vip is like 5 new post per day. And 90% of the time its nothing special
Its like a graveyard over there

Sad but so true.

And since you've paid to gain access to DIM I think you should spend more time over there to recoup your investment.

 

[CyberDilemma]

why?

wayyyy too short.....

maybe 300 posts then. i mean i was investing into this forum putting a lot more in than i have gotten out of it in order to get jr VIP. then i bought dominateIM membership and now im like thinking even though i worked hard to help people in here to become jr VIP, it doesnt matter, cuz I gotta buy my way in. Well, whats the point? buying for 2 forums thats run by the same people so probably has similar info on it.

So exactly how have YOU helped people in here become jr VIP's?

 

[luckykittypurrpurr]

cyberdelimma, you misread what I typed. I was saying I have worked hard helping people to become jyVIP. Not helping others for them to become jrVIP but helping others to make a name for myself for ME to have quality posts and a name for myself for ME to become jrvip.
What have I done?
1. spent countless hours helping people 1 on 1 for FREE,
2. making websites for people, FOR FREE, cuz they didn't know how
3. posting for people, FOR FREE cuz they couldnt or would get ghosted for some reason
4. driving around for hours to go to payphones to help people get pvas, because they didn't have the money or means
5. buy people programs in order to change ips, never asking for the money back just buying it for them out of the goodness of my heart "to help" and bought many other programs for people too..

and much much more...

In return, ive gotten mostly unappreciate people who have taken my examples and copied them verbatim or people who didn't wanna do any research on their own so i wasted countless hours teaching them all the basics (ya i am wayyy too nice).

Whole point was I was trying to earn my way in by being helpful and making quality posts and making a good name for myself, I was so selfless spending sooo many hours helping others out of the goodness of my heart (many didn't even sign underneath me as an aff ref, 80% didn't).
What did I get in return? A lot of people walking all over me, stealing my work,time, and methods, in turn making me lose a lot more money than I can even fathom.

anyway, I never put so much effort into a forum and the people before, just wasn't my thing, i'd like to fly under the radar. but I can only blame myself for being too nice and letting myself get walked all over. I accept full responsibility.

I was pretty fuming but no worries, I can adapt. Tomorrow there will always be another day and I'm over it. But the help train from luckykittypurrpurr has come to a complete stop. Now I'm not gonna do anything for anyone unless they do something for me first (and something i need help with, which is few and far between). Wow I feel like a super bitch saying that, but its time for me to look out for myself, cuz no one else is.

 

[luckykittypurrpurr]

thanks no worries ill just pick it up and drive on. and i appreciate you explaining how things worked too hellall.
i guess i was thinking jrvip had all this glorious special stuff in it. i mean i couldnt care less about the title, thought it had more resources or something.
ya ive been workig so hard to get money for the holidays and spent all day on some days helping people then i havent had too much time to really delve into DIM. I mean ive utilized it a bit, but not really completely.
It's time for me to do that i think, now that there is time with the holidays gone and all.

 

[aliskorn]

There`s no miracle in the jr vip section. Don`t sweat over it.

 

[sinewave]

Whole point was I was trying to earn my way in by being helpful and making quality posts and making a good name for myself, I was so selfless spending sooo many hours helping others out of the goodness of my heart (many didn't even sign underneath me as an aff ref, 80% didn't).
What did I get in return?

So you were helping people out of the goodness of your heart, or to earn your way into Jr. VIP? Your argument is a contradiction of both positions.

In any case, the Admins and Mods most likely don't need suggestions made in the spirit of personal gain. They are the stewards of the forum and membership as a whole and your "suggestion" hardly promotes forum improvement for the entire membership.

 

[greyhatdude]

...
What have I done?
1. spent countless hours helping people 1 on 1 for FREE,
2. making websites for people, FOR FREE, cuz they didn't know how
3. posting for people, FOR FREE cuz they couldnt or would get ghosted for some reason
4. driving around for hours to go to payphones to help people get pvas, because they didn't have the money or means
5. buy people programs in order to change ips, never asking for the money back just buying it for them out of the goodness of my heart "to help" and bought many other programs for people too..
...saying that, but its time for me to look out for myself, cuz no one else is.

Dude. Keep doing the good deeds, just start charging for your time and for gawds sake, stop buying people apps. If you want to help people 1 on 1 they should pay you for your services, even if its after the fact or by repaying you with favors, "IOU" or by barter. Charge a few bucks for posting. Have people mail you calling cards or something if they want you to use payphones, and put the cards on ebay at a discount from their face value. And stop buying them fricking apps. There are always free alternatives or warez, not that I condone that, but if they had half a brain and you had more brain than heart, you wouldn't be buying them crap.

 

[virtualv]

I must be the only person in here who isn't knocking people down and stepping over their bodies to get to Jr. VIP. Heck...all I care about is learning what I can, helping when I can and making money. To me, BHW isn't just a game or a status symbol to reach for...it's a way of life to strive for.

 

[luckykittypurrpurr]

i merely made a suggestion. some of you wanna flame me, go right ahead. i stick to it. But ya im just so over this. i couldnt care less about jrvip anymore, but if im gonna be flamed for helping people and be shitted on by the people i do help, then why should i help?

I don't think my suggestion was too out there, and sure i was putting so much time and effort into helping to getting jrvip BUT i was going the extra mile out of the goodness of my heart. I was contributing to this community, so yes I would gain by getting to jrvip but the community also gained from me earning it by contributing and not just wanting to buy my way in. If you don't understand that, then I don't know what to tell you.

Based on the responses in this thread and the one i posted in lounge, ya I'm turning my pms off. People who help others and bring new ideas here is a big part of what keeps bhw going. Keep treating people like this when they are only trying to help is going to deter people from helping, and it already has.

I was merely making a suggestion, and I was jumped on. I guess you took it as an attack to the forum or mods, or took it personally in some way, when again I was only making a suggestion.

no worries though, if you think you should deter people from helping and posting, then so be it.

I'm seriously in disbelief how a suggestion got turned into this.... i'm done defending myself with those who feel they need to attack me by making false accusations and taking what I do or say out of context, etc.

 

[sinewave]

I'm seriously in disbelief how a suggestion got turned into this.... i'm done defending myself with those who feel they need to attack me by making false accusations and taking what I do or say out of context, etc.

Your "suggestion" was entirely about your personal gain, not about improvement of the forum. You stated that you wanted into Jr. VIP, what you had carried out to gain admission outside of the usual route and that a certain dispensation should be made because of your "selfless" acts.

Disbelief? Awwwwww, poor drama kitty! boo hoo!

Next time you post to the "Feedback & Suggestions" forum, try making a constructive contribution that serves the needs of someone ... anyone apart from yourself.

In fact, you might take a few minutes now to thank Admins and Mods.

Admins and Mods work here for free so you can post your whining about your special case.

 

[adsensenewbie34]

I realize that, with so few posts, my opinion probably doesn't matter much to many of you, but as a long time lurker of BHW, I have to say that luckykittypurrpurr's posts have been some of the most helpful I've ever seen on BHW (and many other members have posted similar praise in the e-whoring forum).

I think her comments here were taken completely out of context. It's not unreasonable to look forward to a little recognition for her selfless efforts at helping the newbies (such as myself) learn the ropes. Without people like this on the forum, the BH experts of tomorrow have no mentors and limited guidance in getting started with BH... let's not scare off an asset to the community.