Girlfriend Broke Up With Me

[sarger604]

move on and find another. as someone mentioned money is 10x better when you have someone happy to enjoy it with by ur side

 

[Jarwhato]

If you really want her back just ignore her. Girls hate that. They like to know that even though you're broken up that you still make her a priority. If you show her that she's not a priority by not talking to her, not hanging out with her, not responding to text messages, etc. She will come crawling back. Girls hate that.

 

[zalpriest]

Drink lots and lots of vodka!

 

[jenjen]

Why did your girlfriend break up with you in the first place??
If you guys are meant to be then you will get back together.
I've never broken up with a guy and stopped caring about him.
Even if we were on bad terms..i still loved them. So you never know
just give her some space and act like you are out and about.
And then you may bump into and it could start up again.
In the meantime..maybe you could figure out why she did this
in the first place. Women and men need the same thing..they
both want to feel like the person they are with thinks of them as
the best thing since sliced bread. Did you make her feel special?

 

[BrickTop]

Disregard females, acquire currency. They are disgusting 3DP anyway. You don't need a female, OP. You need money. Bitches come after money.

 

[kengy22]

Hey,
Sorry dude, i felt like that years back. It really hurt especially you love her very much. You still want her? Then persist a little more to see if she will come back to you. If not, you have to concentrate more and put more effort on your job of making money, you will be surprise you will remember so little of her.

Get busy dude.

 

[JohnnyRabbit]

truthfully in a bizness like this its hard to manage a relationship at the same time (for me it is) so instead of looking for a life parther you need to work on getting your life together first!

rule number 1=money over bitches
rule number 2=show no love ,because love will get you killed (whether it be mentally or physically)

AMAZING ADVICE. THANK YOU!

This is what I need to hear.

 

[JohnnyRabbit]

Ok bro, this exact situation happened to me about 2 months ago and I am going to tell you exactly what you should do and exactly what I did. Please follow my advice cause it will work.

Skype/text her and say just chat as if everything is normal then have this conversation:

You: Yeah I'm feeling good about this breakup. Didn't think it would be this quick for me to get over you.

Her: Oh, you're already over me? That was quick..

You: Yeah well I dunno. I went out with some mates and I've gotten my confidence back so it's been pretty easy.

Her: Oh cool. Hmm. I miss us..


Lol probs won't happen exactly like that but I promise you. Act like you don't give a fuck and like you're moving on quicker than her and girls will ALWAYS want what they can't have. I did exactly this and she came running back, I tagged that a couple more times and sent her on her way knowing that I had won the war.

It made me feel soooooo much better so do it man.

LOL a blackhat method for relationships

Great stuff bro, trying this now

 

[ScrapeBoss]

Sorry about this. First try to reconcile with her. She may be putting you through some tests to know if you really cared for her even after a break-up. Some ladies behave like that sometimes.

If after making attempts and she refuses to come back, then move on. You can quickly forget about her by going out with friends, involving in sports and doing some other activities that make you enjoy yourself.

If she has found another person, she may want to test the other guy and enjoy life a little bit with him. I believe she would come back to you if she does not meet the kind of affection and love you showered on her.

Ladies leave a man for a lot of reasons. It could even be that you are to blame. Ladies need love. A lady wants her man to be for her and for her alone. It is the kind of jealousy that is naturally embedded in every woman and if she feels that she could not have her man to herself alone, she would break up the relationship out of frustration.

There might also have been some warning signs but you failed to recognize them and act quickly so as to keep your girl. Ladies ponder over issues for many days and weeks before taking action. They are not like men. We men always take decisions without proper thought as to what the implications of our actions might be. Therefore, you should have noticed changes in her behavior even before she finally made it known to you that she was no longer interested in the relationship with you.

Another thing could be the area of intimacy. Maybe you were not doing it well with her. This may sound awkward but it is the truth. In every relationship, a lady wants her man to always be available to meet her sexual needs and do it whenever she wants it. She might think you were not living up to expectation in that area. In most cases, a lady wont tell you she wants to have sex with you or she wants more or that you are not doing it right with her. She expects you to be able to discern her needs and be able to meet those needs.

She might have also left you as a result of financial reasons. Most ladies want to wear the best clothes. A lady expects her man to be able to fill that gap. This is despite the fact that she might be financially okay herself. She still expects her man to shoulder some responsibilities. That is what shows one is a man.

Peer pressure could also be a factor here. What type of friends does your ex-girlfriend keep? Could they have contributed to the breakup? What type of men do those friends have? What kind of relationships do they get involved in? These things determine the health of relationshhips of the member of any friendship circle.

Like I said before, try to reconcile with her and if she refuses, forget her and move on.

 

[JohnnyRabbit]

It gets better as you get older.

Women comes and go like business ideas and ventures. Good thing she cashed out now than if you were 40 years old and had already built a life together.

Are you worried about go to sleep alone each night, or are you afraid of not getting to stick your penis in a moist hole every once in a while?

Both bro

But I must move on, the replies from this thread have been fantastic in really motivating me to be the person I need to be at this point.

 

[JohnnyRabbit]

If you really want her back just ignore her. Girls hate that. They like to know that even though you're broken up that you still make her a priority. If you show her that she's not a priority by not talking to her, not hanging out with her, not responding to text messages, etc. She will come crawling back. Girls hate that.

Going to definetly try this!!!!

 

[Virus1]

Sorry to hear that you are going thru rough times.

LET ME BREAK IT TO YOU HARD AND FAST.

if you are doing IM... then you have an analytical mind.
do not try to analyze this break up or this relationship..
trying to find what went wrong...
what went wrong does not matter...
it will not change things in the now....

You need to do things for yourself...
to help get rid of the hurt....
only time will cure this hurt...
but do things for yourself..
go see a movie....
go get a haircut
work out a bit
go for a walk
stay busy....
the busier you get... the faster time will pass..
the less it will hurt.

now about the good sex thing...
when guys say the sex was so good...
no girl can replace her....
that just means.. you have not had enough
partners....that is why you are whoop on the sex

My other job... is CLUB PROMOTER....
tons of horny drunk bitches at the clubs....
ready to fuk the shit out of you...
ready to be your "friend"
ready to help you feel better about yourself...
it does not matter you are not a club person
i don't even know how to dance....

Girls make you feel like THEY are special

they really are not... its just they play hard
to get... that when we have them...
it makes us feel like they cannot be replace...

one more thing...
rearrange the furniture in your home/apt
I don't know why but it helps give you a new
outlook....and takes some of the hurt away


good luck

 

[JohnnyRabbit]

Why did your girlfriend break up with you in the first place??
If you guys are meant to be then you will get back together.
I've never broken up with a guy and stopped caring about him.
Even if we were on bad terms..i still loved them. So you never know
just give her some space and act like you are out and about.
And then you may bump into and it could start up again.
In the meantime..maybe you could figure out why she did this
in the first place. Women and men need the same thing..they
both want to feel like the person they are with thinks of them as
the best thing since sliced bread. Did you make her feel special?

Yeah but I was at my hands and knees for her and she wasn't for me.

I felt like I was giving more of the relationship in doing things and buying things for her but myself was still involved with doing work on the computer and not going out, just staying home....

Also she never bought me anything and she is just my girlfriend for 1 year and I buy her every lunch/dinner

 

[allblueskys]

I learned that the older you get the easier it is to get girls. I have had some really bad break ups in my life but things always got better.

You just got to do you for now and have fun being on your own. Do something you couldnt do with a chick holding you down. Go traveling, hit up a strip club with some friends.

Single isnt so bad but its nice to have someone by your side. If the girl you were with cant respect what your doing now to improve your future than she isnt a good girl. My current GF is there for me no matter what I do. She bitches a lot but in te end she understands that Im working for my future which is something she will be a part of.

 

[allblueskys]

Going to definetly try this!!!!

Even better!! - Hot girls on Fiverr will friend you on Facebook and post messages to get your ex jealouse.

 

[JohnnyRabbit]

Sorry about this. First try to reconcile with ther. She may be putting you through some tests to know if you really cared for her even after a break-up. Some ladies behave like that sometimes.

If after making attempts and she refuses to come back, then move on. You can quickly forget about her by going out with friends, involving in sports and doing some other activities that make you enjoy yourself.

If she has found another person, she may want to test the other guy and enjoy life a little bit with him. I believe she would come back to you if she does not meet the kind of affection and love you shower on her.

Ladies leave a man for a lot of reasons. It could even be that you are to blame. Ladies need love. A lady wants her man to be for her and for her alone. It is the kind of jealousy that is naturally embedded in every woman and if she feels that she could not have her man to herself alone, she would break up the relationship out of frustration.

There might also have been some warning signs but you failed to recognize them and act quickly so as to keep your girl. Ladies ponder over issues for many days and weeks before taking action. They are not like men. We men always take decisions without proper thought as to what the implications of our actions might be. Therefore, you should have noticed changes in her behavior even before she finally made it known to you that she was no longer interested in the relationship with you.

Another thing could be the area of intimacy. Maybe you were not doing it well with her. This may sound awkward but it is the truth. In every relationship, a lady wants her man to always be available to meet her sexual needs and do it whenever she wants it. She might think you were not living up to expectation in that area. In most cases, a lady wont tell you she wants to have sex with you or she wants more or that you are not doing it right with her. She expects you to be able to discern her needs and be able to meet those needs.

She might have also left you as a result of financial reasons. Most ladies want to wear the best clothes. A lady expects her man to be able to fill that gap. This is despite the fact that she might be financially okay herself. She still expects her man to shoulder some responsibilities. That is what shows one is a man.

Peer pressure could also be a factor here. What type of friends does your ex-girlfriend keep? Could they have contributed to the breakup? What type of men do those friends have? What kind of relationships do they get involved in? These things determine the health of relationshhips of the member of any friendship circle.

Like I said before, try to reconciliate with her and if she refuses, forget her and move on.

Damn you really gave me some good insight on what I may have done wrong.

But I don't know if I should try to reconcile it with her...

Her friends suck and they are one of the reasons why we broke up.. I don't get along with some of her friends anymore.

Also she has all her stuff at my house so what should I do? Should I reconcile it with her when she comes over and gets her stuff or just say fuck it and move on?

 

[JohnnyRabbit]

Sorry to hear that you are going thru rough times.

LET ME BREAK IT TO YOU HARD AND FAST.

if you are doing IM... then you have an analytical mind.
do not try to analyze this break up or this relationship..
trying to find what went wrong...
what went wrong does not matter...
it will not change things in the now....

You need to do things for yourself...
to help get rid of the hurt....
only time will cure this hurt...
but do things for yourself..
go see a movie....
go get a haircut
work out a bit
go for a walk
stay busy....
the busier you get... the faster time will pass..
the less it will hurt.

now about the good sex thing...
when guys say the sex was so good...
no girl can replace her....
that just means.. you have not had enough
partners....that is why you are whoop on the sex

My other job... is CLUB PROMOTER....
tons of horny drunk bitches at the clubs....
ready to fuk the shit out of you...
ready to be your "friend"
ready to help you feel better about yourself...
it does not matter you are not a club person
i don't even know how to dance....

Girls make you feel like THEY are special

they really are not... its just they play hard
to get... that when we have them...
it makes us feel like they cannot be replace...

one more thing...
rearrange the furniture in your home/apt
I don't know why but it helps give you a new
outlook....and takes some of the hurt away


good luck

Thanks for the good advice. A lot of what you said made me feel better. You have some good ideas that I should try

 

[ShadeDream]

Even better!! - Hot girls on Fiverr will friend you on Facebook and post messages to get your ex jealouse.

I wouldn't recommend. If tracks are left behind, and you get caught doing something like this, it'll just make you look desperate...

 

[BigOZ]

Don't know why people specially guys are becoming very selfish about their life. We keep thinking about ourselves and our satisfaction.

But What I feel about life is, try to make others happy, then Happiness and satisfaction will come in your way automatically.

About GirlFriends.

Which is a fashion of West. This types of relationship really does not work to be happy for whole of your life.

If its all about Sex, then its really waste of time of being in a relationship.
Why? Because, Your GF will keep pushing her hands into your daily & personal life. Sometime its disturbing for professional life.

But, If we start Loving people around us, ( Family Members, Loving Bird )
and Really want to make them happy then, their smile can bring smile in your face..

Thats what happens with me. A Person Can't be happy alone no matter how much of money he earns or has.

But if those money brings some better life to you family, I am sure you will be more than happy.

At OP, Your GF Left you, 1st Think, What was your fault and what she was actually looking from you.

If its all about your time which you mostly give at BHW, then Its your Fault, And You must try to get back into her life with some more and better commitments.

Or If she wants some more comfortable space in your personal life Selfishly and you did not allow it, then its her fault, and you must look forward to your life.

If a girl thinks about herself and about her satisfaction, then she can't make you happy.

Wishing to Keep Each Other Happy all the time can make a Couple Successful and Happy for life.

I Love My GF, But not More than my Parents.

I know, My GF also does the same.

May My Lord keep her healthy and happy all the time and make myself a capable guy to bring all the happiness into her Life.

 

[ScrapeBoss]

But I don't know if I should try to reconcile it with her...

The best thing is to try to reconcile with her. If on a scale of 10 she still has a passmark, it is worth trying again. But before you do that, you need to define the plan you want for her. Do you see her as a person you could later marry in life? If yes, then you should reconcile. On the other hand, if you dont really have any plan for her. If your intention is just to have sex with one another, it may not be worth it to reconcile with her. It is better not to waste her time. Maybe she really wanted a serious relationship that could lead to marriage but you were not ready for that. Therefore, your own ultimate intentions should determine whether or not to reconcile with her. One thing you should also note is that you can still be friends even after breakup. Try to maintain friendship even if you dont come back as lovers.

Her friends suck and they are one of the reasons why we broke up.. I don't get along with some of her friends anymore.

Females dont make friends with each other easily. They are not like men. Men get along with each other easily and make good long-term friends. Whenever females finally make friends with one another, it is always a strong friendship that could make them disposed to sacrificing their boyfriends in order to keep their female friends. Breaking her away from her friends could be a very tough battle. But it is possible to do. First, you need to make her know your true love for her. If she sees true love in you and you convince her with reasons why her friends would not help your relationship, she is likely to sacrifice them for you. But it is not always easy.

Also she has all her stuff at my house so what should I do? Should I reconcile it with her when she comes over and gets her stuff or just say fuck it and move on?

WAOW!!!!!!!!!! That means both of you have really gone far. It really takes time and very hard for a lady to break up a relationship of that nature. I guess her family also know you and the relationship with their dauther/sister. Try to make a move to get her back. Maybe she's just on a fun-spree.