Would you date her?

[TheChronicles]

if you get with her, your with her for her present and future, not her past.

 

[ex_almir]

Don't discount the EX-Factor. I can still have sex with 70% of my exes. I don't but, I can. The ones I can't have sex with are either too far away or I just have not been in contact with them.

That is 50 potential "old time sakes." 50 people is a lot. Seriously, you don't have to have sex with EVERYONE you date.

More than that, I have been the "Nice Guy" that is made to wait as well. It seems weird to me that you fall into the bed of every other guy, but I, being a nice guy, have to wait. In those cases, it's flush and move on.

 

[xplicit]

if you get with her, your with her for her present and future, not her past.

I think this is the best answer by far. Why is it men say women are whores and all that shit because they like to get laid. If a guy was doing it he would be a hero.

Hell theres nothing wrong with a fine chick to get laid alot. Hell when we go out to the clubs or wherever, didnt half you guys see a fine chick and say i want a piece if that, and you talk to her all cool. And then if she did sleep with you wouldnt that be the same, she banged you on the first night of knowing you. I think thats a little trashy myself.

As men we all have been there and done that. It doesnt mean shes a bad person because she had sex with 40-50 dudes, it just means she is sexually active.

Most guys have double standards these days, its ok for them to do it but not for girls to do it, Hell half the girls we are with probably have done it to just smart enough not to say anything.

I say take it slow, see if shes changed, You cannot base someone because of how many people they have slept with, Unless it was the same night. or family

 

[turbotec]

 

[lazarus4444]

If she is clean go for it if you like her....

As for insecurity....If you are not secure with yourself and your ability to please her then don't do it.

If you keep your woman happy 98% of them won't step out on you. The other 2% are meant to be swingers and swapping around a lot. Are you of that mentality? It's not for everybody...

 

[plouyd]

In my ebook (lol) doesn't matter how many people you sleep with, isn't that the point? If you slept with 50 girls you'd brag about it too!

You must multiply the number by 3 with women because they usually get so damn drunk they don't even realize they slept with everyone at the party, but only remember the guy they woke up next to.. sometimes... Making their estimation a little off..

Buuuuut.. Nothin wrong with a girl with experience!.. which is why I voted YES! I dated a little whore in high school.. it was good times, but with a really bad ending.

Sometimes the slutty girls just want a guy who actually gives a shit and doesn't shag n leave em. This, like everything won't last forever though so a long-term relationship wouldn't be smart especially if your the type who gets close without trying or annoyed by the fact that you know your GF's a slut and she wont leave ya alone for a goddamn minute.

DO IT!!!!

 

[xxfactorxx]

I wouldn't touch her with an 80 ft pole. Sorry to seem shallow but I like my women in mint condition

 

[uma4guma]

Any photos of this chick? Also what town does she live in. i may give her a go. Even if it doesn't work out, it sounds like she's a sure thing and certainly worth the price of a meal.

 

[ubuntuser]

As long as she did more with me than she did with the 50 other guys.

 

[MotorCity]

I could not vote; I did not have a option that fit my answer.

I can say this: I w@@d bend her over for about half the day and then move on.

 

[Geetfaux]

I voted no but if she can cook & clean I would re-consider

 

[Bugalugs]

What horrid little creatures you all are
Such a lot of pots calling the kettle black !

 

[retsuca]

In my experiences you have to just forgive and forget anything they have done in a past relationship, otherwise it just ends up starting a long battle holding stuff over eachother's heads.

I say go for it.

 

[invisibleme]

this is quite tricky, logically I can't bring myself doing this and met some guys out there that knows her past as well, on the other side, if I do know her well enough and love here dearly, then the latter will certainly take precedence

 

[sageman]

...don't want to be a statistic. in all honesty, that will intimidate me to the point where "Johnny" will protest.

 

[ProMailer101]

I struggle with my gf at about 5 guys shes slept with haha go find a virgin

 

[nerdmoney]

Only if she is a black hat. Gotta have something to do with her

 

[frenchboy]

I would love a girl like that,

you guys are why most men don't have more than 5 sex partners in their whole lives.

You just chode around and call everyone a slut.

 

[JigJig]

i do not hold women to a higher standard than I hold myself. Yeah I would probably give it a shot.

I like what this guy said. If you can get past her history and it doesn't bother you too much, I'd give it a shot. But if it does bother you it will always be in the back of your mind and will eventually cause problems in the relationship (it'll come up during fights and stuff).

 

[9tail]

LOL... As the saying goes... You can't turn a _o into a housewife...LOL

If she was easy then... Then she's easy now... If you think she's changed because she's not easy with you, it's because she's easy with someone else...