Have you ever been bullied?

[nuclearrap]

My life story is so complicated. Here is my life in a nutshell:

0 - 15 years old: big violence and always been bullied by my dad, teachers, school and neighbourhood friends, maybe 5000 violent cases, physically and mentally. I guess these all happened because parents raised me in a wrong way, didn't teach me how to protect myself. But they harmed me a lot instead.

15-20 years old: as a white blonde guy in europe, got into gangsta rap music. 2pac was my idol. Saw myself in him. Hated school lessons. Carried a knife, attacked too many people, beat even teachers sometimes, could not stand unjustice things. Fought with anxiety and depression. But proudly I have never beaten a woman, or a kid, or an animal. My nick name was "Father" in my original language in the society.

20-30 years old: I quit violence, carrying dangerous things. Educated myself online. Learned coding, SEO, watched lots of scientific documentaries. From my attitudes, people and my old friends still call me "father" for some reason and I don't even know why. Even girls call me this.

In my 30s now: I have been through a lot in life. My parents act like they hate me since I was born and I don't see them for the last 6 years. My pain was really so big in life. Am still fighting and my demons are after me since I was born. But we will see what happens and what life holds for us. We have to keep fighting.

 

[DediRock]

yeah when I was younger, then got into wrestling, wrestled in high school and in college. Was never an issue since.

 

[Funiki]

I have never been bullied and I do not support bullying in any way. Because I know how others feel and that's not good at all.
I've had more fights defending others than I have for my own problems.
No, I'm not the justice man, I'm just the guy who doesn't and won't allow things to happen to others that I wasn't taught or that I know are wrong.

I'm really sorry for you and for the things that has happened before but something is true :
We have to keep fighting.

More important, there is someone that see you as a Hero. We have to be that Hero for them.

 

[Ckermai]

Wow, man, your journey sounds incredibly tough - all that bullying and violence from such a young age, especially from your own dad and teachers, really tugs at the heart. It’s amazing you’ve flipped the script with coding and SEO, and that "Father" nickname lingering is kinda sweet - what do you think draws people to call you that? Keep pushing through those demons, you’ve got a strength that’s inspiring!

 

[nuclearrap]

Wow, man, your journey sounds incredibly tough - all that bullying and violence from such a young age, especially from your own dad and teachers, really tugs at the heart. It’s amazing you’ve flipped the script with coding and SEO, and that "Father" nickname lingering is kinda sweet - what do you think draws people to call you that? Keep pushing through those demons, you’ve got a strength that’s inspiring!

Thanks, man. I guess the reason they call me "father" might be my deep and harsh voice, not sucking up to anyone, not kissing asses of even the richest people, and having a sense of justice, standing against anyone if there is unjustice. Even if they sometimes say I'm angry, but they eventually see that I'm not a harmful person. My ego and pride can get in the way sometimes because of my traumas to protect myself, but eventually all people see that I am a good man in the end. Women say I am a natural protector. And I can not fear anyone even if I wanted especially if it is bullying or violent related things. Because my immunity is strong for it.

 

[Starblazer]

Bullied by people, by Google and by reddit mods.

 

[MediaForgePR]

More important, there is someone that see you as a Hero. We have to be that Hero for them.

Truly insightful words. We need to think and work for them. Don't waste on unnecessary things.

 

[seoways]

You are awesome bro.. Ignore every bullies like they never exist, they can never impact on our life in any ways.

 

[orange.diver]

My life story is so complicated. Here is my life in a nutshell:

0 - 15 years old: big violence and always been bullied by my dad, teachers, school and neighbourhood friends, maybe 5000 violent cases, physically and mentally. I guess these all happened because parents raised me in a wrong way, didn't teach me how to protect myself. But they harmed me a lot instead.

15-20 years old: as a white blonde guy in europe, got into gangsta rap music. 2pac was my idol. Saw myself in him. Hated school lessons. Carried a knife, attacked too many people, beat even teachers sometimes, could not stand unjustice things. Fought with anxiety and depression. But proudly I have never beaten a woman, or a kid, or an animal. My nick name was "Father" in my original language in the society.

20-30 years old: I quit violence, carrying dangerous things. Educated myself online. Learned coding, SEO, watched lots of scientific documentaries. From my attitudes, people and my old friends still call me "father" for some reason and I don't even know why. Even girls call me this.

In my 30s now: I have been through a lot in life. My parents act like they hate me since I was born and I don't see them for the last 6 years. My pain was really so big in life. Am still fighting and my demons are after me since I was born. But we will see what happens and what life holds for us. We have to keep fighting.

Hey, thank you for sharing your story, it takes real courage. I hear your pain, and I want you to know I truly understand. I’ve lived that ache too, especially the deep hurt of feeling unloved by your own parents. It cuts deeper than anything.

But look at you: you chose to change. You walked away from violence, taught yourself new skills, grew despite the odds. That’s not luck, that’s strength. And people still call you “Father”? That says something. It’s respect. You became someone others look up to, even after no one was there for you. I'd love it if girls called me like that LOL!

For me, life got better when I stopped fighting my parents. I started saying “yes” to everything they said; but then quietly doing what I knew was right. Peace came when I stopped needing their approval. Slowly, my life became mine.

You’re already doing that. You’re still here, still fighting. Better days are possible!

 

[CPANathan]

We call this character building here at home in Ireland

Could you imagine a boring old life after all of that... we do keep fighting

 

[Iick]

yeah, it was mostly in elementary or middle school tho. some kids were mean to me but its whatever.

 

[ymxfl]

I just say..don't worry,be happy.

 

[777cappuccino777]

The essence of all forms of self sabotage have their roots in a deep terror of rejection & failure. So you screw yourself over before anything else can. Then if and when you do fail it pales in comparison to the pain you’re already in

 

[nuclearrap]

Thank you all for reading my life story.

 

[venchulini]

My life story is so complicated. Here is my life in a nutshell:

0 - 15 years old: big violence and always been bullied by my dad, teachers, school and neighbourhood friends, maybe 5000 violent cases, physically and mentally. I guess these all happened because parents raised me in a wrong way, didn't teach me how to protect myself. But they harmed me a lot instead.

15-20 years old: as a white blonde guy in europe, got into gangsta rap music. 2pac was my idol. Saw myself in him. Hated school lessons. Carried a knife, attacked too many people, beat even teachers sometimes, could not stand unjustice things. Fought with anxiety and depression. But proudly I have never beaten a woman, or a kid, or an animal. My nick name was "Father" in my original language in the society.

20-30 years old: I quit violence, carrying dangerous things. Educated myself online. Learned coding, SEO, watched lots of scientific documentaries. From my attitudes, people and my old friends still call me "father" for some reason and I don't even know why. Even girls call me this.

In my 30s now: I have been through a lot in life. My parents act like they hate me since I was born and I don't see them for the last 6 years. My pain was really so big in life. Am still fighting and my demons are after me since I was born. But we will see what happens and what life holds for us. We have to keep fighting.

damn man i felt that i think you need start going to gym it will help alot and turn off everything on your mind and keep you on track daily i find cure going the gym really it become as im going to heal my self daily than going to build muscle or something

 

[Mamba Noir]

Was bullied all my life. Felt like I had a target on my back. But what I realized was that people who are alienated, abused and or black balled are people who carry “the light”. We were meant to change the world in some small way. Collectively we are a special group of people.

 

[Zedd1]

Was bullied all my life. Felt like I had a target on my back. But what I realized was that people who are alienated, abused and or black balled are people who carry “the light”. We were meant to change the world in some small way. Collectively we are a special group of people.

Do you have a psychological weakness? People usually notice this and try to crush you. If you have a personality that shows other people that you are anxious, people will notice it and try to crush you.

 

[payal23j]

Yeah.. as i am fat since childhood.. my frnz called me MOTTI that time.. it hurts sometime but after that nothing bother me. I accepted and make it funniest part of my life.. now I'm enjoying myself too.

 

[Mamba Noir]

Do you have a psychological weakness? People usually notice this and try to crush you. If you have a personality that shows other people that you are anxious, people will notice it and try to crush you.

Nah, I was poor. That was my weakness. And when I hit adulthood, I took that weakness and made it my strength. I alchemized it, making sure I was never poor again.

 

[GmailBank]

I am 30 years old and I have never been bullied but I have always supported people who were bullied, "Who can bully a 2 meter tall and really tough man?" Bullying is a result of the bully in all societies who satisfy their ego by using violence on someone they see as inferior to them due to their character and spiritual deficiency. This is a very bad thing. I read your life story, you really acted as you should have, now you are 30 and you have matured as a tired old wolf. Congratulations, I know someone who went through what you went through and then committed suicide. You are a strong man, my friend.