Can I send someone on instagram an abusive text?

she.444

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Hello!

So first of all I'd never do that if I didn't have a reason and Im not sure if I can somehow get into trouble. There is some guy who is stalking me from fake profiles all the time and this has been going on for the longest time ever. I've had a case when I recently needed to do a factory reset on my phone just in case. My gmail was hacked a few times so far.

I have always wanted to send that person a text and tell them they are a little worm with no life who is always stalking out of jealousy. I have so many things I want to tell him but each time when I think about sending the fake profile a message and getting into a fight I feel bothered if I can somehow get into trouble.

Can he do anything else besides reporting my account and also should I use my real ig when I message him?

I have some suspicion its an ex of mine.
 
How do you know hes stalking you? He likes posts or smth? I think you can be reported and then banned from the app if you ever do it.
 
How do you know hes stalking you? He likes posts or smth? I think you can be reported and then banned from the app if you ever do it.

Better block and move on
Typical reaction from women haters on this forum. He's stalking her, she's asking for help and you're on his side. Exactly why I'm reluctant to do business with ya all. For now looking only into reselling elsewhere from one of very few non-misogynists here (that happens to provide very quality service too... I guess he's focused on his work and not on this incel crap).

@she.444 I'm sorry to say this, but you'll probably have to learn hacking (both defensive and offensive) if he doesn't piss off. Go grab some linux distro, learn about firewalls, make sure your passwords aren't easy and you don't use security questions (for password reset) that he knows the answer to.
 
Typical reaction from women haters on this forum. He's stalking her, she's asking for help and you're on his side. Exactly why I'm reluctant to do business with ya all. For now looking only into reselling elsewhere from one of very few non-misogynists here (that happens to provide very quality service too... I guess he's focused on his work and not on this incel crap).

@she.444 I'm sorry to say this, but you'll probably have to learn hacking (both defensive and offensive) if he doesn't piss off. Go grab some linux distro, learn about firewalls, make sure your passwords aren't easy and you don't use security questions (for password reset) that he knows the answer to.

There is nothing wrong in avoiding and moving on

I don't know how you generalize good advice as "typical reaction from women haters on this forum" what?

And you want her to learn hacking? so she can take revenge after few years? Is this hollywood movie plot?
 
Honestly, it’s better not to engage at all and it usually just fuels them more. Blocking, reporting, and staying quiet works best long term. If you do message (not recommended), definitely don’t use your real IG. But honestly, your peace of mind is worth more than proving a point to someone like that.
 
There is nothing wrong in avoiding and moving on

I don't know how you generalize good advice as "typical reaction from women haters on this forum" what?

And you want her to learn hacking? so she can take revenge after few years? Is this hollywood movie plot?
Irl women that got assaulted also learn self defense. Not a movie plot, it's just that either:

1. You're a looser (If someone attacks you on the street irl you don't attack back? Because I do.)
2. Most probably you're on his side, perhaps did something similar to another woman or wish to do that but don't have the skill so you cheer on him and try to 'teach' women to be passive victims.

Irl if something like this happens you learn self defense. He's doing this online so she has to learn security. Happened to me multiple times years ago, multiple guys were hacking into my computers and basically stalking me, watching what I do then conversing about it casually, turning my computer off if I did something they didn't like (yes, really). I learned hacking and eventually stopped getting hacked because I knew how to manage my devices properly. I don't really get hacked anymore and if something like this happened again I'd know how to kick these creeps out.

Your shit reaction (promoting victim behaviour) is the more concerning when you realize how much adult aff and OnlyFans wannabe pimps are here. Just admit you're a bunch of Andrew Tate fans already.

She could have a conversation with him as well (I sure did tell 'mine' to fuck off) but it's true that modern social media isn't the same like when I used to talk with people on instant messengers like jabber/gg/icq, she might get banned. Just learn to defend yourself and kick him out.
 
Typical reaction from women haters on this forum. He's stalking her, she's asking for help and you're on his side. Exactly why I'm reluctant to do business with ya all. For now looking only into reselling elsewhere from one of very few non-misogynists here (that happens to provide very quality service too... I guess he's focused on his work and not on this incel crap).

@she.444 I'm sorry to say this, but you'll probably have to learn hacking (both defensive and offensive) if he doesn't piss off. Go grab some linux distro, learn about firewalls, make sure your passwords aren't easy and you don't use security questions (for password reset) that he knows the answer to.
I didnt even know shes a woman as I didnt read her name lol. I was just asking additional contexts on how she thinks shes getting stalked and I was just saying to not use their account as they might get banned. Chill out.
 
Hello!

So first of all I'd never do that if I didn't have a reason and Im not sure if I can somehow get into trouble. There is some guy who is stalking me from fake profiles all the time and this has been going on for the longest time ever. I've had a case when I recently needed to do a factory reset on my phone just in case. My gmail was hacked a few times so far.

I have always wanted to send that person a text and tell them they are a little worm with no life who is always stalking out of jealousy. I have so many things I want to tell him but each time when I think about sending the fake profile a message and getting into a fight I feel bothered if I can somehow get into trouble.

Can he do anything else besides reporting my account and also should I use my real ig when I message him?

I have some suspicion its an ex of mine.
If its your personal account then i would not suggest to risk your instagram account.
 
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