Do you feel living with your partner decrease your quality of life?

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hexagonal

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This is the second time that I start living with someone else and it always feels that my life gets messy.
I moved with my gf 2 weeks ago before that my routine was basically gym, minced meat with rice and work from home, now it just feels messy it feels that something needs to be fixed, done, etc always.

I think partners not getting what's WFH is a major problem if I'm not doing anything it does not mean that I should be taking care of something the same would happen in an office downtime exists for a reason
 
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hexagonal said:
This is the second time that I start living with someone else and it always feels that my life gets messy.
I moved with my gf 2 weeks ago before that my routine was basically gym, minced meat with rice and work from home, now it just feels messy it feels that something needs to be fixed, done, etc always.

I think partners not getting what's WFH is a major problem if I'm not doing anything it does not mean that I should be taking care of something the same would happen in an office downtime exists for a reason
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Totally get you! Living with someone changes the whole routine, and WFH makes it even trickier. Clear boundaries help a lot!
 
hexagonal said:
This is the second time that I start living with someone else and it always feels that my life gets messy.
I moved with my gf 2 weeks ago before that my routine was basically gym, minced meat with rice and work from home, now it just feels messy it feels that something needs to be fixed, done, etc always.

I think partners not getting what's WFH is a major problem if I'm not doing anything it does not mean that I should be taking care of something the same would happen in an office downtime exists for a reason
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Always listen to your intuition. Always.
 
Tou know, it makes sense that adding another person to a household would shake things up a bit, it's not always smooth.

You need to find a way to make it work together. Don't half ass it, it could be the best thing you'll ever do.
 
It's ok OP, once you finish high school and get in to a proper relationship as an adult you'll see sacrificing some time, effort and conveniences for others, namely family and your partner is part and parcel of what relationships are all about.
 
tutankamun said:
It's ok OP, once you finish high school and get in to a proper relationship as an adult you'll see sacrificing some time, effort and conveniences for others, namely family and your partner is part and parcel of what relationships are all about.
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...happy singles of the world are NOT impressed xD
 
It's normal, it started just two weeks ago, you are still adapting to this new lifestyle, try to organize your routine and create daily goals
 
Don't WFH. Work from a co-working space it helps in building a routine. No person from the regular offline world is going to understand WFH or IM.

I don't know the dynamics of the relationship to give you any suggestions in that front but personally I don't WFH even if I could. I still work out of a dedicated office space away from home. I still drive there work for 6-10 hours and then come back home.

Ofc routine will break and you get to adapt to the change. Change is permanent and a lot of times good.
 
hexagonal said:
This is the second time that I start living with someone else and it always feels that my life gets messy.
I moved with my gf 2 weeks ago before that my routine was basically gym, minced meat with rice and work from home, now it just feels messy it feels that something needs to be fixed, done, etc always.

I think partners not getting what's WFH is a major problem if I'm not doing anything it does not mean that I should be taking care of something the same would happen in an office downtime exists for a reason
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You should never forget your family. If you feel bored with your family, there is no problem in spending time with someone outside, but keep the matter private and come back to the family later when you feel better.
 
You don't have to move in with someone you're in a relationship with. If you like your life living by yourself that's absolutely fine
 
It's simple, live with someone when you can afford next circumstances.

At least 2 bathrooms, your own everything, if that includes your peace of mind and makes you unshakable.


Even later in marriage, you should aim to have 1x room of everything for every child and member of your family.

Why not aim for the best? It's certainly possible, and healthy.
 
indianmojojojo said:
Don't WFH. Work from a co-working space it helps in building a routine. No person from the regular offline world is going to understand WFH or IM.

I don't know the dynamics of the relationship to give you any suggestions in that front but personally I don't WFH even if I could. I still work out of a dedicated office space away from home. I still drive there work for 6-10 hours and then come back home.

Ofc routine will break and you get to adapt to the change. Change is permanent and a lot of times good.
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Personally I don't like offices as I have made the first floor of the apartment an office

BNB said:
It's simple, live with someone when you can afford next circumstances.

At least 2 bathrooms, your own everything, if that includes your peace of mind and makes you unshakable.


Even later in marriage, you should aim to have 1x room of everything for every child and member of your family.

Why not aim for the best? It's certainly possible, and healthy.
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We have enough space duplex with 2 rooms, 3 bathrooms, big spaces, etc
 
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