I can't make friends...

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I tried therapy, doctors till 2018/19. But I stopped therapy/ medicines(don't recommend this as it's tough initally). I just started writing my patterns, observed myself more. But I realized finally I had to get comfortable with my different state of minds and not be embarrassed.
Make friends with doctors who care. :rolleyes:
 
Make friends with doctors who care. :rolleyes:
Nah. I haven't been to a doctor in 5 years. I don't want to in the future too. My life has been much better after I quit medicines and therapy. The freedom is amazing.

But I don't recommend this. The initial few months would be tough. But the Self-confidence goes up after a while.
 
Nah. I haven't been to a doctor in 5 years. I don't want to in the future too. My life has been much better after I quit medicines and therapy. The freedom is amazing.

But I don't recommend this. The initial few months would be tough. But the Self-confidence goes up after a while.
It won't work for everyone, but good job.
 
Bro dont worry, i can be your friend. PM me mate lets have a chat
 
To be honest, the best and luckiest decision I ever made was getting a good therapist. I suffered from OCD for many years and was failing miserably at the "golden treatment" until I found a therapist that regarded me as a human being worth carrying for. How does this connect to making friends? Well after going through my pains and all things that I learned in early childhood I was able to slowly heal until a point came where I felt comfortable to actually make connections again with people. I don't want to be preachy or anything but people really need someone they can talk to fully and openly, and sadly/happily I was able to pay for that and slowly advance on the more emotional part of me.
You must be getting in and out of rehab and phsyciatric medication for life. That will shorten your life by 30% to 40%. Are you enjoying therapy and your bad advice?

Stay away from professionals like bankers, insurance scammers, Professional accountants(self learn its easy), stay away from doctors( quite white sugar and your energy level will shoot up), car agents, lawyers, architects, stock market, shop keepers(shop on amazon and you will save 80% cost with quality) etc. ...... If you go to these professionals I mentioned then you will have no bank balance.
 
You must be getting in and out of rehab and phsyciatric medication for life. That will shorten your life by 30% to 40%. Are you enjoying therapy and your bad advice?

Stay away from professionals like bankers, insurance scammers, Professional accountants(self learn its easy), stay away from doctors( quite white sugar and your energy level will shoot up), car agents, lawyers, architects, stock market, shop keepers(shop on amazon and you will save 80% cost with quality) etc. ...... If you go to these professionals I mentioned then you will have no bank balance.
Bridge jumping prevention 101. Stop eating sugar bro.

There were and are people who used drugs heavily, including prescription medication and they made it to 100 years.
For anything you say anecdotally, there's an anecdotal counterevidence.

If you go to rehab and don't take care of yourself, then blame your lack of care on doctors, well, you'll better off to visit a psychologist.
My advice, stop black and white thinking cause it doesn't serve anyone, especially when they work with data like marketers.
 
Bridge jumping prevention 101. Stop eating sugar bro.

There were and are people who used drugs heavily, including prescription medication and they made it to 100 years.

If you go to rehab and don't take care of yourself, then blame your lack of care on doctors, well, you'll better off to visit a psychologist.
I love my bank balance. These people are only after money. And you're part of syndicate.
 
I love my bank balance. These people are only after money. And you're part of syndicate.
It's the reality you create and surround yourself with. It's not objective facts. It's negative and negative thoughts, especially black and white ones aren't useful in our life.
 
It's the reality you create and surround yourself with. It's not objective facts. It's negative and negative thoughts, especially black and white ones aren't useful in our life.
Those thoughts come to the mind of street snatchers. Are you the one who buys biscuits from the same shop the street snatchers buy subsidized wheat from?
And you alies, those fraud insurance agents relatives work for big corporates like H&M?
 
You must be getting in and out of rehab and phsyciatric medication for life. That will shorten your life by 30% to 40%. Are you enjoying therapy and your bad advice?

Stay away from professionals like bankers, insurance scammers, Professional accountants(self learn its easy), stay away from doctors( quite white sugar and your energy level will shoot up), car agents, lawyers, architects, stock market, shop keepers(shop on amazon and you will save 80% cost with quality) etc. ...... If you go to these professionals I mentioned then you will have no bank balance.
Wow who hurt you like that.

Going to professionals costs more, but saves you time. For some people the time saved is more valuable than the price of the professional.

The same with going to a shop keeper who's an expert there compared to finding the right product yourself on Amazon (if it's a niche market) + you get it immediately.

It's just what is more valuable to you - the time you save or the money you save.
Some people are willing to spend 2 extra hours to save $5, others are not willing to spend 30 minutes to save $500.

Also like @reaaski said, don't make everything black and white based on your own experience. That is how people end up saying "internet marketing is dead because I tried it and I lost money. So it is impossible to earn money with it".
 
Wow who hurt you like that.

Going to professionals costs more, but saves you time. For some people the time saved is more valuable than the price of the professional.

The same with going to a shop keeper who's an expert there compared to finding the right product yourself on Amazon (if it's a niche market) + you get it immediately.

It's just what is more valuable to you - the time you save or the money you save.
Some people are willing to spend 2 extra hours to save $5, others are not willing to spend 30 minutes to save $500.

Also like @reaaski said, don't make everything black and white based on your own experience. That is how people end up saying "internet marketing is dead because I tried it and I lost money. So it is impossible to earn money with it".
Also adding to what you said:

Personally I avoid doctors, lawyers, politicians and professional accountants. This doesn't mean i avoid all professionals. Just the ones in medical field. But I trust the banks. But I don't follow their 'investment advise'.

It's just an individual decision and personal choice. There is nothing wrong avoiding or not avoiding. Nothing is black and white. There are just fine lines of grey.

What works for someone doesn't work for another.

But this thread is going in the wrong direction.

It's a nice topic I would like to learn/understand perspectives. If we discuss on topic it wont get locked. Let's stay on to answer the OP's questions
 
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I always thought making friends is more difficult than getting sex

Maybe is because I feel I have to mask my autism too much and it's tiring

somehow girls are more tolerant to autistic behaviours

I don't want to believe that men are more toxic, but it seems like that

I can't make friends. Can you make friend
Thank God Am lucky i have many loyal friends they love me more then their lives
You will be my friend if you want ❤️
 
The age to make "best friends" is till your graduation, after that there are very low chances that you'll meet someone who you can call a good friend. There will be acquaintances and colleagues, but not friends.

However, you can try. If you're into business, try going to business networking events, maybe you'll find like minded people there. If you like traveling, then look for a tourism company which takes groups of people so maybe you'll meet someone in that group.
 
I just read you , its really sad but. but it differs Between Extrovert and Introvert people . so making friends is up to you. yes there are some people Who will harm you and will make you happy .so you have to choice this way that who will be your trusted .
 
The age to make "best friends" is till your graduation, after that there are very low chances that you'll meet someone who you can call a good friend. There will be acquaintances and colleagues, but not friends.

However, you can try. If you're into business, try going to business networking events, maybe you'll find like minded people there. If you like traveling, then look for a tourism company which takes groups of people so maybe you'll meet someone in that group.
I would had liked you post for true opinion but you're promoting the signature space.
 
I believe that socializing with other people is just a need, just like drinking, eating, sleeping.

Socializing is a waste of your time. Time is the most valuable resource.

So if you don't have friends, be happy. You are free from wasting your time and compensating for your psychological need.

Socializing with other people should be rewarding and make you a better person. Build you up, give you something new.

Very often friendship is drinking alcohol and watching sports programs.

Therefore, I choose the quality of communication rather than the quantity.
 
You must be getting in and out of rehab and phsyciatric medication for life. That will shorten your life by 30% to 40%. Are you enjoying therapy and your bad advice?

Stay away from professionals like bankers, insurance scammers, Professional accountants(self learn its easy), stay away from doctors( quite white sugar and your energy level will shoot up), car agents, lawyers, architects, stock market, shop keepers(shop on amazon and you will save 80% cost with quality) etc. ...... If you go to these professionals I mentioned then you will have no bank balance.
Who are you to speak on my mental health struggles and suffering?

I've never been to rehab and I only took medication in the toughest times to not end myself, I'm today much better and would offer only compassion to people that are in rehab or medication.
 
Friendships are better if they have something in common to nurture that friendship..
 
sometimes is difficult, but you don't need to hide anything about your self, friends will stay with you because they like to be around you and who you are, it will happen all by it self, don't force it at some point was difficult to make firends now is normal, even I stay with the same friends 1 or 2 no need a lot.
 
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