i do not tip anymore period. not 25%. not 20%. not 10%. everyone gets $0.
in my country, America, tipping is a discriminatory scam. it's terribly unfair, causing employees to have to pay their coworkers out of their own pockets sometimes. or being paid less for doing the same job as a coworker solely due to scheduling. or being paid less because maybe they had a shit day like we all do sometimes. or being paid less because they're a minority, or not good looking. these poor folks got to gamble for their paycheck, by relying off public charity when you get to the crux of the system. hell no partner. that's backwards as hell in 2024! i encourage others to stop tipping too if you're tired of it or, like myself, find the system abhorrent - it's the best way to get it changed. employers need to pay their workers fairly, or they don't deserve to be in business.
there are no consequences to not tipping. you'll get threats of "pay up or i tamper with your food", which folks have ingrained in their brains as you can see in this thread. it is exceedingly rare for that to happen, that nonsense is part of the propaganda to keep you tipping! since i stopped tipping i get the same service i always have and expect. in fact, better i'd say. when i still tipped i'd have servers hanging around my table like a fly on shit, interrupting my meal and my company constantly, etc - all with the expectation it means a bigger tip. now since folks know i don't tip i get exactly what i want: my order taken, food served, and one water refill. no annoyances. just peace and good grub. yes, i go back to places i don't tip at and it's never been an issue. let alone spit in my pasta.
"above and beyond" service in my experience is basic service. it's always basic service when folks in the industry try to explain "above & beyond". if you save me from choking on a piece of steak? i'll tip you. now that's "above and beyond". but i ain't paying extra for folks to do the basic job they took on. that's for the birds..
i'll get off my soapbox now and leave yall with a video:
edit: in America no servers legally gets paid less than minimum wage either, as per the Fair Labor Standards Act. that's more of the propaganda...