What women traps should one always avoid ?

This would never happen to me, If I got married someday, she would have to earn a lot more then me, you need to have your plan ready.
Everyone has a plan till they're punched in the face.

Good luck man, but don't forget to show us your bloodied nose if it ever happens.
 
Everyone has a plan till they're punched in the face.

Good luck man, but don't forget to show us your bloodied nose if it ever happens.
Why on earth would she punch me in the face?
 
Everyone has a plan till they're punched in the face.

Good luck man, but don't forget to show us your bloodied nose if it ever happens.
It's not that difficult to find a woman who earns her way.

Get an apartment in a financial district, or maybe next to a med school. You'll find tons of high quality women.

Dudes really live on a ranch then complain they can't find anyone good.
 
I trap them with my minivan.
 
It's not that difficult to find a woman who earns her way.

Get an apartment in a financial district, or maybe next to a med school. You'll find tons of high quality women.

Dudes really live on a ranch then complain they can't find anyone good.
The guy's statement whom I initially quoted implied that he'll marry someone with more money than him and that way he won't be a victim.


Most times women marry those with more money than them. So if you live in said neighborhood, town or city and you don't financially measure up, still nothing for you. By the way, I'm not complaining.

There's an overwhelming number of men who have fallen victim, and they are everywhere with their stories.
Rich guys are the worst victims.
 
Pro tip, don't get married just save money and make gf if want then travel around the world.
 
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If you think a girl is playing games with you, chances are you should turn around and leave. Let's evaluate realistically, games are for kids. As an adult, if you like someone, you should be honest and say what you think. You don't like someone? Cool, do it, because everyone deserves honesty in communication.

When someone plays games with you, chances are they are just using you for their own reasons. Maybe the girl likes attention, or maybe she's trying to make the other person jealous. Your true partner, the one with whom you can happily face old age, not play games.
 
This would never happen to me, If I got married someday, she would have to earn a lot more then me, you need to have your plan ready. I would be her toyboy at home husband and serve my love to her as I should .. =)
That's a good way to look at things.

In my opinion, the only incentive for a man to get married is to start a family. I'm sure at a certain age those paternal instincts kick in. I've been with my current girlfriend for almost two years and have already made a pact with myself that IF I want to get "married", I will agree to a formal wedding ceremony but not sign the actual legal documents. That way, if shit hits the fan, my assets are protected.

It sucks that this is how things have to be, but it's the world we live in.
 
This is exactly true.

I was married. I sat across from a therapist toward the end of it and she asked "do you think she might be having an affair?"

Nah...NEVER! The girl I married and had spent 15 years that could hardly show up late to work without feeling guilty would never.

I was wrong. She had been with my best friend and some other dude. I was the saver, investor, etc. She had joint access to credit cards and we both had our "fun allowance" of a few hundred a month, of which she burned through and mine was still partially here. I brought cash into the relationship, too which becomes joint property at marriage. Plus, because my state is based upon overnights, even though I have my daughters basically 50% of the time, I lose an overnight every couple weeks, child support doesn't phase out so I just like some sort of minimum that's more than most local families make in a month.

She got dicked down for a 5 figure pay day for doing so in addition to a retirement account (I opted to keep the homes).

I will never get married again. I'd rather get even more wealthy and buy a yacht so I can surround myself with the same beautiful women I dated in my 20s when I'm in my 50s and then die at peace all alone passing what I have to my daughters.
Damn dude, I'm sorry this happened to you. Do you mind elaborating on the signs of infidelity your partner showed (if any)? Was she generally very respectful to you? Were things good in the bedroom?

I'll transparently say that this is a big fear of mine. Even when not married, cheating on your partner is the highest level of betrayal in my opinion. This type of thing seems to happen often - personally, I don't think I'd ever be able to trust a woman again.
 
It actually was a joke from my side.
I was only agreeing with what you said about marrying a girl who makes more money than you. That's actually smart lol.

Probably damn near impossible to find though. :D
 
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