What women traps should one always avoid ?

[sam55]

You don't need to worry about it. They will only try to trap the ones they feel worthy of their traps.

 

[Blue Panda]

You should avoid all woman doing traps. Thats toxic

 

[atooxi]

I've past the last 2/3 years trying to understand the female / male minds women in general are manipulative creatures and finding a quality woman is realy hard nowadays if you are not into something serious like marriage hit and run mate

 

[xReminisce]

Who are these female mods?

@Echo I think he is challenging you !!!

 

[dustfinger]

Daddy issue, high bodycount, unstable emotion

 

[moonshine7000]

Marriage the biggest money trap

 

[515hosting]

I don't think "traps" are limited to women, but in general here's a trap.

"But if you love me..." or any sort of manipulation of the idea that her problems are your problems and that your inability to carry or desire to carry those problems are somehow an indication you don't love her or being firm in your stance is somehow an indication you're just unwilling to compromise.

It's a trap because now based upon her feelings, you standing firm on your ground is an unloving action toward her (placing blame on you) and if you don't stand firm on your ground, she gets what wants and you aren't loving yourself.

The last woman I dated for 5 months and I started getting the idea that she might be bi-polar or clinically narcissistic about 4 months in. It was like a switch had flipped. She didn't like my décor I had in my house, she was triggered by things like this picture of my daughters that had our last name on it because she didn't have a family like that, was bound and determined she was the next Oprah, but the kicker was when she said "I need you to do something for me. I need you to put your daughter's belongings somewhere else when I'm there because it just makes me jealous of them."

I said "no and I'm leaving". She said, "wait, don't go, I just need you to understand and listen. This is something I have to work through and if you love me...".

We probably said those words too soon, in fact, I know so, but regardless love is a choice and I chose to no longer love a woman that treated me that way. There's 41.5 million single women in America and any woman that uses the phrase "but if you love me" can go right back to the pool of abundant options she came from.

 

[MrManyHat]

Shagging on the first date.

Such a British response, I love it

 

[awesomewebsites]

this will be a locked thread in about 15 minutes.

Survived till now but I agree with you.

 

[Conjecting]

I may catch some flack for this, but marriage 99% of the time is a bad idea for hyper-successful men. Yes, I fucking said it. Marriage itself is a trap in many cases.

Even if you're girlfriend was the sweetest, most loyal girl up until you sealed the deal, she can screw you over and take half of your shit with zero notice. And unfortunately, a lot of times the main incentive a woman has to treat you like a king is to get that ring. Afterwards, they have nothing to work for - familiarity sets in and you begin to realize you only loved who you thought your partner was.

This is just based on stories I've read online and a bit of real-life experience (I'm not married myself, but know people who are and have had this issue).

That being said, it makes perfect sense. Be wary fellas.

 

[Dopious]

Even if you're girlfriend was the sweetest, most loyal girl up until you sealed the deal, she can screw you over and take half of your shit with zero notice. And unfortunately, a lot of times the main incentive a woman has to treat you like a king is to get that ring. Afterwards, they have nothing to work for - familiarity sets in and you begin to realize you only loved who you thought your partner was.

This would never happen to me, If I got married someday, she would have to earn a lot more then me, you need to have your plan ready. I would be her toyboy at home husband and serve my love to her as I should .. =)

 

[515hosting]

I may catch some flack for this, but marriage 99% of the time is a bad idea for hyper-successful men. Yes, I fucking said it. Marriage itself is a trap in many cases.

Even if you're girlfriend was the sweetest, most loyal girl up until you sealed the deal, she can screw you over and take half of your shit with zero notice. And unfortunately, a lot of times the main incentive a woman has to treat you like a king is to get that ring. Afterwards, they have nothing to work for - familiarity sets in and you begin to realize you only loved who you thought your partner was.

This is just based on stories I've read online and a bit of real-life experience (I'm not married myself, but know people who are and have had this issue).

That being said, it makes perfect sense. Be wary fellas.

This is exactly true.

I was married. I sat across from a therapist toward the end of it and she asked "do you think she might be having an affair?"

Nah...NEVER! The girl I married and had spent 15 years that could hardly show up late to work without feeling guilty would never.

I was wrong. She had been with my best friend and some other dude. I was the saver, investor, etc. She had joint access to credit cards and we both had our "fun allowance" of a few hundred a month, of which she burned through and mine was still partially here. I brought cash into the relationship, too which becomes joint property at marriage. Plus, because my state is based upon overnights, even though I have my daughters basically 50% of the time, I lose an overnight every couple weeks, child support doesn't phase out so I just like some sort of minimum that's more than most local families make in a month.

She got dicked down for a 5 figure pay day for doing so in addition to a retirement account (I opted to keep the homes).

I will never get married again. I'd rather get even more wealthy and buy a yacht so I can surround myself with the same beautiful women I dated in my 20s when I'm in my 50s and then die at peace all alone passing what I have to my daughters.

 

[adornoad]

"Women traps" ? This sounds like judging based on gender. Yes, physically there are differences between a male and a female.
However, when it comes to "traps" to avoid, such a thing is not based on gender at all, so it is not fair to ask such a question particularly directed towards women.

 

[Willyfish]

I thought we were all degens, since we dont work a proper day job etc etc

Don't pretend like you are homeless without a job bro...

Pissing off female Mods by asking stupid questions is one trap.

I feel offended also as a genderqueer fish. This thread is awful as it gets!

 

[jmseo]

I love you but as a friend.

Most of the times girls talk to me like this

 

[GiraffeBurgersAndFries]

I'm afraid I'm not a socially educated member of BHW. No... I step on rakes and have fun doing so

 

[Pratu4409]

Most of the times girls talk to me like this

Red flag. You should avoid them.

 

[xReminisce]

Don't pretend like you are homeless without a job bro...

ok, im normal, you are just a degen fish

 

[Willyfish]

I'm afraid I'm not a socially educated member of BHW. No... I step on rakes and have fun doing so

You are just a giraffe burger, how can you be educated.

ok, im normal, you are just a degen fish

You are a hard working employee, I would hire you anytime of the week or month or year!

 

[mikegeek]

Always remember! Women are tricky!