I was a nice guy in my early teens. I had a girlfriend when I was 14 years old. You know the whole puppy love thing. I got her things called her all the time and... she dumped me. It took a few more tries to realize what it was that I was doing wrong. At 16 I was a beast hitting anything that came in my path, and treating the best looking chicks like they were just a number. That is how most of them like it!
Ha! Been there, done that. Nice guys finish last... and they sleep alone.
I learned that lesson the hard way. Chicks *say* they want a nice guy, but they always go for the rough boys.
Being nice never got anybody anywhere with the girls.
Read this article... it's quite accurate.
5 Rules For Success With Women...
(The Alternative Guide)
1. Ask for it and you won't get it.
Sex is a physical need for men and an emotional need for women.
If a woman knows that you find her desirable and want to have sex
with her, that in itself fulfills her emotional need. Therefore, if you want to
have a chance of actually having sex with her, you need to make her think that you don't find her sexually attractive.
The less sexually interested in her that you appear to be, the more
sexually interested in you she becomes.
Incidentally, this is why men can never get rid of women that they
actually don't want to have sex with: ignore them totally and they become obsessed stalkers.
2. Never give an honest answer. This one sounds obvious but it amazes me
how many men actually think they can impress women by being
honest?wrong! You impress women by telling outrageous lies. Women
only value honesty when it's ruthlessly applied to dissecting the
faults of people that they don't like, such as their ex-partners or
prettier women.
A man who is honest will not lie to her about her own imperfections. No sane woman would risk having a relationship with such a man. Honest men make good friends, but bad relationships.
Therefore, always lie. It's the quality that women most admire in men.
3. Don't look for a reason. This is the most important Golden Rule, NEVER attribute logical thought processes to women. Men think, women feel - it's really that simple! Trying to find a reason why a woman says or does something is as pointless as trying to find a straight line in a circle. Evolution is an economical process, and had no need to install the capacity for rational thought in women.
Any action which required problem solving was the role of the
man in Mother Nature's plan. Tragically, the logical mind cannot
accept a contradiction, and women are full of contradictions.
Therefore, any concerted attempt by a man to understand a woman is
bound to end in one (or all) of the following;
A. Serious mental illness
B. Divorce
C. Celibacy
D. Suicide
Sadly, women spend their entire lives looking for reasons, this is
as pitiable as a blind man seeking to understand the concept of
color, and as pitiable as a man trying to understand a woman.
4. Let her talk. Women love to talk.
Your role is simply to introduce subjects for her to talk about. A master of this will introduce subjects according to her mood, thereby allowing her to express her current feelings. Never introduce any subject that requires thinking.
This will simply confuse the woman and lead to silence and sulking
after a brief and ill-fated attempt by her to add some coherent input
on the tedious subject.
A women who can talk to a man for hours will consider him a great conversationalist despite the fact that she has done 99% of the talking. Women talk about their problems because they are unable to solve them, this is Nature's way of accidentally finding solutions.
Men identify a problem and then seek a solution. Women identify a problem and then seek someone to talk to about it. Normally, women talk to other women about their problems, and reserve the 'positive' feelings for men. It is important to understand however, that the woman is not seeking solutions from talking to a man about her problems. She is seeking reassurance that
she is still sexy despite being a complete basket case mentally.
Therefore, a man should only say things like "I agree" when she
offers an opinion, "What do you think?" when she asks a question, and
"I disagree" if she makes any self-derogatory statement. Women never
accept any criticism of themselves as valid, and any introduction of
a self-criticism is designed merely to test your reply.
Should you foolishly agree and outrageously offer any hint of
self-improvement on her part, you will be instantly dismissed in her
mind as "argumentative, rude, arrogant, and a complete control freak".
5. Be a man.
Back to basics here: it's all in the genes. Men look silly in dresses, women don't.
What women find attractive in men is imprinted by evolution and the traditional role of the man as hunter/gatherer/protector, woman as nurturer/off-spring raiser.
Like everywhere else in the animal kingdom, the dominant male has his pick
of the females. A man must be dynamic and in control at all times,
any sign of weakness and the woman's instinct is to ditch the man and
find a more suitable mate. What women want is a bad boy who will
treat them well, but not so well that they don't have anything to
bitch about to their female friends. Bitching about the male of the
species is how females bond with each other - another one of
evolution's little jokes!
tsp
