I'm home alone this New Year!

[ADA Lovelace]

Get well soon buddy !! Happy New Year

Thanks dude, Happy New Year

 

[Matthew Howard]

Keep in mind there is always someone worse off.

Don't feel bad about not being super popular for around NYE,
you have a family that is plenty to be happy with.

You're right! Thanks, man!

Be happy about the situation you are in and get the best out of it instead of feeling bad about yourself, there are many people sitting alone a day like this.
One of the best things you can learn to handle is to be alone and feel good about it. It is a bigger skill than many think and you will need this later on in life.

Do what makes you happy, treat yourself to some good food or a movie, play a game or whatever makes you feel good, and give your loved ones a message and/or call and maybe reflect a bit about the year that passed and what you want to improve in 2022.

Tomorrow you will wake up without a hangover and while most people are zombies you are feeling great!

Happy new year!

You're right I won't have a hangover tomorrow
I'll make 2022 a great year. The world need more people like you.

 

[GoldSmile]

I'm also alone! I've been alone since birth. and right now im drinking as if there is no tomorrow! im drinking 2 bottle wine right now. Life is good man. life is really good but the thing is i don't have a life. i can't be a normal person. I always tried to fix things but i always failed always! im 25 and my biggest fear is to die without living anything at all. I accepted the fact that im just a waste for this world, nothing else

Dude, you're so off.

Enjoy your wine, but you need to tough up that mind a bit.

You say you always tried but keep failing. Well, you need to keep trying. Change your approach. Keep trying. Do research, ask for help.

Just keep going bruh.

 

[Matthew Howard]

I find that friends are purely a distraction. This is coming from someone that spent 13-23 trying to make friends and not focusing on work, currently scraping my life together at the same age.

Sort yourself out, keep up the good work but most importantly learn how to be alone.

You also keep up the good work man and thanks for the advice. You'll get your life together and it'll get better.

 

[PremiumAds]

Cheer up! And remember people are a lot more lonely than they seem, even those at are often surrounded by friends might feel lonely.
Don't be afraid to approach people, most of the time people want to be with you too and will gladly accept an invitation.
Happy new year!

 

[macdonjo3]

The holidays can be like that. People get left out and feel shitty. I was invited to 6 house parties tonight (like one of those progressive parties where you go to each house for an hour then onto the next) but I don't know a lot of people at them, so I'm not going. I'd say you're not missing out on much.

Gonna kick it with a few friends at a condo with a river view to watch the fireworks. Nothing lavish. If you're alone I'd just do some work. I've done that for many many NYEs.

Also, @PremiumAds is right. Just bc one hangs with a bunch of people doesn't mean they're not lonely, but maybe afraid of being alone. Sometimes being around people who you can't relate to can make you feel just as lonely as being alone.

 

[Matthew Howard]

Cheer up! And remember people are a lot more lonely than they seem, even those at are often surrounded by friends might feel lonely.
Don't be afraid to approach people, most of the time people want to be with you too and will gladly accept an invitation.
Happy new year!

Maybe the problem is that I always was waiting for invitations. What if I'm the host? What if I start inviting people?
Thanks, man! You make me think.

 

[ugurbyr]

Dude, you're so off.

Enjoy your wine, but you need to tough up that mind a bit.

You say you always tried but keep failing. Well, you need to keep trying. Change your approach. Keep trying. Do research, ask for help.

Just keep going bruh.

right now im here. and one day i will be dead. soon or later it's gonna happen. isn't it so weird that i will die? i mean i will die. so weird. im waking up almost every night thinking that one day i will die and i will be in the afterlife or will be reincarnated on earth again. yeah im drunk right now but im always thinking about that every single day. i just wanna fix things somehow

 

[Matthew Howard]

The holidays can be like that. People get left out and feel shitty. I was invited to 6 house parties tonight (like one of those progressive parties where you go to each house for an hour then onto the next) but I don't know a lot of people at them, so I'm not going. I'd say you're not missing out on much.

Gonna kick it with a few friends at a condo with a river view to watch the fireworks. Nothing lavish. If you're alone I'd just do some work. I've done that for many many NYEs.

Also, @PremiumAds is right. Just bc one hangs with a bunch of people doesn't mean they're not lonely, but maybe afraid of being alone. Sometimes being around people who you can't relate to can make you feel just as lonely as being alone.

Thanks for the advice and I hope you have a great night with your friends

 

[blogmen]

I'm also alone! I've been alone since birth. and right now im drinking as if there is no tomorrow! im drinking 2 bottle wine right now. Life is good man. life is really good but the thing is i don't have a life. i can't be a normal person. I always tried to fix things but i always failed always! im 25 and my biggest fear is to die without living anything at all. I accepted the fact that im just a waste for this world, nothing else

Man, you posted a video when you injured your shoulder in the gym. Then you say every network banned you. Then you started a ecommerce, then you decided it's not worth it so on.

Take it easy man. Looks like you're doing things too hard too fast. Just relax for a moment man, enjoy new year, don't let anybody pressure you, nor yourself.

Think of a snake. Cold-blooded creature, standing still, no wasted moves, just 1 strike to get the kill. Become that and make your plan for 2022 step by step, no hurry, just move slowly and precisely like that cobra and the meal will come soon enough.

 

[dnox]

same, maybe next year it will be better for all of us. *virtual hug*

 

[ugurbyr]

Man, you posted a video when you injured your shoulder in the gym. Then you say every network banned you. Then you started a ecommerce, then you decided it's not worth it so on.

Take it easy man. Looks like you're doing things too hard too fast. Just relax for a moment man, enjoy new year, don't let anybody pressure you, nor yourself.

Think of a snake. Cold-blooded creature, standing still, no wasted moves, just 1 strike to get the kill. Become that and make your plan for 2022 step by step, no hurry, just move slowly and precisely like that cobra and the meal will come soon enough.

im trying literally everything so i won't sleep on the streets when i go back to asia. it's a long story but im doing all of this to go back to cambodia / thailand and get my life back. I'm 25 and i never saw anything positive in this life from anyone. I never had a girlfriend never had a friend never had a life. my 25 year is wasted already so i don't want my rest of my life to be wasted. To get my life back i must either find a job in those countries or i must make money on the interntet. i tried to find a job when i was there but it's almost like impossible to find a job in those countires. so the only way for me to survive in asia is to make money online

 

[GoldSmile]

right now im here. and one day i will be dead. soon or later it's gonna happen. isn't it so weird that i will die? i mean i will die. so weird. im waking up almost every night thinking that one day i will die and i will be in the afterlife or will be reincarnated on earth again. yeah im drunk right now but im always thinking about that every single day. i just wanna fix things somehow

You will actually die.

I am gonna die.

Everyone is going to die.

What's the actual point of thinking about it everyday?

Think about what you want everyday instead. It will help you.

 

[ugurbyr]

You will actually die.

I am gonna die.

Everyone is going to die.

What's the actual point of thinking about it everyday?

Think about what you want everyday

I'm gonna die yeah but the thing is i mean I'm gonna die! i mean i will die! it's so weird! right now im texting you this with my computer but i will be gone soon! so weird! nah it's not normal to accept it for me even though im so close to death!

 

[GoldSmile]

I'm gonna die yeah but the thing is i mean I'm gonna die! i mean i will die! it's so weird! right now im texting you this with my computer but i will be gone soon! so weird! nah it's not normal to accept it for me even though im so close to death!

Calm down dude!

You will not die. Stay with us.

 

[CPANathan]

You also keep up the good work man and thanks for the advice. You'll get your life together and it'll get better.

Love man, we got this <3

 

[SilverClouds]

People are overrated.

 

[indianmojojojo]

Happy new year mate. Things will all work around.

 

[ugurbyr]

Calm down dude!

You will not die. Stay with us.

yeah man im posting a lot and researching a lot to find a solution so i can go back to where i belong to. im not only posting a lot on blackhatworld but also on quora. im doing all this so i won't end up sleeping on the streets. cuz it's a long story i can't explain all the details here but i have to get out of my country in order to stay alive

 

[GoldSmile]

yeah man im posting a lot and researching a lot to find a solution so i can go back to where i belong to. im not only posting a lot on blackhatworld but also on quora. im doing all this so i won't end up sleeping on the streets. cuz it's a long story i can't explain all the details here but i have to get out of my country in order to stay alive

Good luck bro. Just don't do anything stupid!