I'm home alone this New Year!

- Any advice on how to become more influential so that I surround myself with people who would want to be with me?

You said - "I feel lonely." And you know why? Because you lost complete interest in yourself! Read books, watch TV, go to Cinema, do something every day to entertain yourself.

Stop saying "I feel lonely"! Believe it or not, other people CAN feel your loneliness so just stop, nobody wants to "fill" your loneliness!

Happy New Year!
 
Don't worry mate - one day you will miss the peace and quiet!

Maybe there are some potential friends at work? Family? etc
Yes, I have a family(mother and father).
Maybe I will try with some old coworkers.
I should learn how to get make more friends and also get a girlfriend.
 
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Happy new year man, feels sad. I'm 23 Years old too and I make 0$ but I am waiting for the new year together with my family.
 
- Any advice on how to become more influential so that I surround myself with people who would want to be with me?

You said - "I feel lonely." And you know why? Because you lost complete interest in yourself! Read books, watch TV, go to Cinema, do something every day to entertain yourself.

Stop saying "I feel lonely"! Believe it or not, other people CAN feel your loneliness so just stop, nobody wants to "fill" your loneliness!

Happy New Year!
I will do as you say!
You are right, people can feel my loneliness and it makes them wanna leave!

Happy new year! :)
 
Yes, man!
You are cronic case. Best to spend some of that money on entertainment. Talk to people over the net. And spend some in nature. Should be enough to get you out of that mindset. Atleast for a while :)
 
Wanting to surrounding yourself with people is foolish thing u ever do
 
hookers and blow dude.

Full dopamine on, and then dopamine off without the nasty side effects of relationship clean up!
 
Be happy about the situation you are in and get the best out of it instead of feeling bad about yourself, there are many people sitting alone a day like this.
One of the best things you can learn to handle is to be alone and feel good about it. It is a bigger skill than many think and you will need this later on in life.

Do what makes you happy, treat yourself to some good food or a movie, play a game or whatever makes you feel good, and give your loved ones a message and/or call and maybe reflect a bit about the year that passed and what you want to improve in 2022.

Tomorrow you will wake up without a hangover and while most people are zombies you are feeling great!

Happy new year!
 
Guess what - you came in to this world alone, and you'll go out alone.

Unless you're a bus driver - then you'll be going out with lots of screaming passengers.
 
Dont sad bro! We are here with you!
Happy New Year!
Wish all the best to you and your family!
Thanks, man I also wish you all the best!

Happy new year man, feels sad. I'm 23 Years old too and I make 0$ but I am waiting for the new year together with my family.
I am so happy that you're celebrating with your family!
 
I'm also alone! I've been alone since birth. and right now im drinking as if there is no tomorrow! im drinking 2 bottle wine right now. Life is good man. life is really good but the thing is i don't have a life. i can't be a normal person. I always tried to fix things but i always failed always! im 25 and my biggest fear is to die without living anything at all. I accepted the fact that im just a waste for this world, nothing else
 
Thank you very much for the kind words!
Actually, I have a job and make $3000 per month but I still don't have many friends. I am 23 by the way
I find that friends are purely a distraction. This is coming from someone that spent 13-23 trying to make friends and not focusing on work, currently scraping my life together at the same age.

Sort yourself out, keep up the good work but most importantly learn how to be alone.
 
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