How's your dating life?

[BlueCatServices]

Bruv, you were broke and you got pussy? How? Mind showing me the way?

genetic luck, i'm pretty good looking so it has often been downhill

but being extremely introvert and weird made it more uphill than it could have been

but at the end of the day i got lots of "results", till the point i was sick of it and discovered the value of having someone who really support you

and as i mentioned, i was pretty much doing only that, didn't have a job, traveling around without meaning just seeking an experience after the other

when you got shit to do it's much more difficult, dating sucks lot of things... (LMAO)... especially time and energy.

it's a rollercoster, when you fuck a new one you're happy or at least you're satisfied, when you come back home alone late night you got depressed for 3 days...

and it's only an EGO game, the more girls you fuck the more you think you're cool or you're a real man... all BS, only your ego grows... when i realized where i was going, i kind of lost the obsession of doing as much as i could.

best advices i can give are:
- hookers if you're really desperate, at least you release some pressure
- be ready to invest real efforts and time into it
- quantity, get yourself wherever it makes sense to be to meet girls (dating apps, places in your city, etc...)
- be freaking normal, most of guys act weird with girls to cover they're own insecurity, just be a freaking normal human being to interact normally, no need to overdo
- most important one, it's all about feeling; if you don't get along quickly, if the feeling is not there, quit and move on. That's why quantity is important, it allows you to meet many girls and the chance to meet someone you click with instantly will increase

 

[K-Jacob D.]

Trust me, if you didnt have, you are...

well i have experience having a girlfriend and not having one, so i will disagree with you i will not worry about it much i mean i have a lot of friends anyway if you know what i mean

 

[noellarkin]

Dating life sucks now that I'm actually working on building a career. It was great when I was a degenerate idiot.

I never understand people wanting to make money to date more girls, I've seen them to be inversely proportional. If you're just an easy-going fun, charismatic guy who has a lot of free time, you're way more likely to meet and date girls than if you're really serious about work, business etc.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

I would say my dating life is pretty good.

I was recently in a small relationship (6 months) with a girl who looks almost like a model (very thin, tall, beautiful face) and she was from Moscow, Russia.

I was the happiest man in the world. However, Russian culture requires the man to pay for everything (restaurants, going out, travelling etc.) I mean, it wasn't a lot of money, but I missed my solo traveller-life a lot.

Now I continue to travel via Europe (Spain, Poland, Italy), Ukraine, Belarus and plan to go to South America (perhaps Brazil/Colombia).

The Tinder/Offline game actually always works well - you don't need to be very good looking, just havenice, clean clothes and a good sense of humour

Btw. I increasingly have success with the offline approach, I think the girls have their mailboxes full of horny freaks ;-))

 

[aduseia]

Dating life sucks now that I'm actually working on building a career. It was great when I was a degenerate idiot.

I never understand people wanting to make money to date more girls, I've seen them to be inversely proportional. If you're just an easy-going fun, charismatic guy who has a lot of free time, you're way more likely to meet and date girls than if you're really serious about work, business etc.

Very true, it might be easier to take when you're broke, cause you don't doing anything. Law of averages.

I would say my dating life is pretty good.

I was recently in a small relationship (6 months) with a girl who looks almost like a model (very thin, tall, beautiful face) and she was from Moscow, Russia.

I was the happiest man in the world. However, Russian culture requires the man to pay for everything (restaurants, going out, travelling etc.) I mean, it wasn't a lot of money, but I missed my solo traveller-life a lot.

Now I continue to travel via Europe (Spain, Poland, Italy), Ukraine, Belarus and plan to go to South America (perhaps Brazil/Colombia).

The Tinder/Offline game actually always works well - you don't need to be very good looking, just havenice, clean clothes and a good sense of humour

Btw. I increasingly have success with the offline approach, I think the girls have their mailboxes full of horny freaks ;-))

Interesting take, I hear a lot of dudes speak highly of Russian women (at least lookswise). I want to travel as well and tinder is decent, but you need a good profile LoL.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat]

In my opinion, no matter what kind of Tinder profile you have and how rich you are, lol.

It's pure statistics. Any idiot knows that a girl gets messaged by thousands of men. Therefore, why waste your valuable time

I have now made it a habit to approach women everywhere. In shopping malls, on planes, in hotels, etc.

 

[Alpha1404]

Thanks to COVID, none.
I separated from my partner at the time, two months before the epidemic.
Given my “official” activity, I don't really have any leeway to date new people. In fact, I'm not even sure I want to.
Out of boredom, I signed up on Tinder. And there, the drama.
The first guy was married, and his wife had given birth to a third child 4 months before.
The second one directly proposed a threesome to me.
As for the third, he used a photo from an image bank.
Since then, I quickly look at the profiles and … what despair.
When the guys are vaguely decent, they make three mistakes per word.
The others look like shrimp that have never met a shower and soap.
I'll also skip the guys who introduce themselves as “artists” or anything else that implies they need help paying their bills.
My favorites are the ones who, as soon as you read the profile, you KNOW he's going to cry about it.
In the end, there's not much of interest left.
At least, nothing that makes me want to spend hours making myself beautiful.
So, I confess, I gave up.
I'm financially independent, I consider myself to have an above-average cultural base, I want a guy who's up to my standards.
Not a guy who requires a mom/housekeeper/psychiatrist/wallet on legs.
I don't need a guy to buy me clothes, go on vacation, buy me jewelry, books, or outings. I'm not looking for a father or a wallet or a Pygmalion. But guys aren't interested in that.​

 

[aduseia]

Wow interesting story @Alpha1404 , sorry to hear about the break up.

I do agree, I've seen and heard that guys dating profiles are usually below-par, very low effort. So I understand that annoyance from a woman's point of view.

As for your desires, it depends what type of guy you want. Truly well-off guys don't judge a woman's financial prowess as a a discriminating factor. It's more about looks. Best of luck on your journey though.

 

[AMG Guy]

Lone wolf life is the best life

 

[Alpha1404]

Wow interesting story @Alpha1404 , sorry to hear about the break up.

I do agree, I've seen and heard that guys dating profiles are usually below-par, very low effort. So I understand that annoyance from a woman's point of view.

As for your desires, it depends what type of guy you want. Truly well-off guys don't judge a woman's financial prowess as a a discriminating factor. It's more about looks. Best of luck on your journey though.

You've summed up the problem perfectly: I don't even know what I want anymore.
I don't even know if I want to be in a relationship anymore.
I was already a mess in my head before COVID, but since the epidemic, I think I'll never find someone as solid as me.
It's a silly thing, but I thought about all the times I had to motivate my ex for professional matters. I think about it and I say to myself: “But who motivated you? Nobody did. You wanted something, you took yourself by the hand, you went for it with an axe if you had to, and you got what you wanted. Nobody coddled you.”
The thing is, warriors aren't something you find on the streets and still on dating apps.​

 

[Dopious]

The thing is, warriors aren't something you find on the streets and still on dating apps.​

Na, it probably are not, we guys are pretty fck-up, were just happy someone loves us, no wonder everyone loves @Willyfish .. So I here by apologize for the entire race of men, Your probably better off with a dog, as we are subpar them to in IQ, due to the fact that we all love the fish. Hmm .. it´s looking rather bad for you, hope your doing well anyway.

Ps. @macdonjo3 is a hungry man, warrior, he works out as a beast, I hear .. =)

 

[Willyfish]

Na, it probably are not, we guys are pretty fck-up, were just happy someone loves us, no wonder everyone loves @Willyfish .. So I here by apologize for the entire race of men, Your probably better off with a dog, as we are subpar them to in IQ, due to the fact that we all love the fish. Hmm .. it´s looking rather bad for you, hope your doing well anyway.

Ps. @macdonjo3 is a hungry man, warrior, he works out as a beast, I hear .. =)

I didn't understand, why does everyone love the Willyfish?

 

[Dopious]

I didn't understand, why does everyone love the Willyfish?

Everybody loves a cute fish, how could they not .. =)

 

[Willyfish]

Everobody loves a cute fish, how could they not .. =)

Bro, you make my willy hard and happy

 

[uncutu]

7 years in. met online. have a baby and a house together. has its ups and downs.
seeing all these crazy stories+experiences from bhw and other communities.....makes me happy i'm off the market.

 

[Conjecting]

I’m in my early twenties - I settled into a relationship after playing the field for a few years. She’s a good girl.

As funny as it may sound, it gets exhausting trying to bang as many bitches as possible especially while your building online businesses. Not to mention it’s a huge distraction.

Don’t get me wrong, if you’re a young guy, I recommend getting it out of your system. The last thing you want to do is be filled regret because you didn’t “live a little” when you were in your prime. This is what college and Tinder is for. But never forget about your goals and what you want to accomplish in life.

 

[Alpha1404]

I didn't understand, why does everyone love the Willyfish?

Because you're so delicious with chips.

@RoiBox Not all guys. Just that I haven't found a guy I respect intellectually enough to spend more than 45 minutes with.

And seriously, guys who say “we'll tell your parents we met at such and such a place” relax my friend. I'll see if I want to exchange more than three words with you, and then we'll see.

Besides, I have an incredible talent! Guys, they want to talk to me! And they tell me their whole life story! Seriously, I should have been an agent for the intelligence services.

Some of them, after a few minutes of conversation, they explain to me how they scam the taxman, what they do as traffic, etc.

My favorite was on a train (Europeans will understand exactly which train I'm talking about). He sits down in the first class and starts to explain to me why he is going to the city he was supposed to go to.

Basically, the guy was going to lobby the European Parliament and explained to me his complete strategy to convince the MEPs and the commission.

 

[aduseia]

7 years in. met online. have a baby and a house together. has its ups and downs.
seeing all these crazy stories+experiences from bhw and other communities.....makes me happy i'm off the market.

Congrats, was it a dating app? And yes the stories on BHW are kinda surprising (in a funny way).

I’m in my early twenties - I settled into a relationship after playing the field for a few years. She’s a good girl.

As funny as it may sound, it gets exhausting trying to bang as many bitches as possible especially while your building online businesses. Not to mention it’s a huge distraction.

Don’t get me wrong, if you’re a young guy, I recommend getting it out of your system. The last thing you want to do is be filled regret because you didn’t “live a little” when you were in your prime. This is what college and Tinder is for. But never forget about your goals and what you want to accomplish in life.

Couldn't agree more. Although, I would argue that the 'out of your system' idea is a bit of a fallacy. It's always in our system, just we socialise ourselves to an extent.

 

[creditmonster]

So all of us on this forum are grinding hard to build online businesses.

But how are y'all dating lives? Use dating apps, cold approach? Would you date another online marketer doing the same thing you are?

I have too many women problems. They are hungry for my attention but all I think about is making money lol

 

[macdonjo3]

Ps. @macdonjo3 is a hungry man, warrior, he works out as a beast, I hear .. =)

Hahah - right now moving cities and changing gyms. Looking forward to getting back into routine.

@Alpha1404 Apps are basically just the low hanging fruit. Def not always the highest quality on there but if your goal is to bang 3 or more women a day, I don't think it'd be possible without the apps.

Btw @RoiBox - congrats on the jr exec. Pretty sure that's new or I'm just not observant.