With all do respect, I strongly suggest you to get this under control. Meaning, having sex with your wife at least 3 times a weeks, lower than that is ridiculous.
If you guys see each other everydays, there is no excuse. It's literally a recipe for DIVORCE or SEPARATION. there is one saying that said: if she's not giving it to you, she is giving it to someone else trust me.
I know I dont know the whole story, but I heard so many of them and the same pattern within the different story come back over and over again.
It's not healthy for you or her not having sex like that. By the way, I never heard a story where the men were calling it a strike on sex we all know woman doing it most of the time. ( Woman control sex & birth, Men control marriage & relationship) it will remain that way for hundred of years to come.
If your wife have a sickness or anything that a is a good concrete excuse then fine, I understand and I am sorry. (stop the reading)
Solution: (Note: it's much more easy without a child to raise I know but I hope you find a way to do it regardless.)
1- you guys have to sit down for real to talk about it, 1 hour / 2 hours / the whole weekend, it doesn't matter
you have to get annoying with that to show her it affect you and the non sense of it. Ask her to tell you if she knows any marriage couple that last without sex ? Or do sexless marriage make sense ? (by the way if the first solution doesn't work, I already have the b or c or d or f solution my friend) Try this for 3 to 4 weeks then go to the next solution, Do you understand me ?
2- In this solution you will have to take action for real otherwise it's not going to work. (My favorite solution By far)
since the first solution didn't work you have to start doing the I'm NOT BY YOUR SIDE GAME. since you guys don't do it and are distant already then you have to put it on another level.
Most effective action - don't sleep in the same BED as her ( go on the couch or guest room or I dont know ) its important because she will notice, then if she ever ask why then you simply answer I cannot sleep in bed with a woman that do not want to give it to me(cold but simple). lollll trust me this one bring some reaction out of women. It will be difficult but that is the only thing I found to counter sex strike for bullshit reason of course. She won't see it coming trust me it's another level solution here. solution 2 have to be done until Sex Jesus come to you, do you understand me ?
3 In this solution, you have to combine solution 2 at all cost. Once the I'M NOT BY YOUR SIDE GAME started you don't stop until you get the nookie

. Do you understand me ?
if you are in shape skip this solution. Now here is the juicy solution. you need to get yourself in shape, so she will notice / your mother in law will notice / your neighbor will notice, your family and your child too loll ETC
I am dead serious, you have to exercise for real, dont have time fine do it at home, youtube home workout whatever. This method cannot go unnoticed its impossible, make sure she understand without telling her of course that you regularly workout which mean other woman will notice at work, grocery, pharmacy ETC.
4- In this solution. you have to make yourself busy like maybe going to conference regarding the project you are working with. Let say you into real estate and trying to make money of of it, well baby this weekend / saturday I have a conference to attempt to and you go sharp with your suit & tie. You have to try your best to make it often, again I know with kids it's difficult but plan your stuff if you have to.
5- In this solution. you have to make change in your clothing style or something. This solution is not the best but could add something to the reaction of your wife.
The text is getting too long now so I will stop it here.
My conclusion:
Many Men dont take action when it come to sexless marriage, they just let ride. please dont, if all the solution didnt work which I would doubt. then setup of plan to leave for her for good. I'm dead serious, you can't name 1 advantage of sexless marriage. Ask her if its normal to masturbate when you have a wife . sometime she wont even answer because she already know lolllllll. or will try to deflect the question (its very popular with couple) Trust me she feel some type a way about you jerking off, if I were you I would do it right beside her in bed. Tell her its laughable to think that your husband jerk off too much But you aint giving nookie, oh lord.
Many men won't leave their women because they think they cannot find better or are scared to get back in the dating market.
My opinion of course, the reason your Wife did not leave you its because she don't have a B plan (other man to go with), most women not all but most will leave you as soon as they have a solid option or will stay because they cant find better.
I assumed you make the most money in your household, if not then it will be a piece of cake in court. We all know these story are rare, If nothing have worked so far plan to leave her. Try to save as much as you Can OUTSIDE OF THE BANKING SYSTEM, it's the only way to have something when everything is over.
( PM me if you need idea for that)
Lastly, solution 2 is extremely important because it is the backbone of the whole Plan, solution 3 should bring you a lot of confidence (for now and later on ) with the opposite sex if everything did not work, solution 1 it just to test the water and see if she will be reasonable to really fix this bullshit and have a real talk about it.
You can PM anytime for Counter option if she try to play smart









Cheer,