Totally overwhelmed

1. Get some PTFE tape, take off the faucet and wrap some PTFE tape around the threads then screw it back on. That should fix it. It's a 2 minute job, if it doesn't call another plumber not the guy that fucked you over.

2. Don't tell people how much you earn, if they like you're house moan about how big the mortgage is.

3. As a business owner borrowing money to plough into your business isn't the worst idea in the world. Are the incredibly low interest rates right now it's gonna make you more money than keeping it in the bank and having it whittled away by inflation.

4.People on the whole are stupid... Think about the average intelligence of the population then realise 50% are thicker than that!
 
For you new partner, you wrong for think she degenerate. People in very much deep credit and loan because corona. 3000 euro is probably money for food or clothes, rent and study fees, so it normal.

Degenerate is plumber, he smell you money and do on purpose. Replace with new good plumber with good review or friend recommends.

Be happy you no have credit or rent to be pay and you have nice job all ready, who not all other as you say even doctor can not have. For doctor it real pain during corona.

Your doctor cousin he deserve to live as he work hard expose to risk patient and death. Mentality tell him live, afford, like it is last day.

Express negative opinion for the bad plumber, find new one, drink a bit votka and some joint - relax.

People starved all over world, you not, you should feel good friend

Corona, thats all bullshit. Why did you not save money before corona, so that you can have some money during corona?

Ill tell you why, because before corona there was the financial crisis. And before that it was somehing else.

But its all bullshit. These people, theyre animals! They have absolutely no concern for tomorrow, cant see 2 steps ahead of them.

Most people wouldnt have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of if a trillion dollars walked up to them and sucked their dicks!

You know why i didnt starve? Because i sat in a room for 8 years and worked every waking hour. I dont plan on starving any time soon. Ive earned that.

And if cryptos do the loving thing in 3-5 years, i may never have to work again... Or at least ill be able to take a long vacation wherever and do whatever i want for as long as i want :D

Put a bowl under the sink and go to bed.

Life at times is one problem after another and generally when there are no problems we don’t appreciate those times enough. Luckily you have the cash to sort the problems.

Appreciate the good/simple/nothing going on times.

No need for a bowl under the sink. It only drips when water goes at the base of the faucet. But it wasnt happening until the guy came and misdiagnosed the problem with my faucet.

Anyway, the same guy is coming tomorrow to fix something else. Yall could say i should call someone else, but you fail to realize is that theyre all the same. They all came from the same society/school/university/vagina. They all drink the same water and carry the same incompetent genes.

Its a hit or miss with all of them, so it doesnt matter who you call, all you can do is pay and hope...

I understand you brother, you are a STRONG mf
I was kinda like you (I have anger issues) I fuck things up pretty easily
the things that you need to do are
1: Focus on yourself
2:Know your Priorities
3: Don't give a fuck about anyone (literally) it will fuck you up mentally
4:Call another plumber or learn to do the things yourself, there are a shit ton of tutorial online, you can basically do anything around the house
5: You worry too much about other people's problems, DONT do it, it will consume you
work on these and you will be better :)

I cant do anything around the house myself. Like i connrected some plugs on some cables the other day. The whole ordeal took like 3 days. It took too much energy and time.

In the end i did it, and i did it perfectly, and this forum helped. But life's too short for me to be figuring out that a Cat5 catble has 8 wires, and you can connect 4 of them for internet up to 100mb, or all 8 of them for full internet speed. But you can also connect 4 wires for internet and 2 wires for phone, and rj11 connector for phone and rj45 connector for internet. And the connectors you gotta slide in the wores real straight and then push down on the little hooks, and then the other hook to hold the cable in place.

Like, knowing all that wont make me any money. And it wont help me help anyone either because i have an agnostic approach and a lack of confidence.. or willingness to argue... And so if you argue the sky is red and i say its blue, and you say its red for sure! Ill just let you have it. Ok, youre right, its red, now fuck off i got some money to make over here.

So learning something complicated and time-consuming for a one-time fix is wasted hard drive space in my head. Its unlikely ill ever need it again in the future and its unlikely ill ever be able to help anyone else with it. So its too much work for nothing.

But then we just go back to hire a guy, and we just keep swimming in mud...

Believe it or not, we all go through the same shit every day.

That's how the world is, full of idiots that are just good to feed the system. Don't worry about other's life choices, without them your choices wouldn't be so impactful in your life. I don't care how ugly this reality might appeal to some but the truth is that we need the dumb's blood in our hands to succeed.

Without that stupid plumber, the real best ultra efficient plumber would be charging an outrageous price for his service so just try to get a better one next time.

I created a habit that everytime I see stupidity and mediocrity I face the other way and keep minding my business. That gives me peace of mind.

Yeah, but shit gets very fucking real when you need a surgery or even dental work or something where you wont get a chance to do it again and again without damaging yourself beyond repair.

All bushit aside, i hope AI replaces doctors first. When health is concerned shit should be done correctly, every time, no exceptions. Humans simply cant do that. So i mean AI is the only way out, realistically. Not taking into account, you know, the possibility of wizards gods and aliens :D
 
I didn't read all of this, but you need help, my friend, anyone who comes to an internet forum to bi$ch about his life problems needs some serious help and a pair of balls, what's happening to men?
 
Because i sat in a room for 8 years and worked every waking hour. I dont plan on starving any time soon. Ive earned that.

And if cryptos do the loving thing in 3-5 years, i may never have to work again... Or at least ill be able to take a long vacation wherever and do whatever i want for as long as i want :D
This 8 year cause you some type mental glitch bro, bhw will no be of help. Psychiater i think if plumber scam you he do even worse.
You try to open your self to partner about your life waste in room and find what cause this glitch - try to compensate with what you have been missed during that times.
I am not joking, try to find what real bother you and try to make up to your self at max amount what was missed.
 
Well don’t find anyone to try and help you then. Keep putting yourself under pressure like you are doing. Never trust anyone about anything in life.
Let me know how that works out for you. Because frankly it don’t seem to sound like it is at the moment.

Do you think Bezos does it all himself? Buys the products, Packs the boxes, does the deliveries?

Bezos has me, so he has no worries. How do you think i make money :D

Yeah, it is really difficult to get a good craftsman - there are only kind of - cheap and medium (shitty shit) - and high end.

If you pay cheap/medium you have to accept the shit. - or you are lucky and get a good one.. but thats mostly not the case..

Forget about all people around you.. they all sucked.. and also the employees.. most of them sucks too man. i do not expect that my employees work as hard as me.. because they earn there money for a living.. i would do the same.. work 9-5 and go home.. so what you do.. pay incentives? doesnt work.. some will work harder, the rest will blame because the otherone get his bonus.. its rediculous..

You have hire stupid "cheap" workers who do the same stuffs several years. and you hire experts "high salary".. who manage the stupids..

the same here.. there is no "middle".. stupid or pro.. no middle.

True. Luckily i have no employees. I just have weird automations and my hardcore work ethic and persistence.

Wont make me a bajillionaire, but will put me in a good place financially, at the cost of great personal sacrifice. But its mine to make :)

Seems like you should change something about your life. Maybe move abroad and start fresh.

Maybe... I just gotta finish some stuff here... Just gotta get a chip off my shoulder.

But he buy new apartment it is not from new era apartment that you be move from earth to mars

I am not sure what you are saying, but he can sell or rent out his apartment.

Hahahhahahhaa

1. Get some PTFE tape, take off the faucet and wrap some PTFE tape around the threads then screw it back on. That should fix it. It's a 2 minute job, if it doesn't call another plumber not the guy that fucked you over.

2. Don't tell people how much you earn, if they like you're house moan about how big the mortgage is.

3. As a business owner borrowing money to plough into your business isn't the worst idea in the world. Are the incredibly low interest rates right now it's gonna make you more money than keeping it in the bank and having it whittled away by inflation.

4.People on the whole are stupid... Think about the average intelligence of the population then realise 50% are thicker than that!

1. The same guy is coming tomorrow, said he'll apply silicone to fix the faucet leaking. I feel like its not the optimal solution, but what the fuck do i know. It wasnt leaking before, and i dont think theres any silicone in there. But what the fuck do i know. Uffff

2. I know i shouldnt, but i hate that. I really hate it. If i have to watch what i say then id rather say nothing. But that just leads to isolation. I feel like filtering what i say is a waste of mental energy. Ill waste mental energy in front of old people and kids and retarded people. But when we get to grown ups, and i have to watch what i say and how i say it... Oh fuck off, grow up.

And i dont mean that in the sense that i wanna offend and be rude to people.

3. Yeah i guess. Im just against loans. I dont wanna owe anything to anyone and i dont want anyone to owe anything to me. That way all my sheep are accounted for and i sleep peacefully :p

4. Yeah, thats an old one. Classic :D

I didn't read all of this, but you need help, my friend, anyone who comes to an internet forum to bi$ch about his life problems needs some serious help and a pair of balls, what's happening to men?

Whats happening to men? I dont know, they live with their parents up until the age of 80. They lack ambition. I dont know man, im not a shrink or a sociologist.

What do i need a pair of balls for? You think it would be best if i say all this stuff in the city center to people passing by? Are the pair of balls so i can scream in their ears?

I fail to see your logic. And if the logic is that i should talk to a psychologist, well, fuck here we go again. I could go to 1,000 psychologists and they could all be fucking useless (while pretending and believing theyre competent).

But even if i got lucky and found a competent one, it's just one person. Here on the forum i have the world.

A thousand heads are better than one... especially heads that are aware that money, matters... Which is why we're all here.
 
Op take 10mg of diazepam with wine
you also seem to be those kind of stressout people only think and live about money
when you die you take nothing
 
Yeah i guess. Im just against loans. I dont wanna owe anything to anyone and i dont want anyone to owe anything to me. That way all my sheep are accounted for and i sleep peacefully :p
I wish we meet one day, you have to be hateing me already as i am complete opposite from you. Many statement i agree too. I live short in my fiance house with hers. When time come they no go out so i have had to be buy car for space and leave in 3 am then her parent wake up, accuseing me that i go out to steal diesel from neighbour car. That you very right, thing is complicate. I want baby since then and they notice what we do, telling her it is not right time, not right guy.
 
Op take 10mg of diazepam with wine
you also seem to be those kind of stressout people only think and live about money
when you die you take nothing

I dont take drugs... Unless i have to...

Yeah, that line is so fucking transparent.

Yeah, sure, you wont take it with you. But what the fuck do you do until you die? You need some money buddy.

And if you have kids, dont care about them? Dont you think they may need some money?

No but you just wanna excuse yourselves to spend what little you make... And of course to make even less as you spend time spending it instead of earning it... And then fall on hard times and blame the housing crissis or economic crisis or corona, and then run to the government for your fucking welfare or your parents like the gold little fucking parasites you are.

And then youll pass judgment on somebody like you know something.

You fucking people. Selfish, ignorant.
 
I wish we meet one day, you have to be hateing me already as i am complete opposite from you. Many statement i agree too. I live short in my fiance house with hers. When time come they no go out so i have had to be buy car for space and leave in 3 am then her parent wake up, accuseing me that i go out to steal diesel from neighbour car. That you very right, thing is complicate. I want baby since then and they notice what we do, telling her it is not right time, not right guy.

Yeah i dont... A baby? Did you create a safe and secure environment to bring a baby into this world?

Of course you dont need it, you can bring a baby into any environment. But dont torture your kids.
 
Yeah i dont... A baby? Did you create a safe and secure environment to bring a baby into this world?

Of course you dont need it, you can bring a baby into any environment. But dont torture your kids.
Baby need love, attention and care. Not money.
This is first hand info from person that was give money but no love and attention.
You are materialist and it very wrong. For raising baby it enough to cut crap like cigarette, alcohol and cofee with random friend, stupid meeting and stuff. Then also work a bit hard then usual.
 
And then youll pass judgment on somebody like you know something.

You fucking people. Selfish, ignorant.
Didn’t you lay your life bare on a public forum to try and get some input from people? Maybe some help?
They give you their opinion and that is your reply.
Strange.
 
Baby need love, attention and care. Not money.
This is first hand info from person that was give money but no love and attention.
You are materialist and it very wrong. For raising baby it enough to cut crap like cigarette, alcohol and cofee with random friend, stupid meeting and stuff. Then also work a bit hard then usual.

So, the baby eats love, attention and care.

When you take the baby to the doctor you pay for it with love, attention and care.

Do you have any proof for these claims? I seem to have not gotten the memo :)
 
Didn’t you lay your life bare on a public forum to try and get some input from people? Maybe some help?
They give you their opinion and that is your reply.
Strange.

I didnt lay out my life, just bits and pieces.

Sure, yeah, input. And im grateful for the input.

But should i not speak my mind just because im getting input, or anything?

What do you want, a blowjob? :D
 
Well, I guess you just needed to vent that out of your soul with at least someone paying attention. There you have it. Enjoy your new life.

By the way, save the link and make sure you read it in about 2 or 3 years from now, so you can laugh (or feel embarrassed) at how immature you sounded today.

Cheers!
 
Well, I guess you just needed to vent that out of your soul with at least someone paying attention. There you have it. Enjoy your new life.

By the way, save the link and make sure you read it in about 2 or 3 years from now, so you can laugh (or feel embarrassed) at how immature you sounded today.

Cheers!

Nothing immature about it. But we can agree to disagree :)
 
I didnt lay out my life, just bits and pieces.

Sure, yeah, input. And im grateful for the input.

But should i not speak my mind just because im getting input, or anything?

What do you want, a blowjob? :D
No you are totally right to say what you think. But then other people are too. If you don’t like then that’s your problem.

I personally couldn’t care what you earn, what my neighbour earns. What they owe and to whom.

I think the point a few people are saying is there is no point being the richest man in the graveyard.
Take a day off. Go out for a walk. Sit in a park.
No need putting so much pressure on yourself. No one on here knows everything and never will.
 
So, the baby eats love, attention and care.

When you take the baby to the doctor you pay for it with love, attention and care.

Do you have any proof for these claims? I seem to have not gotten the memo :)
A baby do not eat first 6 month it only consume mother milk, that is high produce if you care for her and nutrition, usual in my country in village fruit and veg is almost nothing.

If milk miss, you buy formula which is 20 euro and last a month.

Only fee is buy pampers and wet wipe.

After 6 month you start giving sort of fruit mix which cost 2 eur per can, around 6 eur total per day max you spend.

Baby clothes is expensive you spend 300 euro min each 3 month during first year.

After year 1 baby eat what you eat, usual i bet you throw that part to dog.

Year half pampers fee stop. Food baby eat what you eat. So only clothes.

Docotor etc you pay insurance for it all life it free in most of country. Kinders garden is also free or minimal.

This fee is cover only if you cut crap that you spended already for perk in your apartment, use less thing like toalet holder.

You need ball, love, care and attention.
What money you talk here. If you think a baby / kid most important thing is money, you are very wrong and worse mistake one make is thinking that. Wait till 35 when you start have reproduction problem, all money in world will not save you.
 
You sound like someone that thinks that is better than everyone else, I bet your ego is huge. Not saying this to flame your post or insult you, just trying to shed some light on what you have written on the first page.

You will not find help on an internet forum full of strangers, go seek therapy because I can bet these problems go way deeper (as usually), personal things that have stuck with you throughout the years. Because as you can clearly see, no matter how much money you have, personal issues will still remain. Money doesn't solve your internal issues.

Hope you find peace mentally.
 
WOW ! What a big writing. But at the end it seems like you are pissed of with your life. Just calm down man and take a deep breath. Everything will be alright. Just give it some time.
 
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