Got my revenge today

Serves them right for acting foolishly in panic trying to cover the losses during the pandemic. Good for you and lesson learned for the company!

I'd cut the "revenge" crap though as it's definitely not worth it, you won the main battle that's it.
 
It's is a good thing you got the money you deserved, but I think signing her up on adult online classified sites was an overkill. You could have just left her and went on with your life, at least you now have +£60k in your bank account, that's all that matters.
 
Serves them right for acting foolishly in panic trying to cover the losses during the pandemic. Good for you and lesson learned for the company!

I spoke to someone who works for a charity. she told me last week they estimate up to 40% of redundancies in the UK last year were done wrong and could be classed as unfair dismissal.
 
I'd cut the "revenge" crap though as it's definitely not worth it, you won the main battle that's it.

Yeah, I had already taken down the pages this afternoon
 
Isn't this like revenge porn? If I remember correctly one can get 2 years in jail for that.
 
Isn't this like revenge porn? If I remember correctly one can get 2 years in jail for that.

Only if the images I had posted were of her.
 
Congrats for getting your hard earned money back.
My advice: Forgiveness is divine.
Signing her up as a sex worker against her wish is a violation of her privacy, and makes you no difference from her. Think about that
 
Are you seriously comparing being unfairly targeted to lose your job in the midst of a pandemic to being banned from a forum? Just because I come from a different ethnic background than she does, am older than the rest of the team, gave her no right to unfairly dismiss me.

And she was stupid enough to put it down in an email to her boss the reason she didn't like working with someone from my background, and then forget to delete it. The tribunal judge wasn't very impressed.

No mate, I can feel you. It's not easy to deal with anything bad, even tiny damage is painful.

My comment was in general, no comparing, actually the fact only. Like you felt already on your skin (unfortunately)

Could be anybody's scenario, and the best thing you can do is become your own boss in terms of everything, including water, electricity and so on, to reduce % of being in similar or any bad situation.


Also, it's always better to think about your action with cold head. You just got hyped up and happy, wanted to celeb/share/talk with BHW fam, that's all wonderful (indeed)

Just try to dominate anger and you will have better decisions and you will be the master of yourself.


I won't say from where this comes from, but hear it:

Greater lord of his heart, than the one who conquers the city.
 
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