Hack the Dating scene with Lead Gen Tactics

[canweoffshoreit]

A lot has changed since I was last single.

This whole Tinder type dating world looks like a pain in the arse for not much return.

Women aren't attracted by looks as much as men. I don't want to be judged by my photo or have to compete with other guys. I am a hunter and not the prey.

I want to target women like I generate leads. Scrape the web and SM, find my target and automate communication.

I know this method works for Networking, Sales, Job Hunting and more. The key is high volume, less manual handling and good message copywriting.

My problem is I need help scraping profiles on FB (maybe Insta) and automating Messenger.

Here's my plan based on what I do with lead gen:

Understand Who I want to target. Who is my dream girl and where can I find her?

Scrape FB Groups with the right criteria and
Scrape Profiles IDs (public groups may be simpler).

Scrape individual profiles.

Scan profiles for what certain characteristics. Eliminate undesirables.

Send a low key message totally unrelated to dating. An example...

"Hi <>

I liked your ideas and tips on the <Single Parents Camping Group>. You seem to <have a great local knowledge of things we love to do>.

I'm travelling to <location> with my boys next month and I'm really looking for great places to go.

Would you be kind enough share your insights with me?

Thanks

<Name>"

Notice I am only asking for advice and it is low risk. I expect a 10-20% response rate.

This is a slow burn approach. Next step is to try to get a voice or video call.
Conduct an interview with a great list of questions and charm. Never ask for anything more than advice at this stage.

Then we have a few more touch base messages related to our discussion.
Finally afters 5 touch points we go in for the kill. Eg:

"Travelling to <location> next week and was wondering about catching up for <interesting low risk activity>?"

I can scrape fb groups via Google eg:
"Location" "interest/niche" (optional "public") site:facebook.com/groups

It is grabbing IDs within FB groups and Individual profiles I don't have experience with.
Also, I'm always looking for better ways to automate the elimination of unsuitable profiles.

Next I need message automaton solution for messager.

I'm going to target 25 to 35 year old women and I feel FB is the place especially because it has the data I need to sort targets. Does anyone have ideas around Insta or other sites (eg tiktok if I can eliminate all the teenies and those in relationships from my search)?

What shortcuts can I use to find the right targets?

What tools should I be using to scrape and automate?

What do you think? Am I Mad, a Genius or both?

Any FB pros want to lend some help?

Thanks in advance for your your ideas, knowledge and tips.

 

[Oblock]

Why don't you just walk out your front door of your house.. Walk up and down the street and look for girl in your area. Simple & Effective,

 

[fc-dh]

This seems like a lot of work to get some puss if you ask me, just go to a bar (when they open again) and talk to a girl/woman.

 

[canweoffshoreit]

Why don't you just walk out your front door of your house.. Walk up and down the street and look for girl in your area. Simple & Effective,

Why don't you just walk out your front door of your house.. Walk up and down the street and look for girl in your area. Simple & Effective,

I get what you are saying and I've done it all before.
Little more info is I'm going on a road trip.

Out the front door works well but question is where do the type of girls you like hang out?

Bars are the worst place if you ask me. Too loud and their guard is up as they have guys hassling them all night.

Friend intros are definitely the easiest to convert in real life.

I have worked with this kind of tech and it works really well and efficiently once set up.
Sales guys will back me up.

Any FB Automation pros out there?

 

[phhp]

I know the tool but it's for plenty of fish not for tinder