Weekend Drink
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Halch
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Aside from all the joking, I don't enjoy getting that drunk anymore with the kids in the house. When they are somewhere else I might drink.
Now it's just a light drink to relax a bit.
t2van
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Aside from all the joking, I don't enjoy getting that drunk anymore with the kids in the house. When they are somewhere else I might drink.
I was sober for 13 years because I associate drinking with violence. I've got that bit in check for most part, I can have a drink at home, but I can't if I go out old habits and that.
All that to one side I don't drink that often I got into vodka a few months ago (as I can no longer drink beer some wheat / glucose thing) and I drink what some might consider a concurring amount of it (ill drink a bottle a weekend - I understand just because I can doesnt mean I should) I don't get drunk off that, I don't wake up hung over. I'm a big lad so I can take my drink better than most.
I'll have a mild buzz and thats enough for me, I used to drink while gaming - but no one will have a game with me anymore (thats another story) so I my drinking habit over the last 2-3 weeks have been easing off.
I don't have a problem nor do I need to get drunk, I got kids in the house as well.
Halch
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Wasn't assuming that, sorry if you took it that way.
My background is my parents and family drank a lot when I was a kid, nothing dangerous but I still remember it. I just decided I won't do that with my kids, I'll just drink some mild alcohol when they are here so they can see it can be taken without going overboard. Local drinking culture can be quite heavy and I used to drink a lot too.
I can also have a bit violent temperament. I would never do anything to my kids or wife, but if I drink too much it might lead to unnecessary arguments with my wife.
Anyway, relaxing evening to you all.
t2van
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No I didn't. Just didn't want you thinking I'm getting pissed out of my mind either
LOL no hard feelings here.Yeah I won't do anything to wife or kids.
If I go out ill look for trouble im pretty anti women violence so I tend to stick my nose in to a few things - and because I can do something I tend to. I just enjoy fighting I like it, I like the rush from it and I'm pretty good at hurting people and finding triggers. I used to go out where I grew up have a drink, have a half and half and then have a fight, that was my night every weekend so it's just a habit and a trigger.
I've had alot of help over my short temper so it gets better. Dunno, still angry but I try not to be (at least I can count to 10 now) I've managed to find help and thats the important bit I get a chance to have a chat once a month and that helps!
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I grabbed a Coca-Cola from McDonalds
t2van
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Halch
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No I didn't. Just didn't want you thinking I'm getting pissed out of my mind either
Yeah I won't do anything to wife or kids.
If I go out ill look for trouble im pretty anti women violence so I tend to stick my nose in to a few things - and because I can do something I tend to. I just enjoy fighting I like it, I like the rush from it and I'm pretty good at hurting people and finding triggers. I used to go out where I grew up have a drink, have a half and half and then have a fight, that was my night every weekend so it's just a habit and a trigger.
I've had alot of help over my short temper so it gets better. Dunno, still angry but I try not to be (at least I can count to 10 now) I've managed to find help and thats the important bit I get a chance to have a chat once a month and that helps!
Good good.
I guess I got that redneck look going on for me which used to cause me trouble. I go out so rarely these days that I don't have to care too much, tbh I'm happy to go to the grave just drinking my drinks at home listening to music, and having a fire at the fireplace. I found the biggest reason I wanted to go was women lol.
When it comes to temper I found out the trigger was arguments and strong drinks. At some point, I found out what berserker rage was for a few seconds lol. Took some years before I dared to drink strong ones again. Now I only drink with people I know don't want to get into fights if I drink with any.
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Good good.
I guess I got that redneck look going on for me which used to cause me trouble. I go out so rarely these days that I don't have to care too much, tbh I'm happy to go to the grave just drinking my drinks at home listening to music, and having a fire at the fireplace. I found the biggest reason I wanted to go was women lol.
When it comes to temper I found out the trigger was arguments and strong drinks. At some point, I found out what berserker rage was for a few seconds lol. Took some years before I dared to drink strong ones again. Now I only drink with people I know don't want to get into fights if I drink with any.
I can 100% relate to that. I enjoy my own company way too much I don't have many friends - mainly because I don't give people chances. But I enjoy my own company way too much. Drink, Fire and a bit of Music for me as well!
Here you go:
https://ibb.co/sv3qDfy
I got other reasons my my tempter that mainly go back to leaving at 14. But when I used to train kyokushin I was a bit of a prick as I got older and used to try some of the stuff out and quickly learnt what did and didn't and then when I got introduced to Silat that blew my mind in terms of what you can do with someone - I'm not trying to sound like a macho prick.
But I'm not scared of anyone and won't pack down from anything - have had my ass handed to me and I've given out many more beatings, once my temper flares I keep it going so fighting fuels it and I get a rush off that anger that I just need it to keep going for as long as I can and fighting helps prolong it.
I've got 6 triggers I've identified with help that I know will set me off from happy go Gerry to a cunt in about 0.5ms I've gotten better at spotting them to stop it before I need to count - I also have log books I have to keep notes in which is a pain in the ass when you have to deal with staff and customers I could write an essay daily on them.
The worst part of all of it in all honesty is I can no longer train - I got good at fighting and try to make it my main career before I had a car crash but now for what ever reason my head won't let me do it without my rage and temper flashing up ill snap at the wife and kids for almost no reason so I just don't anymore and that hurts as much as shouting my wife but I know which one id rather give up..
I got help as I didn't and don't want my kids to turn out like me I don't want them to be thinking its OK to be like dad and be a total cunt.
The only real good thing out all of this is I can show my kids what they need to do to look after them selfs and if it really gets bad my wife can point me in the direction I need to go and ill go to work.
I dunno its daft on a forum some people will think its shit other will relate to it, unless you get proper angry and can't deal with it people don't get it.
Halch
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I can 100% relate to that. I enjoy my own company way too much I don't have many friends - mainly because I don't give people chances. But I enjoy my own company way too much. Drink, Fire and a bit of Music for me as well!
Here you go:
I got other reasons my my tempter that mainly go back to leaving at 14. But when I used to train kyokushin I was a bit of a prick as I got older and used to try some of the stuff out and quickly learnt what did and didn't and then when I got introduced to Silat that blew my mind in terms of what you can do with someone - I'm not trying to sound like a macho prick.
But I'm not scared of anyone and won't pack down from anything - have had my ass handed to me and I've given out many more beatings, once my temper flares I keep it going so fighting fuels it and I get a rush off that anger that I just need it to keep going for as long as I can and fighting helps prolong it.
I've got 6 triggers I've identified with help that I know will set me off from happy go Gerry to a cunt in about 0.5ms I've gotten better at spotting them to stop it before I need to count - I also have log books I have to keep notes in which is a pain in the ass when you have to deal with staff and customers I could write an essay daily on them.
The worst part of all of it in all honesty is I can no longer train - I got good at fighting and try to make it my main career before I had a car crash but now for what ever reason my head won't let me do it without my rage and temper flashing up ill snap at the wife and kids for almost no reason so I just don't anymore and that hurts as much as shouting my wife but I know which one id rather give up..
I got help as I didn't and don't want my kids to turn out like me I don't want them to be thinking its OK to be like dad and be a total cunt.
The only real good thing out all of this is I can show my kids what they need to do to look after them selfs and if it really gets bad my wife can point me in the direction I need to go and ill go to work.
I dunno its daft on a forum some people will think its shit other will relate to it, unless you get proper angry and can't deal with it people don't get it.
Nice setup! I've been thinking of building something like that in our old heating room. There is still an old chimney left from oil and wood heating so I've been dreaming of making it a second living room.
If it helps, you're not the only one. I've got a lot of friends who are giving up combat sports (I don't know what to call them lol) for getting old. The bodies don't work like they used to and old injuries flaring up. Some of them found some fun like medieval sword fighting and such which they seem to have fun doing.
I was more of a gym man, but after continuous back injuries, I just can't find the motivation anymore for most sports. I'll just work and if I can get up the next morning I'm happy lol. Had few mornings when I had to scream wife to get my phone and pull my pants up as I couldn't get out of bed lol.
t2van
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I gave up fighting after my car crash (as a sport and a job) when my wife got pregnant with our first child (daughter) I decided the best thing I could do is hit the weights with the sole intention of either:
A: looking like I can crush a mans skull in my hand
B: being able to crush a mans skull in my hand
11 years on I think I can do that I'm twice the size of most people I know of if you take the typical slim person I'm 4x him LOL
As for aches and pains.. yes no one tells you when you train the tole it takes on your body later on in life, I'm not sure I would change much though - but it would be know! I remember being able to kick over my head cold. Now I can't even bend my knees if its cold outside LOLOL
Jeff Vh
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Accept my apologies, I already went upstairs so didn't take a picture of that lovely pint haha.
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Hello sir
I'll just have some tea and crackers
LOLOLOLOLOLOL
FUCK THAT
BEER AND SMOKE
I'll just have some tea and crackers
LOLOLOLOLOLOL
FUCK THAT
BEER AND SMOKE
BreaknBrix
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Drinking hurts my liver for some reason. Just feels toxic.
But today for the 1st time I injected a vetgrade multi-B vitamin & a separate B12... shot 2 CC in my thigh... went to the gym... HOLY SHIT. Best workout of my life. I did an hour cardio, 60 mins weights, came home & ran 4 miles with my dog... have been eating nonstop & not the slightest bit of fatigue.
Next I will smoke a tiny bowl in my 1 hitter.
This will be how I spend my summer now. Injecting vitamins & toking on the weekends. Weed dulls my brain a bit. The vitamins bring the sharpness back X100. And are so much better than oral vitamins IDKY but it's like a drug.
But today for the 1st time I injected a vetgrade multi-B vitamin & a separate B12... shot 2 CC in my thigh... went to the gym... HOLY SHIT. Best workout of my life. I did an hour cardio, 60 mins weights, came home & ran 4 miles with my dog... have been eating nonstop & not the slightest bit of fatigue.
Next I will smoke a tiny bowl in my 1 hitter.
This will be how I spend my summer now. Injecting vitamins & toking on the weekends. Weed dulls my brain a bit. The vitamins bring the sharpness back X100. And are so much better than oral vitamins IDKY but it's like a drug.
t2van
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No start your own smoke thread.
I don't smoke that often to comment I have an edible more often than not but thats only if my knees are playing up.Next week will be what are you munching!
