My Life is broken to pieces

Doctor.Collector

Doctor.Collector

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My Life is so stressful. I don't know what and what not to do.. Its about home and I can't take the weight, nor am I good in taking decisions..

My sister is planning to go abroad for study but with what money, and idek where to get from... My mom is sick.. had radiation therapy.. her check up is every 6 months and she haven't done any check up since forever cuz we don't have the money for that.. And my father a drunk, who comes home to break our hearts..

And Me, unlucky in all my business endeavours and never landing a job since.. i want to do something but fortune is not in my grasp... I am unlucky.. I can't even provide for my mom and dad.. I wish i was not born to see my family in this shit.. if i was not born, they'd be in worse situation so, i feel like they're lucky to have me.. but at what cost... I have nothing to provide them.
 
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How old are you?
Do you have any skills or something you can do via computer?
Even if you are just starting out, you can be as someone’s VA and get paid and that doesn’t require almost any skill.
You already speak English so that’s a plus so let me know what you can do and I can point you out.
 
Doctor.Collector said:
My Life is so stressful. I don't know what and what not to do.. Its about home and I can't take the weight, nor am I good in taking decisions..

My sister is planning to go abroad for study but with what money, and idek where to get from... My mom is sick.. had radiation therapy.. her check up is every 6 months and she haven't done any check up since forever cuz we don't have the money for that.. And my father a drunk, who comes home to break our hearts..

And Me, unlucky in all my business endeavours and never landing a job since.. i want to do something but fortune is not in my grasp... I am unlucky.. I can't even provide for my mom and dad.. I wish i was not born to see my family in this shit.. if i was not born, they'd be in worse situation so, i feel like they're lucky to have me.. but at what cost... I have nothing to provide them.
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Keep fighting man, don’t give up!
Life will always get better
 
Let me know whatever you can work with and i can try to get you rolling in something.

I might not be able to help you mentally but i can help you in other ways.

Life is all abouy problems, either you cry and take the pain till you die. Or simply stand against it and fight with it till the time you knock it off.

All you need is belief in yourself. Just do it mate.
 
You can cry, you can feel bad. It's Okay!

But... you need to get your shit together. Step up and be the hero your family deserves.

When I was in the army they told us "When it is the most dark outside, it means dawn is coming".

Promise yourself this will be the last weekend you feel this way. Promise yourself you will do better for yourself and your family.

Feel free to PM me with everything you need, I'm a good listener and can drop in a few tips.

Be well brother!
 
Just keep fighting man. I know it sucks. I'm fighting everyday but I try to always see the positive light in my life whenever I possibly can. I see kids in Yemen and other countries who are literally eating grass to survive and it makes me feel selfish.

I do what I do so I can help others in the future, that's my goal and that's my purpose. If I'm not successful, then how am I going to help others as best as I want to?

My point is, it's hard to find it now but once you latch on to a purpose and try to see the positive things in your life, you'll slowly climb out of this hole you feel you can't get out of. Because at the end of the day, it really is mind-set.

In your context, you're letting your environment make you dig a deeper hole. Stop thinking about everybody else and start thinking about yourself for once. It may sound bad but you are the most important before anybody else. Life can be almost as volatile as BTC. One day it's shit and another day, you may get lucky or may get an opportunity that will blow you out of the water and make you look back at these days as the source of how you got to where you are. It only makes you stronger as a person. Without pain, there's no growth.

So fucking what if you're not a millionaire? So what if you're not XYZ and you're not making or doing enough for whoever? You don't need to meet anybody's expectations of you. Just do you and you'll see that you're capable more than you think for living a happy life. Because at the end of the day, that's all that matters man.

Wish you the best of luck.
 
Hey man, I don’t understand exactly what you’re going through, because those are your emotions and feelings.

What I do know is that you posting this shows your desire to persevere, and you just have to trust the process.

There will always be days, years, hell even multiple years and chunks of your life where everything feels like shit, and it’s sad but unfortunately it can happen.

My advice to you is to take each day as it comes. You can’t control yesterday tomorrow but you can control today. Focus on all the positive things you have even the small little things, and you will make it out.

Just know that the way you feel right now will NOT last forever.
 
Cry won't solve anything... It will only add more to yourself/your family pro...what equipment did you have and how many hour you can work per day....let start from that...
 
Doctor.Collector said:
My Life is so stressful. I don't know what and what not to do.. Its about home and I can't take the weight, nor am I good in taking decisions..

My sister is planning to go abroad for study but with what money, and idek where to get from... My mom is sick.. had radiation therapy.. her check up is every 6 months and she haven't done any check up since forever cuz we don't have the money for that.. And my father a drunk, who comes home to break our hearts..

And Me, unlucky in all my business endeavours and never landing a job since.. i want to do something but fortune is not in my grasp... I am unlucky.. I can't even provide for my mom and dad.. I wish i was not born to see my family in this shit.. if i was not born, they'd be in worse situation so, i feel like they're lucky to have me.. but at what cost... I have nothing to provide them.
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Why would you provide for your mother and father? Provide for yourself.
 
Doctor.Collector said:
My Life is so stressful. I don't know what and what not to do.. Its about home and I can't take the weight, nor am I good in taking decisions..

My sister is planning to go abroad for study but with what money, and idek where to get from... My mom is sick.. had radiation therapy.. her check up is every 6 months and she haven't done any check up since forever cuz we don't have the money for that.. And my father a drunk, who comes home to break our hearts..

And Me, unlucky in all my business endeavours and never landing a job since.. i want to do something but fortune is not in my grasp... I am unlucky.. I can't even provide for my mom and dad.. I wish i was not born to see my family in this shit.. if i was not born, they'd be in worse situation so, i feel like they're lucky to have me.. but at what cost... I have nothing to provide them.
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Not to be a jerk but you haven't seen anything yet if those are your life problems. Life is hard yet beautiful, get used to it, it usually only gets worse. But in the same time it gets better. It's complicated. Yet it's simple.
Brace yourself, don't let fear anywhere near you and have a laugh when you can.
 
linkchamp said:
Let me know whatever you can work with and i can try to get you rolling in something.

I might not be able to help you mentally but i can help you in other ways.

Life is all abouy problems, either you cry and take the pain till you die. Or simply stand against it and fight with it till the time you knock it off.

All you need is belief in yourself. Just do it mate.
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samuaa024 said:
Cry won't solve anything... It will only add more to yourself/your family pro...what equipment did you have and how many hour you can work per day....let start from that...
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Let us know what you can do and how many hours can you work per day. Also, knowing where you are from might help us a little to decide how we can help you to get started. We can only help you, but YOU have to do the WORK. You have to put in those extra hours and effort. Reply to the above queries, and we'll try to help you get started with something. One day at a time! :)
 
keep it up man, do some meditation, calm your mind.
when your mind is calm enough, start listing you trouble one by one
than list possible solution. than start doing it.

Feel you anyway. just realize threre is always big opportunity hidden in bad situation. we just need to try hard enough to start see it.
and what differentiate succed or failure, is how we get through this kind of situation.
 
Life serves you with 2 kinds of miseries
One that tears you apart and pushes you into a chaotic tailspin
One that urges you to fight back for a better tommorow

I respect the fact that you wish to provide for your loved ones despite all you're going through. Losers resort to addiction. Don't lose hope, man.
 
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