AussieDollar
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Because its mainly a video editor? I haven't used Sony.
I'm making 3D characters for unity.
Just watching tutorials from youtube if that got you mixed up.
Because its mainly a video editor? I haven't used Sony.
I'm making 3D characters for unity.
Just watching tutorials from youtube if that got you mixed up.
Psh
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Nailed it on the head, couldn't agree more.
I understand people's confusion that are heavily conflicted with his ideology, though some fail to grasp the philosophy of helping yourself in order to help others.
The power, wealth, independence is first built internally, only to then be realeased over the world. Mankind requires powerful, rugged pillars that can withstand unending demands. Otherwise, the entire foundation remains an unstable swamp. By minimizing contributions early on you can yield an even greater handout later in your timeline. Choosing to help others when you lack high reliability will shortly render you useless - without resources, tools, motivation and ambition. The relationships with people that are dependant and helpless won't benefit you neither, as they have no power and influence to exert.
The way of self-betterment, leadership and sovereignty is building inward, followed by outward action.
What perhaps OP didn't articulate, is that it does pay off to be selfish, by helping yourself you'll be competent to be relied on.
Something interesting to read: The Gospel of Wealth by Andrew Carnegie
The power, wealth, independence is first built internally, only to then be realeased over the world. Mankind requires powerful, rugged pillars that can withstand unending demands. Otherwise, the entire foundation remains an unstable swamp. By minimizing contributions early on you can yield an even greater handout later in your timeline. Choosing to help others when you lack high reliability will shortly render you useless - without resources, tools, motivation and ambition. The relationships with people that are dependant and helpless won't benefit you neither, as they have no power and influence to exert.
The way of self-betterment, leadership and sovereignty is building inward, followed by outward action.
What perhaps OP didn't articulate, is that it does pay off to be selfish, by helping yourself you'll be competent to be relied on.
Something interesting to read: The Gospel of Wealth by Andrew Carnegie
RanQ Higher
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Don't be selfish in public welfare... Look for the common good in selfishness! If you are not selfish in certain situations, then it will be selfless to you! So be selfish, but not always. 
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You may want to see things with more nuances
Be helpful with the right people and selfish with the selfish ones
Be helpful with the right people and selfish with the selfish ones
Queen Heidi
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Behave like a mirror in this society. Else you will be treated as an #error in this society.
Blogsmith
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I help whoever I feel needs help regardless of them in a position to help me then or later. However, if I get to se that there has been no sense of gratitude from whom I have helped and if I see that my helping attitude is taken for granted, I just get a bit aware of the same and tend not to come forward to help next time. Reciprocation of help is never expected but indeed, a sense of gratitude is expected. I am a human being too.
Goodness according to me should be done selflessly. It brings in lot of positivity and satisfaction within. Being selfish .. I will never get into that mode. Never.
Goodness according to me should be done selflessly. It brings in lot of positivity and satisfaction within. Being selfish .. I will never get into that mode. Never.
MunnyMachine
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You cant fly with the eagles if you run with chickens
Kikerinka
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Law of action and reaction cannot be broken OP.
Personally I do everything for others, including everything I work on online. Always think about the value I give with my work, and not the return I may or may not get.
Yet I get so much... amazing people seems to be attracted to my life, and money .. well, I am not doing bad either:
I hope you will understand this law soon, and won't spend your life living with such a miserable mindset...
Personally I do everything for others, including everything I work on online. Always think about the value I give with my work, and not the return I may or may not get.
Yet I get so much... amazing people seems to be attracted to my life, and money .. well, I am not doing bad either:
I hope you will understand this law soon, and won't spend your life living with such a miserable mindset...
thizzladen
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You can be selfish, but be careful not to get arrogant. You have to balance that out by helping people. It keeps you humble.
SocialRocket
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Sorry but this is a really stupid advice
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I like this one
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The problem is that people cannot deal with emotions. Judgement and expectations of what is beyond their control.
Bees pick nectar and suicide for the hive receiving way less than they offer in the process, hence they are free. No one will ever see a bee crying in a corner because life has treated them harshly.
Leader777
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It's real because who the hell want to waste his time helping an ignorant person, I'm talking from my experience and at the end i understood that the person he's a loser and it is what it is so i moved on.
Shah101
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Fucking nailed it, lmao
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This got me wondering what service are you offering?
Kikerinka
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Custom made digital products. Top quality, refund rate below 2%. Free money back guarantee for 60 days. And it's not my only source of online income
. Give value and quality to people, and you will certainly get in back--maybe in a different form, but you will.
Psh
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I agree, and I know exactly what you mean. Some people just can't be helped, waste of time.
11Yellow11
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Yeah well, there’s a fine line in this argument.
First of all i respect your mindset! But let me state my opinion:
I think there’s a difference beetwen HELPING and doing CHARITY.
Because, if you give advices to someone on this forum because he doesn’t know how to create a website, that’s helping, if you tell them and give them EVERYTHING they need to know is CHARITY, but only if you do it without expecting shit.
Another example, if i give 10€ to a homeless guy, that’s charity because i’m not really expecting nothing, i just did something that maybe could make someone happy.
Ok?
Now, if i help someone with their website expecting something in return after, that’s not helping that’s INVESTING, because you’re putting your effort and your expertise in order to profit later on.
But, how do you invest? First of all you research and see if there’s a potential, good, amount of profit.
If a newbie like me comes here and ask the classic “how do i earn X/day?” No one will actually give a proper response, BUT, if someone comes here and says “i have do this, do that and studied that but...” many people will help that newbie because he already showed that he’s willing to put the effort in.
Now this doesn’t actually make sense at all and it’s not connected to anything above ahahaha
Just to finish this and get back to work:
You could help other while also being selfish, it’s called EGOISTIC ALTRUISM: in a few words, you make your world better with a product/service and at the same time you’re also HELPING others. Because if you think about it, ANYTHING that you do in IM (whitehat) is aimed to help someone.
An affiliate website owner thinks about making money right? But even if he doesn’t know it, he’s also striving to give the best content possible to people.
Did you get it? Aaahaahahaha
I don’t know how your life went, but, when i didn’t know nuthing not so many people helped me, but a few people like @Billy Batts did, and i’ll always be grateful for it.
Now, when someone asks me something i always try to help as much as i can, cause i’ve been trough the same road, i want them to learn to be like this as well, in this way the help-chain never stops and the world becomes a little better.
Peace!
First of all i respect your mindset! But let me state my opinion:
I think there’s a difference beetwen HELPING and doing CHARITY.
Because, if you give advices to someone on this forum because he doesn’t know how to create a website, that’s helping, if you tell them and give them EVERYTHING they need to know is CHARITY, but only if you do it without expecting shit.
Another example, if i give 10€ to a homeless guy, that’s charity because i’m not really expecting nothing, i just did something that maybe could make someone happy.
Ok?
Now, if i help someone with their website expecting something in return after, that’s not helping that’s INVESTING, because you’re putting your effort and your expertise in order to profit later on.
But, how do you invest? First of all you research and see if there’s a potential, good, amount of profit.
If a newbie like me comes here and ask the classic “how do i earn X/day?” No one will actually give a proper response, BUT, if someone comes here and says “i have do this, do that and studied that but...” many people will help that newbie because he already showed that he’s willing to put the effort in.
Now this doesn’t actually make sense at all and it’s not connected to anything above ahahaha
Just to finish this and get back to work:
You could help other while also being selfish, it’s called EGOISTIC ALTRUISM: in a few words, you make your world better with a product/service and at the same time you’re also HELPING others. Because if you think about it, ANYTHING that you do in IM (whitehat) is aimed to help someone.
An affiliate website owner thinks about making money right? But even if he doesn’t know it, he’s also striving to give the best content possible to people.
Did you get it? Aaahaahahaha
I don’t know how your life went, but, when i didn’t know nuthing not so many people helped me, but a few people like @Billy Batts did, and i’ll always be grateful for it.
Now, when someone asks me something i always try to help as much as i can, cause i’ve been trough the same road, i want them to learn to be like this as well, in this way the help-chain never stops and the world becomes a little better.
Peace!