It doesn't pay off to be GOOD, so be SELFISH

[Deleted member 1048557]

Your time is the most valuable resource you have.
Use it wisely.

You can use it to make a TON of money and live an AMAZING life.
Helping others is a WASTE of time - Time you could've dedicated to improving yourself and your life or your family.

Instead, do a STRATEGIC GIVING. You want to be giving to a person you know will make a difference in your business or your life.

Don't spend time doing sh*t for others that ain't gonna pay off.
Also, don't spend time with people bellow you(losers) you can't learn anything worthwhile from them or make a trade.

It doesn't pay off to be good BUT it does when you're SELFISH when every one of your actions is done with the intention to get YOU to your goal AND eventually, you will get what you want.

If you also have any valuable advice drop it bellow

 

[Bukunmi]

Help others even though they cant help you!

 

[steroidjoe]

welcome to adulthood

 

[Deleted member 658642]

If you also have any valuable advice drop it bellow

I would but someone wise told me to keep away from “losers”.

don't spend time with people bellow you(losers) you can't learn anything worthwhile from them or make a trade.

 

[Leader777]

I agree with u and disagree at the same time but i will say don't spend your time trying to help someone who don't want to help himself.

 

[Bukunmi]

So you assume people below you are losers, you have failed

 

[Deleted member 813988]

There is no black and white, it's mostly a mix of both.
Helping or not helping is not the question, a lot depending on the situation.
Of course family comes first, but if you can help someone on the way it may return 10x more. Maybe not even for you, but it won't get unnoticed.

 

[RoyalCobra777]

That's so sad... I'm sorry that you think this way.

 

[SocialEyez]

i had those conclusions at 15 years old, using others to get what you want is something natural you born with, "Strategic giving" lol, are you really using this as a life hack? maybe for VERY naive people, which i'm quite sure frequent other type of forums.

Intelligent people see clearly trough this point of view, and what you said is just common sense in the real world, that means that if your "giving" to me is "not strategic" only than it will be evaluated as a "positive point" in our relation.

Smart people that understand my point too, are making their "strategic giving" to look natural, and that mosly involves being natural in a way, unless your'e a real shady hypocrite, i don't envy you.

And about people below you being losers, well, if you look to interact only with people above your level, probably most of them look at you the same way, is that a part of what made you come to this conclusion in the first place?

humility will stop the humiliation you feel when you THINK people are better than you, leading to this whole faulty mindset.

 

[macdonjo3]

bellow

 

[conscious9]

People like you are why the economy will crash.

 

[Deleted member 1048557]

People like you are why the economy will crash.

I don't think so.

 

[stepdub]

I share or help people ONLY when I have enough for myself.

 

[conscious9]

I don't think so.

Your definition of an “amazing” life clearly differs from mine.

 

[Deleted member 1048557]

I share or help people ONLY when I have enough for myself.

I totally agree with you. You can't help anyone if you can't help yourself first and fulfill your needs.

That's what I'm talking about. But most don't understand.
First focus on getting the amazing life and once you achieve it and have an abundance - then you can focus on helping others.

 

[Bukunmi]

I share or help people ONLY when I have enough for myself.

If you can't help when you have little...you can't help when you have much because it would never be enough

 

[lifehero]

this used to be my mindset. as i am growing into an adult my thinking is changing

i like an 80/20 balance. selfish, but help others in need when I can and am able

 

[Bukunmi]

Life hero

this used to be my mindset. as i am growing into an adult my thinking is changing

i like an 80/20 balance. selfish, but help others in need when I can and am able

 

[Nubian Content]

OP, you're a fool. Cheers.

 

[stepdub]

If you can't help when you have little...you can't help when you have much because it would never be enough

Not true at all. When I had little I didn't help anyone cuz my own survival was priority over others. Now when I have a lot more than before, I help others.

"If you can't help when you have little...you can't help when you have much because it would never be enough" - how did you come to this conclusion? Any personal experiences? Or saw someone around you who didn't help others when they had little, and even after gathering a lot they still don't help cuz it's not enough for them?