How could this happen? I cannot believe man...

What should I do about a child I don't think is mine?

  • Get a DNA test behind everyones back

    Votes: 107 81.7%
  • Confront my wife

    Votes: 15 11.5%
  • Spy on my wife to find proof of cheating, then confront

    Votes: 9 6.9%

  • Total voters
    131
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Well, superb idea to get a DNA test without telling her. That‘s what my 16 year old nephew would do.
Open your mouth and talk to her, then do the DNA test.
 
Do DNA test, get the shit out of it. But never disclose it before testing.

Only raise your voice if there is SHIT.
 
For the last 9 months I have been expecting a baby with my wife and 5 days ago it arrived. Weighing in 7lbs 3oz our daughter was born. Fantastic.

I have been with my wife for 12 years, married for 9. Never in a million years would I expect her to cheat but now I am unsure because when the baby came out it has features that do not look like mine.

The most prominent of these features is she is black.

I've not brought this up with my wife yet, I don't know what to do next.

I made a poll, please vote.
She cheat on you with @ceosam man :/

She will go far in life as ceosam
 
For the last 9 months I have been expecting a baby with my wife and 5 days ago it arrived. Weighing in 7lbs 3oz our daughter was born. Fantastic.

I have been with my wife for 12 years, married for 9. Never in a million years would I expect her to cheat but now I am unsure because when the baby came out it has features that do not look like mine.

The most prominent of these features is she is black.

I've not brought this up with my wife yet, I don't know what to do next.

I made a poll, please vote.

Is your wife colourblind at all?
 
It took you 4 days to realize the baby was black?
I thought it might just be bad lighting

@Kid Shaleen I have a question before express my vote. Are you a Black or White person?
Do you think I would be surprised my baby was black if I was black?

If you are serious, this is not the best place to ask for relationship advice.
WTF, 80% of votes to go behind her back and do a DNA Test?

She has been with you for 12 years.
Why don't you just wait a week or two? I am sure she will notice it too and will bring it up. She is not blind??. It is also her kid.

I have no experience is life. wtf do I know? But doing a DNA without her knowing... damn what has the world come to?
She has said she was surprised the baby had dark skin, and blamed it on the hospital lights for giving the baby a tan.
 
I think I will organise DNA test this week, I will get my DNA and DNA from my wifes daughter and send it away.

Theres no way this baby is mine
 
She has said she was surprised the baby had dark skin, and blamed it on the hospital lights for giving the baby a tan.
Did the baby have phototherapy? If not, was there a power-cut when the baby was born?
 
Seriously mam, are you out of mind. When she is pregnant you didn't notice if she having an affair or anything and after newborn baby you got some symptoms which is unlike you.
Is your daughter started talking with you? I must suggest go and tell to your wife that you are spy on her and this is not your daughter and may god giver her strength that she leaves you forever.
This is the time that you have to take care of her in each and every moment and you are asking here is she cheated you or not. OMG which type of person you are?
 
If you're black, and the baby turn out to be white.
It could be albino.

After all, no need to be complicated. Just get DNA test. Problem solve.
 
If you're black, and the baby turn out to be white.
It could be albino.

After all, no need to be complicated. Just get DNA test. Problem solve.

If you're white, and the baby turns out to be black.
It could be Dayquan's...baby.
 
Sometimes babies are born black, but turn whiter as they grow.

It happened to my cousin, everyone thought my aunt had cheated but nope as she developed she became white with a slight tan just like my uncle :D

ps she took a dna test
 
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