Anyone ever dated an Indian girl?

[MrMagicHands]

seeing the first post..

You have been a Playboy!

Let this thread go already. Was clearly not the place to ask such advice! Had no idea.

 

[Nut-Nights]

Wtf is going on here.

 

[PixelMathis]

Wtf is going on here.

Ramblings of an Indian playboy who's on his quest to find a new girl.

 

[jazzc]

their families are always more interested in family background and personal income and net worth

The horror!!! How dare the parents wish their daughter doesn't marry off in poverty.

than the quality of the guy himself.

And what things you've done that reek of your quality?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Get money.

"Collective Pressure" is itself a wrong term. When people adjust according to feelings of people around them, then it shows sensitivity not "collective pressure". The more the idea of "expression of individuality" exists in a human being, the more it becomes a burden to adjust with others and the end result is "DIVORCE" as it prevails in many of the so-called "Individuality" conscious societies.

Had a good laugh with this.

A person does not "adjust" to the wishes of others, a person submits to the will of others. I.e. in the conflict between the desires of the person and the desires of others, that person becomes the loser and the others the winners. There is no sugarcoating this. Therefore, it is not "a burden to a adjust" that somehow needs to lighten but "a pain of losing your will to others" that requires action from that person to prevent in the future.

 

[kumbhak11]

A person does not "adjust" to the wishes of others, a person submits to the will of others. I.e. in the conflict between the desires of the person and the desires of others, that person becomes the loser and the others the winners. There is no sugarcoating this. Therefore, it is not "a burden to a adjust" that somehow needs to lighten but "a pain of losing your will to others" that requires action from that person to prevent in the future.

It's not always "my will" vs "others will" thing. In a society/family/nation, for larger interest, people do have to give up some of their interests. Even democracy functions mainly on Majority vote because there can never be a solution which will suit to 100% of the population.

 

[jazzc]

It's not always "my will" vs "others will" thing. In a society/family/nation, for larger interest, people do have to give up some of their interests. Even democracy functions mainly on Majority vote because there can never be a solution which will suit to 100% of the population.

If people have to give up, this is is the result of a conflict between two competing wills. Otherwise, there would be no need to give up anything. That "large interest" is the will of the rest that subdues the will of the person.

Of course there can not be a thing that suits 100% of the population. Hence, power conflicts. Crashing of wills, losers and winners.