How lonely are you?

[smpclippingpath]

I haven't had a friend since I was 15.

I have never dated anybody. Never sent a nude or kissed someone.

Nobody ever texts me. I don't really have any social media because there's no point; I wouldn't have any followers or likes because nobody knows me.

I go to college and I see people making friends or talking with one another, and it kills me. They aren't quivering with anxiety, how come I do?

Nobody else really tries to befriend me, and if they do, I feel like I muck it up.

I seldom go out on weekends, if I do it's with my brother, the only person I hang out with.

I'm extremely bad at conversations because I rarely have them. And then when I'm awkward I beat myself up about it and I feel even worse I don't want to try again. I just want to be invisible.

 

[MuayThai]

Wrong forum maybe?

 

[jamie3000]

Have you seen a doctor about your anxiety?

 

[soa0611]

just get drunk in a bar every friday

 

[WizGizmo]

There is a saying,: "If you want a friend, you have to BE a friend."

Sounds like you have a lack of self-confidence. Start taking guitar lessons. That builds self-confidence and impresses the ladies.

In the meantime, get a dog. You can't go wrong with a dog.

Best of luck to you - "Wiz"

 

[Deleted member 720373]

Yet just a few days ago you were giving advice

Maybe it's because you were a shoplifter in your youth

 

[Fussganger]

Before everyone cones here with their sarcastic swords in their hands, remember that this is a REAL PERSON openeing up about himself, albeit in the wrong place.

Be subtle.

 

[mickyfu]

Before everyone cones here with their sarcastic swords in their hands, remember that this is a REAL PERSON openeing up about himself, albeit in the wrong place.

Be subtle.

Looks like I'm out. Have a good day everybody .

 

[MatthewGraham]

Looks like I'm out. Have a good day everybody .

 

[Panther28]

You have to feel confident in ur own skin first, thats the key, before you can feel confident with another persons love.

 

[MrFoxyFox]

I suggest you go out of your comfort zone in social interactions. Go approach some ladies, meet some people. Have a drink at the bar and talk to some people. It works for me, I guess. I went from crippling anxiety to an extrovert in like 2 months lol.

Good luck.

 

[Degen]

you better off earning now, and paying someone for their time than going in a relationship...
also this forum is turning into a selhelp forum... instead of a amrketing forum. Incoming Marketplace service incoming. ' how to get laid' or ' How to get over anxiety e-book'

@BassTrackerBoats or @Zwielicht has to read the whole thing to approve/disapprove.

 

[Wilson Grant Fisk]

Checked the OP's image from his website

http://www.smpclippingpath.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/MG_8094.jpg

 

[RuneHost]

I'm pretty lonely I need to find a gf

 

[davids355]

I’m a bit similar. I’m very bad at socialising.

The best thing I ever did was taking up martial arts - it’s given me so much confidence because I feel good that I’m learning to be good at something, improving my body in terms of health and fitness, and I have something new to talk about.

So maybe you should try taking up something for your self improvement - a sport or something like that. Or music like @WizGizmo suggested.

After that, you also have to just get out there because the only way to really get better at socialising is ... socialising. And it will come with time.

Also remember that everyone is human, everyone is awkward in their own way and regardless of how embarrassed you might feel, others can still relate to that and aren’t going to persecute you for it.

 

[0V3RR1D3]

*Writes a post about being lonely*

First response: "Wrong forum maybe?" AKA You don't belong here.

Brutal. Hope the way life occurs for you changes soon.

 

[Aty]

Start volunteering. If you have a good heart and you are willing to help people, you will make friends in no time. Guaranteed!

 

[pocketttt]

how old are you op?

 

[Panther28]

Wrong forum maybe?

What you talking about? This is the number 1 forum!

Have you seen a doctor about your anxiety?

You can see either Dr Greenthumb, or get some LSD prescribed to you.

just get drunk in a bar every friday

Thats actually a great suggestion, simple, yet effective!

There is a saying,: "If you want a friend, you have to BE a friend."

U should think about donating your brain to science, its one of the best out there!

Yet just a few days ago you were giving advice

Maybe it's because you were a shoplifter in your youth

Who wasn't a shoplifter? I shoplifted pornos for a policemans son, lol

Before everyone cones here with their sarcastic swords in their hands, remember that this is a REAL PERSON openeing up about himself, albeit in the wrong place.

Be subtle.

Kind words, thank u

I suggest you go out of your comfort zone in social interactions. Go approach some ladies, meet some people. Have a drink at the bar and talk to some people. It works for me, I guess. I went from crippling anxiety to an extrovert in like 2 months lol.

Good luck.

So true ladies always like to talk,

you better off earning now, and paying someone for their time than going in a relationship...
also this forum is turning into a selhelp forum... instead of a amrketing forum. Incoming Marketplace service incoming. ' how to get laid' or ' How to get over anxiety e-book'

@BassTrackerBoats or @Zwielicht has to read the whole thing to approve/disapprove.

Name one more important thing than getting laid then? Isn't everyone aloud a little(?) fun

Checked the OP's image from his website

http://www.smpclippingpath.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/MG_8094.jpg

Dude some on, if you actually cheked a real pic of each of us, you would match with a quantom nano particle!

I'm pretty lonely I need to find a gf

Find friends, and this will happen naturally

Also remember that everyone is human,

Whats your opionon on this borg lady who watches us?

 

[thetrustedzone]

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In the meantime, get a dog. You can't go wrong with a dog.

Best of luck to you - "Wiz"

I always eat dogs meat but nothing happened to me , still lonely !