Divorce gave me a Focused Driven Mindset

[1Enigma]

i just can't stop working. Nothing matters except Kids, Work and Excercise.

 

[mzonas]

Maybe your ex-wife was energy vampire ... or something ...

 

[1Enigma]

Maybe your ex-wife was energy vampire ... or something ...

I didn't say that, you did

 

[Mariothecashcow]

Sometimes the sad reality is those who you think will always be there, end's up not being there. You will always have what ever you build for your self (aslong as you do nothing seriously stupid). Sometimes love can be the biggest distraction of them all, because it affects your emotional state when making decisions. I am seriously glad you have came out of your marriage and not "let your self go" so to speak, so respect man. Keep that motivation, i'm sure there a plenty of porn profiles from our fellow BHW'ers journeys here which can suffice for the mean time haha. But keep that motivation

 

[mzonas]

I didn't say that, you did

I said that .... and many other things ...

 

[conglica]

you are just mad, it will wear off

 

[kittykut]

I didn't say that, you did

sucubus

 

[1Enigma]

you are just mad, it will wear off

At least it happened before the money came rolling in good. I can't just sit back and mope now, Mario was right I got so much resistance just because I wasn't a T.V. Zombie. She had the natural skills to write too, but wouldn't rather have a 9-5 even thou she seen me pulling in money. But if her family would have been like work for yourself; instead of find a career and make someone else rich retire in 20, she would have been all over it.

 

[airtman]

I see sense from your decision, av been through such but then not marriage

 

[necro]

bru, get over her...

you are just mad because you didnt input anything in this relationship... which is not bad... matter of fact it's good...

you just need to learn something more about girls... and find one that loves you not the other way around...

 

[Monsterer]

But bro you don't need an understandable person for you @1Enigma why you did this?

 

[SkyJoker24]

It's a proven measure of success. Limit your long-term goals to only 3 things. Focus on the 3 things. And give them everything you'll got. You'll come good.

 

[1Enigma]

But bro you don't need an understandable person for you @1Enigma why you did this?

Resistance is why, More than person said since I'm not actually not trying to run into another relationship some random event will you and another girl will start off talking bla bla bla bla and boom.

 

[masturbato]

You should have had a "focus, driven mindset" in the first place before this divorce happened.

Maybe that's why your divorce happened.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[1Enigma]

You should have had a "focus, driven mindset" in the first place before this divorce happened.

Maybe that's why your divorce happened.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Nope the relationship actually took me off focus and when I got back on focus is when things fell apart. It was 100% me I went back to my old ways like they said I would do. It when downhill when I got back in shape, I was tired of being unhealthy no lie.