I'm gonna get straight to the point.. one might not care because it's obvious and one might see something because they realize.
What do you need to become successful? Discipline & appreciation.
I think a lot of people who earned a lot in the past(or did not) and don't do it now and struggle to get back up is because they lacked discipline and appreciation, easily triggered to get distracted and do things they don't need to do.. why do they do it? Because it's more fun and much easier.
The moment something comes up in mind to do.. they don't do it emmidiately and just tell theirselves to do it later because it's very easy to convince yourself to avoid something you like LESS to do. Sometimes it's smarter to listen to your brain instead of your cute feelings.
Because YOU KNOW WHY you should do that other thing and you know HOW to do it. You don't do it though.. why? Because of the lack of discipline.. you are not willing to sacrifice. If you don't sacrifice for the things you want, the things you want will be the sacrifice.
Appreciate where you are at all times but NEVER be satisfied. Because you know you can do waaay better.
Next time you get something in mind to do that gives you that great feeling in the stomach.. do it! Next time your friends calls you to hang out, don't be afraid to say no when you know you can better say no. Real friends will understand, fake ones will fade away.
Take time for yourself.. create better habits. Most people would want to read a book every day, hit the gym, eat healthier, save up money every week and more. You know plenty of things you'd like to do.. but it's boring I know. No one said it's easy to create habits. Once you start doing it every day, get the feeling/rythm it will become much easier.
Even if you fail once.. don't be sad and ruin yourself. Recover, do it better and learn from your mistakes.
It's hard sometimes, but that's just a feeling. Once you're out of that fcked up cycle you'll feel great. Know what you're doing it for..
That awesome car? That great hang out spot with all your desires you can invite your squad to? Those days you'll wake up fresh and happy every morning? The ability to be able to do anything you want at any time because you really want to do it? You know what I'm talking about..
Worry less, appreciate more, do what you know you SHOULD do, don't be afraid to do it, remember what you're doing it for, be alone every now and then.
I'm sorry if I wrote this all a bit messy, I just typed out what came up in my mind because of the stage I was in until I realized.
I hope this could help some people realize and turn things around. Also my native language isn't English so excuse the errors.
- Kosty
What do you need to become successful? Discipline & appreciation.
I think a lot of people who earned a lot in the past(or did not) and don't do it now and struggle to get back up is because they lacked discipline and appreciation, easily triggered to get distracted and do things they don't need to do.. why do they do it? Because it's more fun and much easier.
The moment something comes up in mind to do.. they don't do it emmidiately and just tell theirselves to do it later because it's very easy to convince yourself to avoid something you like LESS to do. Sometimes it's smarter to listen to your brain instead of your cute feelings.
Because YOU KNOW WHY you should do that other thing and you know HOW to do it. You don't do it though.. why? Because of the lack of discipline.. you are not willing to sacrifice. If you don't sacrifice for the things you want, the things you want will be the sacrifice.
Appreciate where you are at all times but NEVER be satisfied. Because you know you can do waaay better.
Next time you get something in mind to do that gives you that great feeling in the stomach.. do it! Next time your friends calls you to hang out, don't be afraid to say no when you know you can better say no. Real friends will understand, fake ones will fade away.
Take time for yourself.. create better habits. Most people would want to read a book every day, hit the gym, eat healthier, save up money every week and more. You know plenty of things you'd like to do.. but it's boring I know. No one said it's easy to create habits. Once you start doing it every day, get the feeling/rythm it will become much easier.
Even if you fail once.. don't be sad and ruin yourself. Recover, do it better and learn from your mistakes.
It's hard sometimes, but that's just a feeling. Once you're out of that fcked up cycle you'll feel great. Know what you're doing it for..
That awesome car? That great hang out spot with all your desires you can invite your squad to? Those days you'll wake up fresh and happy every morning? The ability to be able to do anything you want at any time because you really want to do it? You know what I'm talking about..
Worry less, appreciate more, do what you know you SHOULD do, don't be afraid to do it, remember what you're doing it for, be alone every now and then.
I'm sorry if I wrote this all a bit messy, I just typed out what came up in my mind because of the stage I was in until I realized.
I hope this could help some people realize and turn things around. Also my native language isn't English so excuse the errors.
- Kosty