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Youtube will not remove video of my daughter! Need help

Discussion in 'YouTube' started by NNvod, Jun 29, 2014.

  1. NNvod

    NNvod Newbie

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    I searched and this forum came up so I decided to try my luck...
    There are two videos of my daughter that youtube refuses to remove and as a parent I am getting frustrated with the situation so as a last resort, I have come here and hope someone can help me or guide me.
    The video(s) are of my daughter and she is of legal age and the videos are embarrassing to her as they feature her singing and the person who uploaded them does NOT want to remove them no matter how much we have tried to reason with the person.
    Is there ANY way we can have them removed without having to pay!? We cannot afford to at this time which is why I am here. I desperately need help.
    Or if someone has a guide on how to make a bot (I think it's called?) that will remove the videos instantly? We have flagged them and filed a complaint but youtube does not want to remove them.
    If you have any advice or can help in any way, please reply.
    Thank you
     
  2. Reyone

    Reyone Elite Member

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    As far as I know you won't be able to remove them unless you are to take legal action.

    Share the links so we can take a look at the case and see if by any chance the account could be removed.

    Removed or not, the person could simply reupload them again under another account, so your best bet is to go down the legal road and sue whoever is behind the account.
     
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    Does it look like parenting forum?
     
  4. Lenoh02

    Lenoh02 Junior Member

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    Just DCMA it....
     
  5. fatboy

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    It doesn't look like an agony column either but I have lost count of how many 'Oh my wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/random animal is playing away on me what shall I do, forgive/leave/kill' type posts I have seen, so your point is?

    OP, as the more sensible posts have said if the person behind it won't take them down go the legal way - it may be as easy as getting a lawyer to send a letter to the person and/or YT. They will notice then.

    Saying that if you sent a message to YT it may take a day or so for them to get to it - guess they get a few complaints a day!
     
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    Tanckom Power Member

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    give it to the police, they'll make it, because she's underaged, and it's illegal to put videos/pictures on the net of an underaged child without the permission of the parents, so yeah facebook would be illegal too, but nobody reports that, so they are okay with it..
     
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    Hard to believe someone who just joined today and asking how to remove a video.
     
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    Tanckom Power Member

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    What about if we send massive fake view to the video and they'll remove it?

    With imacros and reloading the page 1000 times...

    or do they just take the views away?
     
  9. NNvod

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    Thanks for the replies.
    The reason we haven't taken legal action is because we didn't think it would be necessary for something like this and we didn't want a long drawn out process, but I see we might have to now..
    We wanted a quick solution to end it because it's spreading like wildfire and we're also not sure the person who uploaded it has it saved so she probably couldn't upload it again but who knows.
     
  10. NNvod

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    This person just wanted to mock my daughter because she has a disability and unfortunately wasn't aware of what they (and a few other girls) were doing when they filmed her.
    Just wanted to clarify; We have filed complaint and flagged but they refuse to remove.
     
  11. NNvod

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    Yes, that's what we will do because she might have it saved and upload it again.
    That's probably for the best and just wanted to say: If you EVER see videos where someone is intentionally mocking a person, please flag it! Even if you can't see the person clearly, someone who knows them might and spread it and try to embarrass the person , especially if they hear a voice. It's plain bullying behavior and shouldn't be tolerated no matter what.
    Use your hacking skills for something good!
    Thanks again!
     
  12. Zaheen

    Zaheen Registered Member

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    Sorry but quite frankly it's best if you just LEAVE it alone. Dont bother with it and if you pursue a legal action your video might get famous instead. There's no real easy way to deal with this. John Oliver's video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r-ERajkMXw0 "Right to be forgotten" Sort of explains it.
     
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    No offense OP, but was this not featured on Catfish recently,
    a similar situation?
     
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    If its still up there, PM me the link .... that is once you can pm . and ill take it down no prob :)
     
  15. NNvod

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    Thank you, just finished watching that. Very interesting. And he does have a point, doesn't he.
    Not quite sure what the right thing to do is in this situation. Have to think about it.
     
  16. NNvod

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    I'm afraid I don't know what that is? I have heard the term before in dating type scenarios, is that the same thing? I think I have read about it before.
     
  17. Peter Ngo

    Peter Ngo Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    Not sure if this works but I heard mass flaggin help? Try to create some accounts and flag it.

    Give it a try buddy.
     
  18. NNvod

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    I would but I don't know if it's the right thing to do since it might spread? Like the streisand effect in the video above? It's a kind offer though, I appreciate it. Just a little too risky perhaps.
     
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    Ummm its 2014 baby!!! Youtube makes it the wild west for video deletes.


    PM me the URL, I will send the video some views. Then all you have to do is wait 1 - 4 weeks, and bada bing! The video will be gone!
     
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    Claim a copyright. It's your video so claim it's your video footage.