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You love someone. but they don't love you, do you wait for them or move on?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by starcity83, Oct 17, 2011.

  1. starcity83

    starcity83 Regular Member

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    You love someone. but they don't love you, do you wait for them or move on?
     
  2. Essence19

    Essence19 BANNED BANNED

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    Move on my friend -and if they don't come back to you - YOu will know the love was not REAL!!!!
     
  3. courier

    courier Newbie

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    Move on. What else can you do?
     
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  4. Ewokson

    Ewokson Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    Move on, way more fish in the sea ;)
     
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  5. jimbodmit

    jimbodmit Junior Member

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    Man up and move on... there is but one woman in this world.... one woman with many faces ;)
     
  6. ahiddenman

    ahiddenman Elite Member

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    There is always another girl around the corner who you will love and she will love you back :)

    Believe me , Somethings are worth getting over !
     
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  7. MojoSoDope

    MojoSoDope Regular Member

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    From what I've experienced man, is this:

    It takes two to make things right.

    If you love someone and they don't love you, then there's nothing
    you can do about it, you can't make someone love you, give them
    a chance, but if they don't show any signs of commitment back, then
    just move on.

    -MojoSoDope
     
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  8. MakeLemonade

    MakeLemonade Junior Member

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    Go date other women. Any experience you get can help you get this girl if you still want her.
     
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  9. SahL

    SahL Elite Member

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    1 : Try and Cry for days and than move on.

    2 : Move on now Enjoy life and if that some one realises what they lost, let them try and cry.

    Either ways your gonna have to move on. The 2nd option actually works like magic.
     
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  10. BENNY8877

    BENNY8877 Supreme Member

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    Months from now you either won't even remember her name or you will be kicking yourself for even giving her a chance. Time is all that is needed to get over someone, that or a good replacement.
     
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  11. thedon23

    thedon23 Elite Member

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    Move on. This is how I look at it:

    Why should I love someone who doesn't love me?

    I know it's sort of confusing, but really think about it. The whole point of love is to be with someone who loves you for YOU. If she doesn't love you, screw it (no pun intended). :p
     
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  12. howdareyou

    howdareyou Newbie

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    Respect her lack of interest.

    The pain sucks and there's nothing you can do about it. We've all been there at some point.

    Not wanting to give false hope, but she may just need some space. Backing off once actually got me the girl in the end (surprisingly enough).

    If you want to be really blackhat try making her jealous. Social proof, competition and exclusivity can work wonders, provided the girl has any interest to begin with. Read Cialdini for more information. There's no moral justification for it, of course, but then again you do work in marketing.
     
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  13. latox

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    Move on, it may seem hard at first, but give it time.

    You can't force someone to love you, a relationship is mutual.

    Move on and find something to occupy your self and keep your thoughts off her (A rebound girlfriend is always good).

    Months from now you won't even think about her.

    This is a true white hat method ;)
     
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  14. Roparadise

    Roparadise BANNED BANNED

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    This is a black hat form,why no blackhat answers?

    1. Hire a P.I. to find out as much as possible about the girl
    2. Hire a psychologist to tell you more about what kind of person she is,and what she would like in a guy.
    3.If you can become the type of guy she wants,by just changing your attitude,maybe going to gym etc. Do that
    4. Social Engineer her to like her by using NLP.
    5.Never let her find out about steps 1-4.
     
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  15. KarmaPolice

    KarmaPolice Registered Member

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    Move on Bro
    Love aint going to Happen with just one person putting the effort
     
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  16. djhickory

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    move on bro , 50 % of people get divorced, you got some slim chances on shit panning out :eek:
     
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    Are you from team Bartman?
     
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  18. GreenGoblin

    GreenGoblin BANNED BANNED

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    Or, u can sit across the street from her house and just watch her from a distance, like a stalker that will surely turn her on.
     
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    pwcbb11 Junior Member Premium Member

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    pharcyde-otha fish

    That or hit Plenty of fish.;) You'll never think about it again. Keep ur head up. Don't wait for them ,make millions on BHW
     
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