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You Are Where You Deserve To Be In Life: Your Deserve It Factor

Discussion in 'Making Money' started by Euphorix, Nov 29, 2015.

  1. Euphorix

    Euphorix Supreme Member

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    Many of you may not know this, but I actually come from a social dynamics background. Up until about a year and a half ago I thought I wanted to become a lifestyle development and/or dating coach.


    Let's rewind: I live in the Silicon Valley. When I was roughly 18 my best friend gave me a program that his father gave him: Cocky Comedy by David Deangelo.


    I became obsessed with dating and cold approach pickup


    Cold approach is the art of seeing a complete stranger, walking up to her without knowing anything about her, and then sparking attraction in her.


    I had previously thought that I was good with women (as most men do).. but I was horribly wrong. Here's how I improved:


    Me and my friends would go to upper end locations every single day for four to eight hours a day and interact with women. I would go to school early in the morning, skip all my classes, hit the library, and just read books on attraction, evolution, sex, and social dynamics. I attended seminars, bought programs, and watched HUNDREDS.. if not THOUSANDS of hours of in field footage. I broke down my outings in detail, learned, and improved until at last


    I got scary good. Better than anyone I know.. and back then I knew A LOT of guys with wicked game


    Here's how that^ relates to Making Money:


    I learned that you don't attract what you want


    YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE. I LEARNED THAT YOU GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU DESERVE.


    When I was going out 24/7 and my social skills were fantastic, I became attractive to women and I attracted attractive women.


    When I was hitting the gym for three hours every day, counting my calories and learning about my health, I was in the best shape of my life


    If we looked inside YOUR bank account right now, we would see exactly how much money you deserve to have.


    If we looked at your ranking on this forum, we'd see exactly where you deserve to rank.


    What are you actively doing to increase your net worth? What books are you reading, what seminars are you attending, what classes or programs are you taking?


    Learning here on BHW is amazing, but is it enough? How would BlackHatWorld be different if every single member read five books and bought five programs before their next post? I'm going to guess that the level of sophistication around our discussions here would elevate a level


    I've provided several learning sources below so that you can UP your deserve it factor


    Books I've recently read and find valuable


    The 4 Hour Work Week -Timothy Feriss
    Your First 100 Million -Dan Pena
    The Total Money Makeover -Dave Ramsey
    Who Moved My Cheese -Spencer Johnson
    The 10x Rule -GRant Cardone
    Money. Master the Game -Tony Robbins
    The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People
    Unlimited Power -Antony Robbins
    How to Win Friends and Influence People -Dale Carnegie


    Blogs I'm currently learning from


    http://blog.dotcomsecrets.com/
    http://fourhourworkweek.com/blog/
    http://feinternational.com/blog/
    http://www.serplogic.com/
    https://www.sycosure.com/blog/
    http://www.tailopez.com/blog/


    Youtube Channel that I watch


    https://www.youtube.com/user/LondonRealTV


    Plug into these learning resources and begin earning financial freedom
     
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  2. lightningblitz

    lightningblitz Elite Member

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    Another former 'Dating Coach'. I should have seen it coming.

    Coming from our industry you should have some amazing tricks to market. That explains a lot.
     
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  3. conglica

    conglica Junior Member

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    you are absolutely right...when you step up your game and become "chick hunter" you get what you deserve...
    you get "cock hunter" bimbos who like and would fall for someone like you, so actually yes, you get thrash like yourself

    why would anyone take advice from unhappy person?
    changing partners is sign of being unhappy, immaturity and lack of morals...
    living like that, just makes you believe that you are doing something, while you are actually doing nothing at all...
    is there really some valuable advice one could get from such person? from person whose very existence yells "I NEED HELP"?
    you are right, there is not any

    so, what is the point in listening to some "experts" of that kind, when all they do is fill their hollow life with shallow and fake things?

    it is okay if you read books, but you have to keep in mind that not everything written in them should be like that...
    just remember that if those people knew what they are doing, you would not see any kind of those books coming from them
     
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    reinie Elite Member

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    I like the share of books you are reading, Definitely writing them down. Thanks
     
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  5. Psmaniaboy

    Psmaniaboy Newbie

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    This is definitely something people need to realize. The environment that you put yourself in is what changes you. People who work out will tend to stay in shape since they are constantly surrounded by fit people. Same with being social and attracting women. If anyone wants to be financially free, start with changing your environment. That can be the places you hang out at and even your own friends that don't really support your goals. Surround yourself with knowledge and let it change you into a person that can accomplish their own goals.
     
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    hekke Senior Member

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    I think we all have watched some hundred hours of "field footage".

    Let's call it what it is, porn.
     
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    Nice post man, very interesting. Personally I am not good at making people attracting to me, that's a skill I'd love to have :)
     
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    Great post man, I agree with you, "I have what I deserved"
     
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  9. Euphorix

    Euphorix Supreme Member

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    ^All making sense now. Where do you live? We should link up

    Lemme Freak Man

    Cheers! They definitely changed my life.

    100%. You change your peer group you have a perspective shift, you have a perspective shift and your actions change, you change your actions and your life changes :)

    Doesn't have to be in person initially either. You can do it through books, programs, classes, and youtube videos.

    Lmao, I was moreso referring to analytically breaking down clips like this https://youtu.be/8tD8WR0n45Q

    It's all about your learning resources. If understanding the psychology behind male/female interactions is a journey you really want to dive into check out these two Youtube channels

    https://youtu.be/4qDvDFcsnkQ
    https://youtu.be/XGMpn6BMDos

    Cheers!
     
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    lightningblitz Elite Member

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    I am in Michigan. Not into the dating industry. Most likely because I settled down. The good ol' days.
     
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    Euphorix Supreme Member

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    That's awesome. Sounds like you found someone really special: Good for you blitz :)
     
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    There is definite truth in your words. Great resources included with the motivation. Way to go Euphorix.
     
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    Cheers! Thought I'd come back here and point out for any of your BHW enthusisasts that http://feinternational.com/blog/ is Thomas's blog from this thread. They just sold a 6 figure website
     
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    Got her with all 'PUA' tactics. At the time I was teaching guys (That is a hard job to explain when doing interviews and meeting parents) how to do it. Weird world I was in. I think you know exactly what I am talking about.
     
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    Sitting here laughing out loud. Fully understanding
     
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    I got into seduction (hate the term PUA) the same time Eban Pagan did. Literally back when he started posting on fastseduction.com forums under the name Sisonpyh. Or "hypnosis" backwards.

    Even made a huge thank you thread addressed to him on that forum when I lost my virginity. Then the thread got derailed over a controversial "technique" I used.

    That was the first time I ever heard the term PYCO (pull your cock out). I got a girl to my place. Was making out. Got a boner. My whole sex life on that forum was plagued with a long stint of failed make out sessions. But that day I don't know what was going through my head. I think the sexual frustration made me snap. So like a ninja, I casually slipped out my junk as we were kissing. She didn't even notice till 2 mins later when I backed my head away. Then she looked down, I quickly looked away prep'n for a punch.... a couple seconds later feel this incredibly wet & warm sensation. Look down & her head is bobbing. I put my head back like Jesus. Then feel this really weird, forceful sensation. For a brief second I thought she just sat on my cock. Then I hear the choking... I'm focusing, looking... where did.... my cock? Oh my Jesus? THATS a throat?! I can't do this. She's has to stop. JESUS, I lied to you about being an atheist. I believe in you. I do. believe I believe I believe.

    I tolerated that less than 30 seconds, stood up, threw her over my shoulder with my jeans round my knees tripping over stairs .... bodyslammed her on the bed... put the rubber on.... tectonic plates shifted at least .125MM that day.

    But seriously, I was glad I lost my virginity while learning seduction. Under the advice of a man I still respect 10+ years later. If my highschool GF gave it up it would have been way too PG. The way I lost it was proper XXX. I barely knew the girl. She was a filthy, sexy whore. My GF never throated. Never let me motorboat. Never let me use her body like a cum rag. This girl let me do everything. Which is why when I climax'd it went right through the rubber, through the ceiling and took down Hubble Satellite for 3 days. LOL.

    After that I started a lair in Central NJ. Studied psychology in college while going out 4 nights a week approaching left and right. I got really fearless in my approaches. Learned NLP. Read every book on Ebans list. Had my first 3some while in the seduction community.

    These days I've mostly grown up (whatever that means). But I've found virtually everything I learned in seduction has value in business and marketing. I'd go as far as saying the shit seduction teaches is more important than a lot of the crap you read on here. Cause marketing to me is 90% psychology and 10% technology. You get that psych thing figured out the world is yours.

    I also don't believe game fades. I heard that a lot early on. You gotta go out 4 nights a week and always do this shit otherwise you'll lose it. That's only a little bit true. What happens you just assimilate & incorporate all the things you learned into other aspects of life as you evolve. So the skills remain, they just change form.

    -BB
     
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  17. Euphorix

    Euphorix Supreme Member

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    Wow. OG from the RTFM days: Props

    I definitely agree with a lot of what you said- I've found that social dynamics (also don't really like the whole "PUA" thing) has been one of my biggest assets in internet marketing 100%.

    I also know what you mean about the game fades thing. I haven't gone out in a couple months.. been working 12-16 hour days.. but I still feel the social skills kicking in 24/7


    PS Lmao at the atheist thing.. I learned NLP from Ross Jeffries and started with routines. Transitioned out of all that though