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Worst day ever, life hates me - [RANT]

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Revolate, Sep 19, 2012.

  1. Revolate

    Revolate Regular Member

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    I'm 19 years old, just passed my driving test about 5-6 month ago and got myself a decent car, insurance was £2500, expensive but at my age that's good.

    I missed one payment due to helping my mother out with money and I knew I could pay them this Friday. As far as I knew I was insured, as I had no letters etc saying the policy was cancelled.

    I drove to the takeaway tonight with my brother to get some food (litrally 2 minute drive) on the way back police follow me to my house and next thing I know I'm in the back of the police car.

    Basically to cut this shit story short before I cry, they've took my car, £150 recovery fine, £20 a day after that, min of 6 points to go on my license, so I'm banned as I'm a new driver. I also then have to go to court and pay a min fine of £200.

    The only way I can get my car back is if I get insured again, but I can't afford a £400+ deposit down to get Insured and dish out £150 (min) to get my car back.

    Mean while on the radio I hear that someone is getting stabbed and that theres a drunk driver near by...

    I've been fucked over so bad, end of the day it's my fault though. Just thought I would rant and get it off my chest, fucking gutted is not the word. Spent £1000+ on driving lessons and took me ages to afford anything like this. :(

    dskgmnfghjnpdfjhdfphjpdfjhpdfjhdfnjklnasdj;vf - still got rage, anyone else had a similar story? Seriously I have the WORST luck ever.
     
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  2. ethanmitchel

    ethanmitchel Regular Member

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    I hope things get better for you. I'll say a prayer for you.
     
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  3. erniedawg

    erniedawg Junior Member

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    Dude, I've had my license suspended 6 times.... you're young. It comes with the terittory. It'll hurt for a bit but you'll learn from your mistakes. Next time make sure you have all of your papers and documentation before you drive a vehicle. Remember it could have been a lot worst. What if someone accidentally got killed by you driving? Jail time? Your parents being sued? You being sued?

    Your fines are not much. You'll get by.

    -erniedawg
     
  4. Revolate

    Revolate Regular Member

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    I know what your saying, just can't dish out £800+ in a week, crazy how shit like this happens. - I was insured just missed a payment by a week and a bit basically so they cancelled it, which I never knew about, shit happens I guess!
     
  5. erniedawg

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    Yep been there and done it all. Hopefully someone can help you out with the cash and you can pay them back slowly. If you lose the car. F it! Its just a car. You'll get a better one later on. Everyone does. It's just a matter of time.
     
  6. dariobl

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    Maybe you should ask your parents or, if your bro is older and employed, to get some sort of a loan to help you out? Later when you earn cash you can pay back the loan, it could help you.

    I wish you good luck mate.
     
  7. Revolate

    Revolate Regular Member

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    I only live with my Mother and my brother is 17 and he goes to college so he has no money, mother doesn't work either, not going to go on about some shitty hard done by life either, but basically no on can help me, life goes on though, and cheers for the good luck, I'll need it.
     
  8. icering87

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    I think thats the best part of this forum, you think you have a problem until someone post and lets you know you're problem isn't shit in comparison. BHW never fails with dishing out reality checks.
     
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  9. dariobl

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    Yeah i had those days also, i am also living only with my mother since my father left me when i was 2 years old. My mom is a self employed and you know, sometimes it goes well sometimes not, and we had those hard days, that's why i stopped university to start making cash online and help us. Thank God, everything is good now, we are both earning well. You need to think positive and positive will happen, keep up the hard work and you will make it. Sun always comes up after the rain :) Just try to not think on a bad things during these bad days.
     
  10. Revolate

    Revolate Regular Member

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    Cheers for the comments guys, going to just crack on with my website, can't be fucked on at the moment, still doesn't feel real what's just happened.
     
  11. John.

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    Can you not recover the car using a "recovery truck" or similar type vehicle? Surely it wouldn't need to be insured if it was being carried/towed?
     
  12. Revolate

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    Because I wasn't insured they've taken the vehicle, wouldn't matter either way. - I was outside my house too.
     
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    My Grandmother, the love of my life, was just admitted into the hospital for ANOTHER possible heart attack this month. She just got out of major surgery last week and is now not able to keep anything down.

    I'm sorry you are having a shitty day, but I would take money issues over health care issues anyday.
     
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    Dude, I feel your pain....Insurance are just terrible people who shouldn't be allowed to operate because of their ruthless business ethics, they actually introduced mortgages so that they could reposes people's homes and auction them if they failed to pay. Thank God the banks and government intervened and remodeled the entire thing to what it is today.

    KIND WORDS: No matter what you went through today, you still have one priceless thing to be thankful for....your life! Money and material stuff come and go.....but you only have one life throughout, thank God for it.
     
  15. kiminono

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    Your insurance company will tell you whenever they get round to it might be next week you never know. Also some (if not all) insurers take premiums in arrears which means missing a premium gets you screwed. No doubt they're also in collusion with the police (I love conspiracies) hence payment in arrears. It would be nice if the cops occasionally saved a life and not chase down ppl who miss one premium. .

    TBH worse things can, will and do happen. You'll miss your car but you'll get it back or get another one.
     
  16. steelballs

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    If this is all you have to worry about in life - you are a very lucky young man - now you have a very minor problem - so guess what time to grow up and deal with it!
     
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  17. browsing_hosts

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    At least you had a car I have passed for over a year now and am still a bus wanker, lol. I am just saving up to make sure my first car is a Mercedes Benz and till I can afford the insurance, not long to go with how things seem to be going maybe next year. ;)
     
  18. ja1myn

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    Lol wow. No offense man but your story made me realize how great of a day I had.
     
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  19. Chris22

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    Could be worse, you could be gary glitters family..
     
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  20. zen19

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    Trust me, you will have much worse days, and maybe on those days you will care more about someone else other than yourself.

    Get a car you can afford the insurance on, stop draining everyone elses premiums.
     
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